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Show INDEPENDENT SUGAR HOUSE, UTAH THURSDAY FEBRUARY 4, 1960 PAGE FIVE Dear Sally By Sally Shaw DEAR SALLY: I'm a working girl and recently, because of a nice raise in salary, I was able to move scheduled to be married early in April, and here's the little problem that now confronts me. I have two close pals Joe and Tom and we three have been the best of buddies for many years. I know I'm supposed to choose my "best friend" to serve as my best man, but how can I choose either Joe or Tom without hurting the other? Could I solve this by having two best men at my wedding? Please help me - this is serious! BERNIE. chance. What can I do to make amends? DUMB DOTTIE. DEAR DUMB DOTTIE: The next time you see this boy, tell him how terribly ashamed you are of yourself. If he doesn't ask you for another date, you can hardly blame him. Nothing is so revolting to a man as a girl who drinks too much and then ruins his car. I hope this bitter experience has taught you to stay perched on the wagon for good. DEAR SALLY: Maybe you'll think' I'm a poor sport, abadloser, or just a plain cheapskate -- - but here goes anyway. At the end of our bowling night every week, the other four fellows on my team and I have been flipping coins to see who pays for the beer - and four times out of five I come out the loser. This has been going on all this season, and I'm beginning to feel that I'm a sucker - but don't know what to do about it. Advice? GUS. into a nice new apartment in a good section of our town. Everything was ideal, except for m y landlord. He's a bachelor in his 40' s who thinks he has it ' II DEAR BERNIE : Your suggested solution wouldn't be the proper one, since you can have only one best man at a wedding. Since these two fellows are such good friends, why don't you get together with both of them and frankly admit your dilemma? I'll bet they'll laugh over how you've been sweating this out, and that you'll reach a per-fectly pleasant agreement. The other fellow can serve as head usher, which is a position almost equal to that of best man. DEAR SALLY: I made a fool out of myself, and-no- I'm paying for it. I'm a girl of 17 and three weeks ago I was the happiest girl in the world when I was invited by a college boy to go to his prom. I guess I wanted to be a good sport or to 'appear sophisticated or something - anyway, after the dance when a crowd of us stopped in at an inn for refreshments, I drank three martinis one after another. I got disgustingly sick in the boy's car. He was very nice about it, but I know he was very much disappointed in me and I can't say I blame him one little bit. He's a wonderful fellow arid I'd give anything for another where women are concerned. He asked me a couple of times for dates, which I refused - but a couple of nights ago he stopped in presumable "to see how I liked my new little home." Suddenly, without warning, he threw a pass at me and I pushed him away so hard he almost fell down. He then stalked to the door, and before, leaving coldly informed me that my rent for next month will be 420 more. This is not only more than I can afford to pay, But I think it's unfair, unbusinesslike, and unethical. Is there any place I can go to appeal this, or just what can I do? CYNTHIA. DEAR CYNTHIA: Even if there were a board of appeals for this purpose (and, so far as I know, there isn't) and you were success-ful in having your rent decreased, would you still be happy in continuing dealings with this lecherous old goat? Your best move is just that - move! DEAR SALLY: I'm in a real pickle. I'm a fellow who's Cansans Celebrate The local Kansas club celebrated Kansas Day Friday, January 29th, with a dinner at Central Christian Church. The table was arranged in the shape of a K and decorated with with yellow candles, sunflower favors and dolls wearing sun-flower hats. A delicious meal was served to 75 Kansans and their guests. Miss Lila Canavan gave an interesting reading on "Kansas Day" and Dr. L. W. Macfarlane showed a Kansas film "Star 34." Officers elected for 1960 are Mrs. Joseph Keiser, president, Mrs. Elmer Abrahams en, vice president, Mrs. L L. Sharp secretary-treasure- r, and Mrs. Donald Slater, historian. baugh. Director of Audo-Visu- al Bureau and Associate Professor of Education Administration at the University of Utah and Professor Emil Nyman, Audio - Visual Methods Division of Education at Westminster College. Work of the Kindergarten De-partment," Mrs. Elaine Boling first grade teacher at Summer School, also in charge of teacher training at the First Christian Church.-- 1 ' Helping Young People Develop Christian Beliefs," the Reverend Eugene V. Haynes, Pastor at Bountiful Community Church; and "One in Christ," a study in Ephesians, the Reverend Neale E. Nelson, Pastor of Zion Evangelical Lutheran Church. The school, which is under the direction of Dr. Peter Bercovitz, chairman of the Christian Education Committee of the Salt Lake Council of Churches, is open to all laymen. Registrations are being taken in member churches and by Registrar Mrs. Roy Williams, 1322 East 17th South. Tuition will be one dollar, classes will start at 7:30 p.m. Churches Offer Training School The Salt Lake Council of Churches Leadership Training School, an annual project of the council, is scheduled this year. The first two classes were held last Monday and Tuesday. Additional classes will be on Feb-ruary 8th and 9th, 15th and 16th, at Westminster College. The Reverend Glen Cordell is Dean of the school, which will offer eight courses designed to help teachers and others active in church work. The following courses will be offered: "Jesus and His Teachings," to be taught by the Reverend Benny O. Boling, Associate Pastor of the First Christian Churchy "The Church and Social Action," the Reverend Glenn E. Van Vactor, Pastor of the Holladay Community Churchj "Prophets and Their Messages," the Reverend Charles L. McCarty, Murray Baptist Church; "Ways of Teachings," Mrs. Agi Plenk, Child Guidance Consultant at Holladay Community Church; "Audio-Visu- al Resources in Christian Education," Dr. Donald Brum- - i" "" "' '. .MWIIILIIH ..II II1UU1U u Mrs. T. W. Notestine Visits San Diego Mrs. T. W. Notestine, managing editor of the South East Indepen-dent, left Saturday, January 30, by train, for San Diego, California. She is visiting her sister, Mrs. John S. Dale, and she will return Sunday, February 7. Secret to New Spring Styles Your new spring coiffure will need the benefit of a prefessional permanent wave, personally pre-scribed for you, if you expect to be among the fashion-wis- e women of the coming season. This is a secret that has been well-kno- wn for many years among smart women, but this year it becomes especially important. Now is a good time to note it in view of National Beauty Salon Week, which will be observed Feb-ruary 7-- 13, dedicated to more beautiful women. Cancer Clinic Feb. 10 The American Cancer Society, Utah Division, in cooperation with Salt Lake County Medical Society, has scheduled its monthly cancer symptom center to be held on February 10th, at division headquarters, 176 Social Hall Avenue, Salt Lake City. Re-gistration will be held on February 4th and 5th, from 9 a.m. to 4 p.m. Only those persons having specific cnacer symptoms and registering can be examined at the center. In making this announcement, the Cancer Society and the Salt Lake County Medical Society wish to point out that if the applicant has been examined by any doctor during the past year, a written referral is necessary. As the name indicates, complete ex-aminations are not given but are directed only at those areas of the body where cancer is thought to exist. Patients are referred back to their family doctor for further diagnostic procedures andor treatment when indicated. Further cancer control in-formation and literature may be obtained at the American Cancer Society office. Wicked men obey from fear; .good men, from love. Aristotle Him )I)WIIHIIIIIIWIIMIIJIMU1W11I1I1IIIUIIJI)II'WM'WW'IIIUW''I I AT LAST the exciting NEW. .MMM PERMANENT THAT 5b, 'ityMML WONT RELAX JS uv & Mf SPECIAL! tfi; $20.00 PERMANENT $10.00 INCLUDES HAIR STYLING and SHAPING LASTS TILL HAIR IS CUT OFF PONT FORGET! National Beauty Salon Week Feb. 7--13 HAIR STYLING... PERAAANENTS... 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