Show 7 tho the graco grace of express at ng it thero aro are people la in tho the world with very kind hearts who yet hurt others othera simply from frona not using that power of express expression iou which surely all love hae in ia more or less degroo degree others Ol liera tire troubled with a painful orve which prevents them from giving to their feelings oc linga although they may b bo a very warm warin and very cory deep deal and they aro are 0 aften woefully misunderstood by it choss ose about tennyson tells of a certain shy ellon adair who though dying for her lover caused herself to bo be go in misunderstood by life him that lie left her uttering snob stinging yards words that they broke the alio poor cirlo heart unit when upon his hia return lie ho found how bow grievously they had mis conceived onah each giber lie ha wrote upon her tombstone hero lies ilia the body of ellon adair and here bero the alio heart orE Jward uray raj it is is terrible to thick what mischief has boon wrought among children atia ciui yuang people by this baut of 0 tho the power of anthe on the martof part of parents bud and teachers now how many a a child las haa been almost ruined by parents who never saw that he was trying his bis very utmost to legai elemil le oai or oril if they sm saw it nour never did na as lyman beecher ditl with lis hia let them know thal lie bo itaw and appreciated tho the not act however slight it may appear to bo be A lit alo follow fellow has haa bom been reading of somo some young hero who helped lis his father and I 1 mother in all morts of ways una and after racking his brains to think how bow ho he too can help he be remembers that lie he can fetch his othor ft fat bers hor slip slippers porm ond and take his hia boots away and put pat them in their proper place without saying baying a word to 10 anybody when evening comes ho he does docs it but bat the futher father is ii so BO occupied that le he notions not what the iho boy has done the little follow hopes on thinking that when ho he goes to bod bell his bia father will say bay how pleased sod he was to sea BOO charley so BO willing to help hell but not hot it word is uttered and the boy goes all to beil bed with it a choking fooling in his hid throat rod u bay a bia prayer by thebo daido with i badness ade ivery very real in his hid heart par IM befits often complain of children not joing being so BO ready to help us as they should be jeaba the fault is with tho tha parents who have not known cnown how to evoke feelings with nth which the heart of evelly child is 11 richly stored A little girl has bullied battled bravely with herself and got up early our OR on a banday morning done dona many lit little f IS th bilings I 1 bugs her mother hurried over her breakfast and got to hoi her school in timo time there has been her teacher stiff und and cold with just a nod doll of recognition for the child and ami nothing more without knowing exactly why the little scholar bits felt very tory sat sail how delighted she alie aou would ill have been it the teacher lim bad with hand kiu kin ily draban her har to her side bijo and said with a beaming face how pleased she was to see nee lot hur at so school leal so BO early II if p rents and teachers would but bat to this thia grace of how bow good it would bel be I 1 many blasi exer ciso also the grace in in a way which makes one wish they were bereft of the power altogether for they ore are forever hading finding fault they uro are troubled knitli a COQ con selections Boien tiona conviction that way they enst in look for tho the defaults in fit those about them of course coarse they flad and them and then they are pointed out oat in a way that cruelly wounds a highly conscientious co a sensitive and incel culpable harm is done it is quito quite remarkable what results havo have followed from even one simple expression 0 of loving approval whon when john gibson was a little boy he be is said to till have bavo sat tit at tho cottage window sketching some goose geese that but wore ivere pa passing 9 lie showed the sketch to his me mother ther well done dona I 1 she said oaid t t very nice nice I 1 should try fry again it if I 1 w were era you iia he tried again and became the world renowned ron owned sculptor benjamin njamin Ue west when about five years old was loft left ono summer day in in the tha garden with a baby coasin ile ho made a rude of the child why said aid the do delighted lighted in other mother 1 I he has sketched little sally I 1 he ha made other sketches after that and become became lie iho favorite pointer painter of george III and president ol of the royal koyl academy years ago a land fond runt aunt said to a boy who hall had written out a gleea of poetry in short hand band 11 will why Y you to be 0 a short shorthand hand writer in tho the bouso I 1 ion so of commons some acme lay day I 1 P and tho the prediction has been fulfilled pleasant helpful and never forgot ton are ao all such words of approval in a large larga family thero there have hava been joys days ol of anxiety and anti caro care the alaert daughter by lor her skill in teaching has haa earned a little extra money an bud 1 without a word wora to any one she aho lays joys nearly all of it out in buying things that are much needed in ia the house what joy ellla her heart when a toad fond mother takes her aside abide and with emotion that cannot bo be concealed says how thankful shu Is ia for such considerate kindness 8 and murmurs 1 I dont know what we se should do witti with ut at you darling music III is and will often leal heal a wounded heart but bat the m ansome words of approval uttered by ono wo we love are sweeter still for they are as balm when they are spoken anti and in in after dys days days daya of it darkness aud of sorrow they return upon the tha with heeling on their wings |