Show The BY Kathleen athleen Ka Kaye e I to this department should b ll to Xa Department S Sit Salt lt L Lake Lak e n Timid Herald Salt Sa Late Lat Utah Ii A All MI II mint t be written In la Ink sod and on OD one ocr sl Ide Je of the Iper full n name me anI I address of oC writer appended siJ nIo 1110 o name or Initial to b be need t I fo Joe HOB In column All 11 names name I and aed Dd addresses to no lit h held d In ct strictest st r s. the ibo nl er IC f wide wh publication will be toe answered print t iron lor 1 sen cC or private phone Wasatch between n li 11 4 Dear Ml Kny Kayet J I Thim I Li I the time I J haTe hare written writ- writ ten tei to you but I ant arn sure ure you yon enD con help me 1 I J nm ni not popular at nil all Please t tell me mt ho how I can nn become RIO no 2 2 n. I. I In i. the most mot beautiful In Inthe Inthe Inthe the world orld blonde or brun brunette tte ho hoi isS u is S the be I C S. S I J nm am 14 i years year old Am m I too youn to BO JO to dun f 4 i. i 31 Iy girl friend hn has n II next ned month cnn can I 1 get Iet JI her r for forn fora n a t She hc IN Ii nl also niNo o 14 11 I isy y I come conic t TOOTS y Yes res s Indeed often otten Always 1 does the principle of or cause And nl effect operate To be unpopular Is an nn effect to locate tho the cause Is Isto Istl t to tl be lie able to remove it Unpopularity Unpopular Unpopular- tt ity ItI- hinges cs mostly on two points self points self selfishness and stupidity So my dear turn the searchlight In I inspect and analyze yourself judge your U vantage e points and the situ site from a J. J detached disinterested I standpoint anc and see what sort of ot girl gin ginyou you OU really real trul truly arc are It If you find you ro arc selfish that you ou think oftener of and your our own Interests interest and arid comforts than o of those of at others others oth oth- ers then very likely you arc are striking 1050 to the cau cause e. If It your disposition I IT is not good your lour oUr mannerisms repulsive she sive then you ou arc selfish or you OU would not nt expect people to overlook them Thieves There's no reason why th they y should J If 31 f you ou find ind that you are stupid and thus awkward then you OU cannot expect ex expect ex- ex peet your friends to enjoy you as mucal mUC 1 as thc they would your brighter more graceful more alert sister The Tho VCr very minute you OU prove to your friends that you ou have havo something to offer they'll flock lock about you ou to vie 10 for tor a precious moment to bask in tho the of your our smile So we arrive then at this It is absolutely within tho hands of or the thc Individual as to whether she will willor or will not cot bo be popular she makes her worth to society society only chalks chalk up her credits So dear ask yourself yourself your your- self the tho worn time-worn question To be o or not to be bc and then with the cour- cour l t i nur Ions make mako It Vh t you will n nTo To To assist s I It t you U l In your ur climb I which may not be cas easy I 1 would su suggest suggest sug sug- gest C that you read The Making aking- of or a I. I Girl I h by Eva ga Lovett and Per Personal onal Thomas 2 Oh Olt my dear lets dear lots lot's not get et persona personal personal per per- sona with each other other we we want to be e 2 No indeed you OU are aTe not too young 0 to go so to dances dances It If thc they are planned and Iran d for tor the Of course ourse it would be In ver very bad taste I anti and entirely all wrong for you OU to at attend attend at- at tend grownup dances Grown folk end ind the v. v oeo ee ee ones should always keep amusements and entertainment separate separ separ- ate ate absolutely absolutely 4 4 Give her a I. I box bos of or pretty colored or or one of the books I m above She would be delighted de de- cle- cle lighted with either cither Dear Wl Mi 11 I I 1 lin c never neer bud luid a R chance hanc io o RO loO io to o rind and would Mould like to do something some some- thing for m myself elt Would you pl n e et I t i some ome book books that I could o or rend nt et home borne that would Mould help hell m me met This I I. I the tint time I 1 bave to the n May IUT I enter entert r I 11 0 U E. E P ase do For the now w I would sug suggest est that hat you ou go goo to the public library and get happy School Days Das b by Margaret t E F. Songster an ster This books book's title Is In Ing and you'll find it a n. real help hilp to you 1 in your our up upward ard climb Al Alss Alsa inthe inthe in inthe the juvenile jl department of the public library lIt you'll find Vocations In Ten fen 1 by Hyde which will provide I you O with food for Cor thought along many lines Some of these volumes you'll not care for but please thorn over S If SIT IT en nc next t fall Call when the schools open opt again wh why not take tal up tip a course Jurse eurse In the public night schools Or wil Or-wil will willit it be bp possible a little later for tor you OU to tat tako talco advantage ad of a correspondence lr e Please do not let me rae lose sight o 0 oT you for Cr there are aro man many more inane thUgs things I want to suggest for you OU as we go bO along Ill I'll anmer aner your other question at another time Deer Mb's It I This IN It the first time lime I have hae you Ton rOil and hope that this IN Is a I would like l to join a gymnasium I and nm ani JOH Oil for tor the th h best bent t on II Plen e tell me mc nhat It CM lAIUS Takis my dear It If you'll youl the thc phone or drop Jn n Wb bC Ill I'll be gland to talk to yo 70 1 needs In tho the way of a r gyn m when Im I'm a n. bit more enl that score suggest iB with names and addres l Investigate for yourself yourself- 1 hel help j This will be a a. much bet I shall expect your calL calLif if It you wish to do it by pha phaMy 0 My D Dear r JUaN Elas Kayes I have hae n never Ier written 7 you yon 00 nr arc no so kind and ADd good that Im I'm sure sare you'll youn Ions for m met s 1 L UI do 40 yoa proper for n a girl girl of of 1 toto toto to to- to n a dance with mth a n very n If she Khe left for tor homo home on th the thO 2 Do you h healthful for tor young girl 1111 3 I want ant to do m mer mci r. r Can you TaU t tell me i I i. t. I um urn finishing e What would ou take next year 5 When en a n bo boy hoy comes come t tout Ii out out she ibe h when he com comes or a a him Int in ft Hoping Hoping- that you Trill will It Ic Ito o of your little friend JrE Glad to have you with n u como corno often otten But not toa- toa Hono Honey j SS 1 L 1 No dear clear And the j it it only calls down poor head So lets let's bide 0 01 leave for up grown days day that are theirs Mother Iother o or some somo of ot the elders W Wan w an ami our x-nur 1 on HUlA lri nn l 1 iKi I on h lake outing outing- occasionally and that Is much tho the bet jet you ou dont don't understand wb Just trust me inc for it de dear dea that some da day soon YOU you'll j were so advised Im I'm SU sur 2 High heels are proper poise symmetrical therefore therdore cannot be healt hUtt In this day of at the send all theres there's no reason for tor tho the uncomfortable OD ones once What do you have In hi sibly you might do we well well-t t the various stores about about would you rather care to toi foi bab baby I would Ill I'll b be- you OU further In this when when when-T 4 4 Onos Ono's high school Coy cou thing thine to which thought given little friend and JU as to ones one's possibilities 1 gifts gUts etc and I certainly like to do anything so eo ra ravise ravise ras-j ras vise without knowing ari any t tand and figures ures In tho cas case cace have them before I Im I'm m as asfor ask asb for you you ou Thank you t 5 S. t If Ie you answer the d dd young man yourself as asIn In and be seated while you If It it is time Ume to go do no cm norun run right along for your w w wise you need not riot hasten prefer you OU might have a aber anber non an ber beT of the family answer you and announce your our ci ciso so so that you OU could coals coals- como comB living room room to join him the street Surely I the wraps be before oe his |