| Show Dear Louisa It I Iam am a girl in high school and have a a. a boy friend about my same age He says lie he is crazy about I me m bu but he doesn't act like it He HeI I always wants to go out with me but he doesn't stay with me if I wont won't go He goes somewhere else felse Do you think he really reany cares for forme forme forme me or is he trying to make a monkey out of me me Lonesome Lonesome Tenn Tenn Answers A bo boy who always wants to take a girl off orr somewhere and does not care to be seen in her company is in your own own words evidently trying trying try try- ing to make a monkey out of you I wonder if you are behaving yourself properly when you are out with him alone Some girls gills are areso areso areso so eager for a little attention that they let boys take liberties with them for a little cheap popularity If that is why your friend is s dating dating dating dat dat- ing you OU you will have yourself a alot alot alot lot of heartache and md embarrassment embarrassment embarrassment embarrass embarrass- ment later on by ending this affair right now Dear Louisa I am a girl of seventeen and a senior in high school I have been dating a young man who is about twelve years ears older than I am Mother like him all right but she says that a girl of my age can can- mot go to school and study and date a man that much older that she is So what must I do I r like this person very much Mary Answer I think it is a better plan for school girls to go with boys hoys nearer nearer nearer near near- er their own ages ages ages' rather than some someone orte one so much older An older man who goes with girls so much young younger er than he is either serious enough to be thinking of marriage or is up to no good as a usual thing I agree with your mother that it will be hard for you ou to study with a man who is s almost thirty years of your age Louisa Dear ear Louisa I have been going with a girl for about a year and think 1 I amin am amin amin in love with her She is very and vivacious and I feel eel that I could be happy with her but for forone forone forone one thing I am not sure of her herand herand herand and I cant can't feel that she would be betrue betrue betrue true to me if I were away for a along along along long time I come from a family where there was never any thought o of husbands and wives not being faith faithful faithful ful to each other but this girls girl's mother and father are divorced and married again She doesn't have the same ideas about marriage marriage marriage mar mar- that I have and thinks I am ama a bit old Would you go on ort and take a chance with her or do you think the risk of unhappiness is too great Youn Man Man Del Del Answer If I were a young man and considering considering considering con con- marriage the thc first thing I would look for in a wife would be loyalty and truse Beauty is like icing on a cake cake it it adds to the whole enjoyment if the basic part of the cake is there but taken by of it itself one soon has enough You are arc probably infatuated with this girl but if her only attraction attraction attraction at at- traction for you a present is a physical physical physical phy phy- one you will be unwise to marry many her There is so much much to marriage than meer physical physical physical phy phy- attraction attraction although although I think that is is' an important part pait of life There is affection tenderness consideration congeniality and faith in each other Physical attraction attraction attraction at at- traction passes or dims as the years go by but these other factors factors factors fac fac- tors become deeper and more abiding abiding abid abiding ing the longer two people who begin begin begin be be- gin with them live together And what is beauty to one person person person per per- son may leave another one cold Some women who haven't one good feature are adored by their husbands and are beautiful to these thes men because they love them Many who could star in the movies are arc unattractive to others So there is something to the old ola adage about beauty being only skin deep after all Louisa Dear Louisa The boy I am engaged to works in the same office with me and his salary is not very much larger than the one I get But he will not let me pay for anything when we weare weare weare are on dates Dont Don't you think this x is foolish of him Odelle Ohio Odelle-Ohio Ohio Answer Some young men get an inferior feeling when they let a girl share expenses and your friend is evidently evidently evidently evi evi- dently one of these There are many ways in which you can help help- however even if they are not so obvious as coming up with cash when a bill is re re- re- re One of these is by having I Ithe the young man to meals in in your home or fixing up lunches on occasions You may also have tickets which have been given you you even even though the giver is a parent parent to to plays or other entertainments |
