Children depend on parentsatd for self image by Tyra i'eltman Shirley Adams Child Life Program Primary Children's Medical Center There is a wide range of normal development, so it is unfair to compare one childs progress with another's. While it is possible to predict stages of development, both physical and mental, parental response and reaction can profoundly affect learning and emotional growth. Learning begins at birth. The first things children are exposed to as their senses begin to develop are adult voices and features. Parents are the first toys children have, and as children learn to recognize faces and tones of voice, they learn to trust and to feel secure. They also begin to learn the most effec-- . tive techniques for attracting attention and encouraging response from their parents. i.uW pai eats respond to temperament has a lasting effect. Children can be categorized whether in honest ex- Take a positive interest pression or in physical in their school work, read problems and to them until they tell behavior. you to stop, listen to Parents learn to be them with your hearts as parents from their par- well as with your ears, ents. It is a process of so- and give them the most cial and environmental valuable of your gifts anti-soci- with children, so long as the anger does not awareness, imitation, time. become violent. Children and that With love as the founlearn to handle their feel- teaches behavior. And if dation, children should in three generally ings by observing adults, behavior can be learned, be encouraged to be which puts the brunt of it can be changed doers. Allow them to do groups: the who are adaptable and emotional development through effective, things such as dressing on the parents. It is from accepting; the communication and themselves and going to who like to study parents that children attitude reinforcement. the bathroom alone by the situation first; and first learn about love and Children learn a sense of the of three or four age the difficult, who resist hate, anger and fear, and pride and years. Find out where change, are often colicky, solitude and loneliness, confidence in themselves their interests lie, then and are poor sleepers. security and separation, from their parents. You start them on hobbies. But each child is unique, exploration and discovcant give something you (Jive them responsibiliand so is the ery, frustration and dont have, so it is impo- ties around the house. rtant for parents to Let them developmental pattern. fulfillment, possessivespeak for Where one child may be ness and sharing. understand their own themselves in order to quick to talk, another Parents usually are feelings and capacities, develop their conversamay be quick to learn careful to monitor the and to be wary of inter- tional skills. Ask quescoordination. And, since physical and mental nalizations of emotions tions about their day and toilet training depends development of their and feelings of inade- the events of the day. upon physical developchildren, but emotional quacy. Children need Dont be an answer ment, some children development, which is as nurturing, stimulation, machine, let them solve simply get there sooner important, is too often and contact in order to problems and dont be than others. It is imporoverlooked. Feelings are achieve any degree of afraid to turn their questant to understand, too, necessary, and children which is tions back to them. that stressful situations, should never be made to essential for growth and and Children need such as hospitalization, feel ashamed of them. development as individdefined want clearly family discord, or even a While childhood judguals. limits with consistent new baby, can cause ments may be immature, In order to build self- and brief rules to follow. childhood feelings and esteem, children need a Give choice when possiregression. Just as there are no fears are very real and firm foundation of love. ble, and insist that the perfect children, so are should be respected as Tell them often that you choice taken is adhered there no perfect parents. such. Feelings will be love them, and let them to. And most of all, give It is normal to get angry manifested in some way, know that you, their for positive praise parents, love each other. behavior by catching easy-to-lov- role-playin- e, two-wa- y slow-to-war- self-wort- is Williams the manager of the Central Utah Rural Impact Capital Corporation, which is doing the plan. He and his associates are now on the second phase of the master planning program, Williams said. They are reviewing citizen comment. Copies tions. Williams also invited council members to go on a tour of Roosevelt, which has been set up Nephi City officials might learn a lot from Roosevelt City officials, facilities made. Levan, Nephi weather reports projected schedule, Williams thinks that it should be completed by Dec. 31. City officials were pleased to learn that the project in Nephi is going but one councilman said that the Package also need to know that their feelings and fears will be respected and not ridiculed. The block of Policy For this new insurance final building is self-estee- ex- pectation. It is natural and appropriate to have high expectations for your children. But parents must learn their childrens abilities and innovation and all your insurance needs whether Commercial - Life - Crop or Specialty Jaoc nt J Contact A Professional k fmunnct Larry Peterson limitations. Without that understanding, ; i ex- f Central Utah Ins. Agency pectations too often are artificial and even cruel. With that understanding, children will do what is expected of them. 15 South Main, Nephi, Utah Phone t 623-025- Juab County Hospital : & Nephi Medical Clinic 395 East 600 North, Nephi proud to announce that is Juab County Hospital and Nephi Medical Clinic 392 East 600 North, Nephi offers rural residents of Sanpete and Juab Counties complete medical services PRACTITIONERS FULL-TIM- E The Toggery 19 North Main Nephi, Utah s Nephi, Utah Nov. 25, 1981 3 comments on Times-New- driver By packaging your auto our 623-077- 5 CURIC. forward, citizens that have been The and thly clinic, the third Wednesday of each month from 2 to 5 p.m. For an appointment, call county's master plan, but rather intended to get necessary information through the cities. Williams says that as he reads the county commission minutes, a contract was made. However, that contract has now been terminated by LEVAN WEATHER Derle Hansen, reporter of will be associated with the hospital and clinic. The cardiologists will hold a mon- The commissioners contend that they never contracted with CURIC ior the preparation of tffe its originally - An additional Self-estee- Dr. Charles Dahl, M.D. Williams commented after on Juab Countys master plan preparation. NEPHI WEATHER 7n Dr. John Frischknecht, M.D. AND and from seeing improvements to public with the Chamber of Commerce for Tuesday, theyre good. CARDIOLOGISTS HOLIDAY SPECIALS FOR THAT SPECIAL MAN Nov. 24. Roosevelt has endured great impact from its energy boom, and Williams thinks that the survey seem to pose more problems than solu- of the master plan surveys were given by the council. 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