Show q I The e J By Kathleen athleen Kaye aye Queries Quales to department boul should I be br to III liS K Department Salt lake Herald Salt Lake ke Utah All MI communications maul maRt b tw M written In Ink and sad on one elde hie of ot the pap paper r only full name came and address of ot writer app nde nde-d. nde lj o alj-o name orzie or Initials to tx- tx used for tor Id Idea Ion Uon In column All AU name nama sal and to b bs be held beld In strictest t confidence V I the nature of ot which pub publication will trill III b b- anse answered d Privately i I For o I or tc phone Wasatch 77 between tween 11 1 and 12 11 e o Dear Ml Kaye i iI I l. l lr i never rIHn in to you yo 11 i but I J rend your column eer ecer every day not and andI I think you ou must most be very erT wine to tu aun au- au n cr HO o 0 ninny In MUCh n a way nT und I nm om sure lure yOU yon 00 van can cantell vantell tell me what lint I want ont to I know oo I nm am 16 neil nm ant a n Moth Moth- cr yr Trill not allow nIlow mr mf to KO go u out with TUb my any In of my hOT boy friends nOtI It moke me mc feel fed badly to hare bare to mole make an ex excuse ox- ox cuse cuc every time one of them him AUm All AU me lo Co KO go with m my girl m my age KO go 0 out and nod seem em to have n a Rood good tulle time IleaNe tell me mc what hat you think nl out It It JACKIE J Salt Snit Lake Like The years arc are not so long since IG that 1 I cannot feel keenly still the trying try try- ing position you ou now hold Somo Some memories aro are kept over ever alive This Is Isone isone 3 one of or mine mint My greatest wish is that you OU might see this really as it IsNOW Is NOW OV instead of or having to look back upon it from rom tho the vantage point of or the hills beyond the valley you ou are aro now passing through Nothing othin Is ever as bad bail as It seems know seems know that and ancl let it console you ou while wo we go on to try I t to effect a compromise I Im I'm iii sorry for tor the unfair strain that Just naturally seems scents to get shifted on ona a 1 girl at this time There must bo be a mistaken plan of 01 presenting tho case caseI caseto caseto I to the sWe sweet l. l young things s else elso there would not be this typical unrest and discontent and an Impatience on their part at merely merel bein required to do what is rl ht and best beat for all concerned con con- and and MOST ESPECIALLY the protection and promotion of or PI VERY RY V O OWN INTERESTS J And while I Im I'm dL sorry for you you SorrY 1 sorry l because bec-ause ause o of the tho you nom LUward iu- iu ward the situation situation MOTHER IS RIGHT There Is no other way J. if II you rou would conserve e tho the best and finest and sweetest sweetest sweet sweet- est and loveliest of oC which you ou arc are Capable ca capable capable ca- ca pable then you OU must bo be willing to be conservative to be patient and wait walt the proper time an and place for the various various various va va- va- va rious events e of oC life Otherwise the balance would he be tipped tippe an and once tipped It can never quite bo be swung back hack the best lies tics dead In the empty empt husks of WHAT MIGHT HAVE HAYE BEEN Mother other is right And tho the fact that tho the world orld holds so few careful mothers as to make them conspicuous is deplorable and deplorable and more mores more's s the tho pity For with the greater reater freedom free tree I dom dam on all aU sides comes the necessity I I of greater care on lh the part of the few Cew of wisdom So be proud of or your mother moth moth- I er or See Sec her in her true light that light that of or ori stand in he herd d and shoulders above the i standing L n n. n n careless moner u LI uni to the fates to see her daughter safely safely safe safe- ly Jy over o while she indolently pursues her own selfish pleasure or leisure and tho the lines Jines of least resistance resistance- letting letting- the insistent child do as it I wishes regardless regardless' But nut Honey remembering this situation situ situ- atlon allon from Crom other othor years years and and sensing your perturbed feelings e lings I sug suggest est a 3 compromise I know a girl of or Just your age and anel she has a careful mother too And instead of or this girl missing all an the fun of or the parties etc or of ot having ha to go without a bo boy escort the mother goes roes aJon along with the daughter and her little young man When one of ot other her boys asks this girl if It he ma may take the boys asks this girl if it he may take know I cannot go goo without a chaper chaper- chaperon on on and if It he ho is the tho right sort at all aU i ithe the the sort she he should be out with in nn case he responds to the effect that that's quite all an right and the wa way the they go o at the appointed time time time- Mother and the ga gay young youn pair pall When the they arrive Mother Is usually the center cen ter tel of or attraction for a all the tho kiddies know and like her an and when they have ha greeted her phe ho he slips gracefully away aay into some little niche in the balcony balcony bal bal- cony COin or el elsewhere and the young folks s go on with their theil merriment as thou though h she were not there there Willie a all the time the they have protection Thc They neer never ncr nev er or feel her presence say save in case of or emergency when she does docs the natural thing and the day is saved sa where like likely there might save might save for lor her presence presence presence-hc be occasion for gossip or scandal If Ir nothing more When I speak of this sort ort of thing I refer reCer to toa toa a n. flat tire for instance way half be between between be- be tween Thither and md Yon at 1230 a. a m. m So lets let's see sec If we cannot compromise this matter with Mother ask her if I you ou ma may not accept Invitations from the bo boys and depend upon her to lo act as ai chaperon And Ami dont don't hesitate to tomake I make ml the situation clear to the tho boys for to your surprise possibly many I ho hn hoh h have hn ve felt feJt rather un set-un over oer the plan of a c chaperon p And de ar dear dear feel no sensitiveness hene s over O being being- chaperoned chaperone cell l even en though not so many girls are for fora a chaperon always bespeaks f ks culture I hl high h standards and gentility Tr Try for the compromise but remember remember remember ber always al ways MOTHER IS RIGHT I I II Dear Minn ilis II I Kaye ne I 1 I the first firt time thur I 11 have ever Ter I written tao me to Co you ou MO so I hope hOlt you u eon enn help I 1 t-I t I Tn horn on March S. S What day wn It Itt IU i tell loll me ate ho how IT to fix tl m my r hair T I am nm tot t year nr old oM anti and tall for fur formy Ui my nJ nee age I hn base hn brown eyes eye nud hair I that I IN very 17 straight and m my fare Isn't hent fr very tery tnt fat I 3 PI 3 3 nc h e me m. n a lit t of or hooks hook 1 J Ican can con net get at t the library 4 What 4 What nN the Cht chief of or the world orld war nr I Thanking ln yon OU In Your Yours hop hopefully I Ogden 1 Thursday I 2 Draw 2 Draw the hair out about the facein face facein nee I in a t soft oft becoming becoming- line and do the back bac In two braids and fold th them m about the hea head If this is not becoming becom becom- lug ing Indo do it in ono one braid and fasten a abow at atI I bow how of or Ja gay ribbon or a pretty shell clasp at t the napo of the neck I S BIde Betty tt b by Dix Lovey t L Mary r l by Rice LH Little D Daugh- Daugh Jh I I ter O or me uy ay Kur Hur I l by In Wallace and I Ivanhoe I van hoe by bs Scott When hen you OU have ha finished this list list let m me supply you you with another I LosIng I Losing sight of the Golden Rule nule Dear JI IJ I Kayo Kaye I t nm am hack agaIn 1 o bother lother you ou Will 11 you please e help me mc 1 1 i I nm em not very r popular although I try to Co o treat everybody UN rue nice coc at It I 1 am nm unite pretty hut but not prowl proud I help everybody who i need help A Will III you OU please plene tell me Inc how to become more popular 2 2 Will Will ou plene nIl me inc your our I I picture f t I hIve Il n a long v n way ny from you yu un I nod and cannot drop in to take lake a n peak nt at you ou n n. n other gIrls can cnn I I bout About Ion how old do OU Ou think I amt Hope I have e mid not been much trou Lie bIt JUNE ROSES Utah Just a few tew days ago ao June Roses I Imade Imade made a dh discovery which I am going to taJ take this occasion to make use of orto or- or to to 1 the little pass on man many girls who may rend read this In an answer wo to your our query query not not not because I fell that it will apply to lo your our particular case but because it Is s something that be overlooked or taken for forIn for for- In la the general instruction A certain girl had I similar very ery question to yo yot only that she said sho she was n nc lar tar at all aU I suggested that s IS herself herselt sweet and amiable cultivate the habit of ot living llvine Golden Rule which she was was- to ever every phase of or life hIo thatto that j to read good books become become- adherent of ot right living in phases and In general make beautiful mind and body bod- t finally went so far as to i when we talk talked d on the tho phon always J kept ept her voice low low- many man many months of or hone on her part she seemed to pUsh little or nothing The she reiterated again as-aln and a ashe ashe ag she could not fathom what what- possibly be that be-that that there were parent reason for her of ot popularity I asked her to tol to see me And lo 10 ore ere re B reached my desk Eureka desk Eureka all aU her walk was was' loose and B Band sit shi and her carriage ungainly Th Tb ever was not the prime caUlS causi the grief I discovered when e a close My y Dear this girl i spent nearly a year in hard to make herself adorable h b bothered to brush her teeth m t cure her fingernails Her I oily and her hair was vas altogether she presented a a. r i r rI appearance I j could scarcely 1 t f I Imagination to o accept this p pi the girl to whom I had writ t f f 11 lr wl ow 1 l w 11 C v vj nu V. V II 11 I 1 u na LC for tor so ro long long- The thing taken for granted or cover CO general way she sho had omitt though they were details w wn n not flat t conceive of or being neglected girl birJ or woman A So 1 first of or all make and anti sweet maJ make c yourself heal you ou ma may be wholesome ov o over i detail of ot your our grooming T i steps to cultivate a personal do 10 that read The Making aking 0 ot by b Carman You Tod able to get it at most first cla shops but If ie it Is not carrIed carriers little shops it will be bo ord orda you 2 Whenever 2 I can find a who who'll 11 give gho me tue a nice GrecIa instead of the saucy little r rone one the they always put on on all aU you dear kiddies one Un hold this against the not mo me mo 3 Sixteen 3 Sixteen possibly 17 |