Show B4 — The Herald Journal Logan Utah Tuesday March 26 2002 FOR BETTER OR WORSE Friend in prickly situation Tfiwwfc DEAR ANN LANDERS: I hope you can help me Two weeks ago ’ my best friend “Bill" confided that he is interested in a woman who is not his wife They haven't done anything serious yet although he ' has kissed her My wife and I have been friends with Bill and his wife for over 1 0 years and we both have young children Bill's little indiscretion happened while his wife was in the hospital recuperating from back surgery He went to a party where alcohol flowed freely and he I told Bill to stop the nonsense immefun diately I explained that his short-tercould cause a great deal of long-terpain and would destroy his family Here's the problem: Several mutual friends saw the way Bill behaved at the party and rumors have been circulating that he is having an affair My wife has noticed how distracted I've been and wants to know what's going on I normally do not keep secrets frommy wife but I ' I ant unsure about sharing this information believe I would be betraying Bill’s confidence if I told her Please Ann help me do the right thing' — East Coast Friend over-imbib- m m nkuuoeJi - err Down aT TbTRe AeNfl I DEAR FRIEND: It is perfectly OK to tell : your wife you are worried about Bill without divulging the details of his confession Meanwhile I hope your friend has the sense to listen to your advice If not he is headed for trouble DEAR ANN: I am a single mother of a girl I'll call her “Heather" Heather’s father has visitation rights every Saturday Last Saturday when she returned home from her visit Khc excitedly showed me her new manicure I was stunned to see she had beautiful pink nails longer than mine Apparently my ex's girlfriend thought it would be wonderful if the manicurist put nail tips on Heather I am not pleased that my thinks it is OK for a girl to have profes- sionally applied nail tips What will he do next? Get her a tattoo? I am disturbed by his lack of judgment but if I say anything he will undoubtedly claim 1 am overreacting Is there anything I can do to let him know he has overstepped his boundaries? — Upset in Upstate By Ann Landers Creators Syndicate Inc a cm PIHUNO- UPTbUERfMVTVimri New York DEAR UPSTATE NY: Don’t allow this lit- -i tie escapade to get under your skin Heather will soon discover how inconvenient long artificial nails can be when she Wants to play with her friends Meanwhile have a calm radonal talk with Tell him yoir understand this your was intended to be a fun “bonding" ence but inthe future you hope he will discuss such things with you beforehand Then let it go' ERIC WVtT?HuMDHUHMA - IHnBNDlWE comma i ur i Bepdre n8CMER8 MB'S ms 8wnfcgf FfcRfitfnfaj GILBERT IF THE WATER COMPANY CAN PIPE WATER TO MY HOUSE WHY CANT THE TOOTHPASTE COMPANY JX THE SAME? AND DONT EVEN GET THE TOOTHPASTE FACTORY SHOULD HAVE A PIIJE TO EVERY HOME SO YOU CAN TURN A FAUCET STARTED ABOUT PUDDING ME ' ARLOAND JANIS r Pains have different origins mention is probably due to muscle cramping andcontraction Although stress may play a central role in such a symptom arthritis of the" DEAR DR GOTT: neck bones can also cause pain Therefore you About a year ago I should have of your neck to diagnose ' the condition Thereafter you might be helped began experiencing severe pain on the by heat massage gentle exercises myotherapy undersurface of my (deep massage) ultrasound treatment or chiro- -' heel This was diagpractic manipulation nosed as plantar fasciDEAR DR GOTT: My husband is 37 and I itis and received uncircumcised What is the possibility of him cortisone injections for having the procedure and what are the compliit With good result I've ' cations? suffered from a stiff neck and have to wear also in adults is READER: DEAR Circumcision a cervical collar Could this bfc caused by stress is usually It safe is and commonly performed or is it related to the heel problem? in the considered of presence symptoms such DEAR READER: I believe that your heel ' as infections of the' penis repeated and neck pains have different origins r can As the immediate post- imagine you is inflammation fasciitis a chronic of Plantar ' the flhrous sheet covering the tissues of the operative period is quite uncomfortable and heel It is common in runners and is thought to patients are rarely eager to resume sexual relations for a few Weeks Nonetheless this is a consists Treatment of rest ib? related to injury foam rubber insoles cortisone injections and operation for a qualified and drugs to combat inflammation urologist complications are virtually On the other hand the type of neck pain you By Peter H Gott MD Newspaper Enterprise Association GRIZZWELLS X-ra- ys WTi) WENEREcE BEUEVE SdW BUT f mBUT ) —VI mumERE - NAW TWERE'5 CkttY rums TWS ' amxi' y' “bread-and-butte- ZITS r” Horoscope Bernice Bede Osol Syewspaper Enterprise Association not exist Instead of burying your head in the sand face the facts and find a solution VIRGO (Aug 22) — Individuals' who are not equipped to help you attain your present objectives should not be involved in your affairs LIBRA (Sept 23) — If you want your companions to accept your political or philosophical concepts present them in a tight ' and cheerful manner SCORPIO (Oct 22) — It isn’t likely that you’ll be intimidated by difficult developments: However something that should be fun could get you uptight SAGITTARIUS (Nov 21) — You may start the day being your old optimistic" cheerful self but as time wears on you could let events dampen your spirits and see only negatives Don’t let this happen n CAPRICORN (Dec 19) — Be grateful for all th good that comics your way instead of feeling you’re entitled to more even ‘ if you are b AQUARIUS (Jan 19) — This is not a good day to gamble You can avoid being blindsided by guarding against any inclination to throw caution to the wind PISCES (Feb 20) — You’ll have but reveal it for fear if don’t compassion you of expressing it you could evoke a negative response from someone you care about 23-Se- pf ' ' For Tuesday March 26 2002 Your birthday v Additional responsible ities and duties won’t bother you in the year ahead because you'll realize all the personal benefits you'll derive for your time and efforts! ARIES (March 21 -- April 19) — All eyes will turn on yoq if you begin to expect more from than you’re prepared to do your- - 23-O- GARFIELD 24-N- ov : 23-D- ec ' ' self' TAURUS (April 20-M20) — It’s wonder? ful to be sharing and giving but a manipulator might use your generosity to get things from you to which this person isn’t entitled GEMINI (May 21 June 20) — There can be a fine line between putting forth maximum effort and doing things the hard way It’s ' admirable to want to do your best CANCER (June 22)— Every once in awhile you go into one of your moods arid become more of a defeatist than an' adventurer Unfortunately this could be one of those days LEO (July 22) --r- A financial situation cannot be resolved if you pretend jt does ay 22-Ja- -- -- ALLEY OOP 20-Fe- 21-Ju- ly 23-A- ct ch ug Crossword March 26 2002 Across ' Helmut Gathered ' leaves 27 Hostage taker 30 Metal fastener 31 Lightweight 24 1 Tampa Bay pro 4 Oz 1 ' ' or lb 7 Bellicose deity Nurses org 12 Den dweller 14 Tear down 1$ Gigantic 11 " ‘ 16 — 17 Extreme i8 Wide street 20 Camon feed- - ms 5? 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