Show MARRIED POUT pouy politeness ENEss there is much of truth as well as that kind of philosophy which chic h comes into everyday every day requisition helping to strengthen and to brighten the ties of affection in the subjoined sub joined brief article will you asked a pleasant voice and the husband answer ed yes my dear with pleasure it was quietly but heartily said the tone the mannar the look were perfectly natural and amm aff affectionate we thought how bow pleasant that courteous reply how bow gratifying 21 it must be for the wife many husbands of ten years experience are ready enough with the courtesies of politeness to they the young oung ladies of their acquaintance while they speak with abruptness to their wife and do many rude little thin things we without considering them worth an apology the stranger whom they have seen but yesterday is listened to with deference and although the sub bub subject t may not be of the most pleasant nature w with a ready smile while the poor wife it if she relates a domestic grievance is snubbed or listened to eith with ill concealed patience 0 how wrong this is is all wrong does she urge some request oh loh dont bother me mei mel cries her gracious lord and master does dees she ask for necessary funds for jusys shoes or tommas tommys hat seems to me you are always wanting moneal is the handsome retort Is any little extra demanded by his masculine appetite it is ordered not requested look here I 1 want you to do go so and so just see that les its done and 1 off marches mr boor with a bow and a smile of gentlemanly polish and friendly sweetness for every casual acquaintance hb he may chance to recognize cognize when we meet with such thoughtlessness 11 our thoughts revert to the voice and manner of or the me friend who sai bai said baid ld yes my dear with pleasure 11 1 I beg your pardon comes as readily to his lips when by any my little awkwardness he has disconcerted her as it would in the presence of the most fashionable stickler for etiquette till thi is because he is a thorough gentleman who thinks his wife in all things entitled to precedence ile he loves her best why hy should he be hesitate to s how show it not in sickly maudlin attentions but in pre fering her plea pleasure ure and honoring her in public as well as private he knows her worth why shou should d he e hesitate to attest it and her bus band lie he praised her sith s ith the holy writ not by fulsome adulation not by pushing rushing her charms into notice but by speaking as opportunity occurs in a manly way of her virtues though words seem but little things and slight attentions almost valueless yet depend upon it they keep the flame bright especially if they are natural the children grow up in a better moral atmosphere and learn to respect their parents as they seem beem to respect each other many a boy will take advantage of a mother he loves because he be sees often the rua rui rudeness eness of 0 his father insensibly he be gathers to his bosom the same habits and the same thoughts they engender and in turn becomes the he petty tyrant only his mother why should be thank her father never does thus the home becomes the seat of disorder and unhappiness only for tor strangers are kind words expressed and hypocrites go out from the hearthstone hearth bearth stone fully prepared to render justice benevolence and politeness lit eness to any and every one but those who wh have the jestest claims ah give us the kind glance the happy homestead the smiling wife and courteous cb children ildren of the man who said so pleasantly santis I 1 yes my mv dear with pleasure 2 SOME OF THE USES op OF MARRIAGE one of the london magazines has the following sensible observations upon the economy of marriage acin in return for whatever you may have done for your wife from what a complicated slavery does she deliver you only make the enumeration from the slavery of baseness if you have happiness beside your hearth you will not go 0 in the evening to court love under the scoty smoky lamps of a dancing room and to find drunkenness in the street from the slavery of weakness you will not drag your limbs along like your sad acquaintance that pale worn out bloated young old man from the slavery of melancholy he who is strong and does a mans work he who mho goes out to labor and leaves at home a cherished soul who loves him will from that sole circumstance have a cheerful heart and be merry all day from the slavery of money treasure this very exact arithmetical maxim two persons spend more than one many bache bachelors lorg lori remain as they are in in alarm at the expense of married life but who spend infinitely more they live very dearly at the cafe and restaurateurs urs very dearly at the theatre the havana cigar alone smoked all day is an outlay of itself but if your wife has no female friends whose rivalry troubles her and excites her to dress she spend spends 11 nothing she reduces all your expenses to such a degree that the calculation just given is anything but just it should not have been people but four people spend less than one |