Show J 9 Of 6 g Wom Whom m men n 0 g By max mac OKell Do JJ not HOt fl marry V Q 9 JU w B V V AV J V 0 oo oooo oo 6 I TT 7 13 E men are am not so silly sl ly as af a many women om en believe us to be We do d 0 not V Vl marry women because they are pretty because they are arc smart and I dress well because they sing dance or ride well we do not even marry m women whom we admire for tor their wit style or beauty on the con contrary contrary we ve ofte ftc ft navoid no YOI d them thein and above abo e all the women whom we do not marry are pre those who amuse us u uVe We Ve like them we wc frequent them we do all sorts of 01 things for tor them and I with them but we do d not marry them If girls who want to marry maro only knew what qualities and attainments j sensible men m ell generally s n eral y require in their wives they would use much less powder and snot Hoot and proceed In qu quite e C a different way I First of all men real men hate u omen who run after them and even the very ery appearance p drance of so 50 doing is 15 against them Dresses jewelry violet I powder and perfumes amuse am se men but do not Induce them on the road that leads to the altar unless they are fools I U t Is i cheerfulness and naturalness In a woman which suggest to toa a man manof manof of or character chara the idea ot or marrying marCing her hE A man resents the slightest adT ad advances I vances that a woman may zany purposely pur or indiscreetly make more than that he does not nol no even like to hear her say sa that thai she loves him It makes him happy to know that she does but she must not tell teU him except c perhaps once mice in the lowest almost inaudible whisper A man wants to conquer and that is where the tact ct and the diplomacy of a J doman come In she has to let him feel that It Is he who has won The Thc dut duty of ot a woman Is to resist to always alwa s However H wever much she may crave cruye to say 1 yes she must say no for a long time but there are areso ar arto so to 04 man many ways was to say no Leave It to him he lie h knows how to translate a wo we womans womans mans no The reason why women often full fall to to arrive atrie at right conclusions on the ot of the type of woman men admire and marry maro Is because man In his relations with the feminine world Is dishonest almost beyond d hope of redemption I through politeness and sometimes from less worthy motives he h pretends to admire and even cen encourage manners which in his wife or his sister he would condemn with unmistakable sincerity If It women who allow themselves to l be e thus led on could only hear what 1 men say of them In the smoking room Miss such a jolly girl You g get gt t lots Iota of fun out of ot her She has al ai the men after her And true she has all nh but one no Women who amuse men may have a good I time until they marry a young youns Idiot or a e stupid old fool There are other women whom men do not marry There is nothing that thata a nine mar dreads ds more in a woman than acridity A smart tongue kills all the th pit spec ts of f a woman In the thai th matrimonial market Ar At assertive woman witha with a sharp tongue and nd a biting wit Is Invited to dinner to entertain two men between whom she is placed at table she is welcome at afternoon teas and at homes hom fI clever cever men like to meet her herand herand and have a 3 chat with her but no man Is anxious to marry her and earn tha th title of husband We W a know of Madame de Stel but liti who on earth ear ever heard of or Monsieur de dd Those women are extinguishers of men me and shunned by them themA A 4 man who ho gives herself airs stands no chance In the competition for mimic male favor C or Easy manners unpretentious natural behavior do not mean want of dignity No dignity Is so o charming none so royal Toyal as that which never ob obtrudes obtrudes obtrudes itself upon society but which is just a harmonious part of ot a beau balanced balanc d character c I have felt ill iii at ease with wives wies of rich English and American par parvenus parVenus venus I have hae felt absolutely ab comfortable In the society of the leaders of French and English society and In the presence of royal ro al ladies ladles A man m n who enjoys all aU the qualities of a man and the refinement of a gentleman marries a woman who is cheerful intelligent simple natural and unselfish To that woman he devotes his life |