Show Happiness an and Marriage 1 arriage Today r rS INCE all nil time the happiness that at attends attends attends at- at S SINCE tends a marriage has been tain Men and women expect no so much and often oCten give Ive so 50 little Disappointment Disappointment Is all too common for the tho average n young oun Individual expects perfection perfection per per- end and finds finds- poor human nature No Xo man Is a ht hero ro to his valet runs the bitter hitter old French proverb It Is perhaps perhaps per per- haps as hard to be bo a a. hero in tho the eyes ees of the woman n n. man has married years cars after marriage J Familiarity breeds contempt It to is hard to laugh not once but many n times at the same jest at tho the same old stor story as n. our mothers mothers moth moth- ers ors slid lId In thin tho present do day that is not even cn attempted Marriage formerly among women wom n was I looked upon ms s a a. profession profession now now it Is only an incident and an incident that need not continuo continue unless It means sugar null and and nd all alt that's thaes nice to the woman for tor her homo home I is often otten the time last place where a a. wife wire Is to bo found Tho The modern woman Is often otten BO so busy husY that she cannot live JI at t home She Sho must sell roses for tor hospitals org organize inize relief for strikers slum among thu tho destitute and leave her husband and children to look out for themselves DOI DOES DOHS S NOT VO MAKE JUKE This Is Js not quite Quito for tor tho the happiness ss I of or tho the world because time the right center of or a womans woman's life lito is her home and when that is vacant time the cupboard of ot the affections becomes bare Remember ber after all Is 18 said and 1 done it is theman tho the thoman man mall who works for tor the woman It Is IB he that tolls for tor the bower and for the comforts of or this life It is therefore not only foolish but not fair air if If when h he returns home the bower 1 is always empty A man If It he Is m much ch older elder than his wife must be bo patient There are aro many things which can only onh bo ho understood by years car He must wr wreathe atho his rod with roses It If he blames it must bo be gamily ly and he must r realize that in mar mar- marriage sho she enters a n. new kingdom where the language e II Is different where whore tho the habits ore are different for men and women women women wom wom- en are different b by nature custom tom and habit Little things gs matter A AIse wise Ise woman oman will bo be punctual She must not go bO to put on her hat at the tho ap appointed appointed ap- ap pointed hour for fot walk or drive she drive she must be r ready ad Men and wom women n who marry should know their differences They Tho should know each other for tor a R. sufficient lt lon length th thor of or Imo before taking the tho final step stepto to ascertain whether or not their tauten taste are arc In common Discoveries should b bo made before betor and not after marriage Before it means only a n. passing IrrItation Irritation tion after atter the tho wrecking re of or two lives It Is very Tery difficult to b be 5 sure of or nn anything anything any any- thing most of or all how bow a 0 marriage Is going to turn out TROUBLES COME Sometimes tho the sky seems clear only to be darkened by thunder clouds a athe as the months or years roll on Perhaps it Is 19 because the love upon which m mar mar- marriage marriage r- r was wa foun founded ed v was built on beauty Such an affection dies even before beauty Ruty fades fados Respect is needed when tho the glory glor of the trousseau fades and the tempers of or both must bo be kept well in hand if Ir life Ute Is la to be made com com- Perhaps the cause of ot wreckage Is that two t spoiled children married They very often otten do an and then wonder wh why matrimony proves pro a failure when both cant can't have havo their own on way It takes more than one to make mako a n. sue suc I sees cess of ot marriage Both must do do their I best on one side Is 18 good but much I better on both and while hUe silence ma may bo be eloquent before fore marriage e It t is very cr seldom afterward I |