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Show ' '' - V 1' t- ti ' " O - Sf - - pVlS S &$. Sgu? 3. 5C DESKET News, WEDNESDAY, JANUARY S, 1975 When a child has guilt feelings Landau auto accident was adjudged to be the fault of neither dm er, The cannot be expected to be a responsible party in childtending In fact, there are numerous cases c! children drowning, or nearly so. is their own little tubs when the mother, running to answer a phone or doorbell, calls back to a six or to "watch the baby. I'll be right back Nonetheless, especially in the latter instance, the death of a sibling can trigger an avalanche of bad feelings and guilt on the part of the remaining child. ?&&&? of Un!WStrJtUidh are awful effects vffin children have feelings oLfuiif ammg out cf eveais tney are unable to expiam or sere ex&lorc ffYir instance, a young man nESis teens was a party to an automobile accident in which aether adolescent was k'fb 3a another incident, a seven-year-o- girl was tending her ,KPeJ brother when he was rw over by a large dump truck and killed In neither case was the surviving child to blame The ferW- ld the death of another, he should have the opportunity to talk out bis feelings vol- Mr 5s J& Today's Family , g uminously. It will not suffice fot friends or relatives to try to argue him out of his feelings. DR. ELLIOTT mfdwfegJ LfiffDfiU He is liable to assume the guilt and shame for the event despite the fact that he is not responsible. In one case, the remaining child was in his middle adolescence before the horrible feelings of guilt and remorse hit They came with such feroc- - Nr M ity that 15 years later he was incapable of feeling at ease in his world, because of the persistent thoughts of the tragedy he barely recollected. It is vital that such paralyzing fears be managed; that they do not cripple the survivor emotionally in his contacts with his peers and family. Two things need to be done in both instances: .Vhere m adolescent is implicated in T 1 JSS a a? ELT c3 I B& W 3 tfsua SL 1 As 52 S!b at: S! SI t iral touitcli of soaps! . Rules for bridal stories Follow thse rules to place wedd'Pg picture in the Deseret News Contact the Living Section a 514 4451 a? least two weeks pr.i.rtothi wedding Bring pictures and to the Deseret News infor-illatio- n It is the one who feels the guilt, who sleeps with it, who carries it with him, correctly or incorrectly, who must finally battle his way through the morass of terrorist emotions. Keaaer ions radical surgery By Lindsay R. Curtis. MLD. DEAR DR. CEBITS: Like many other people. I am grateful to leam that the The feelings of guilt are good, because they allow a chance to ventilate the emotions. Time and talking will ordinarily ease trie pain. First Ladv is recovering so well from her n feast operation, and the public.ty. of course, has stimulated many other women to have regular medical check-upEven so, 1 have been somewhat disturbed by the claims of certain physicians that Mrs Ford did not need to undergo removal of her entire breast and all of the s. to have kept such opinions Kindi rather than nocA rtf tnlS sees os sew doubt about another physician's metbo5ds. According to the American Cancer Society, which bases wide its opinions on nation of surveys and the opinions rebreast experts, complete moval still offers the best chances for survival. lymph nodes. What's your opinion? MRS. 0. A. DEAR MRS. A.: I think the doctors to whom you refer are entitled to their opinions. I also think that they should f M ml :u Ur what a great day for marble parfait! Next, where a child is involved in a tragedy he witnesses and where he may even think he is responsible, he too must be allowed to ventilate his fears and hurts. He may need to talk and talk and cry. He may need to r.t write of it. to draw pic it, to dream of it. The worst thing adults can do in these cases is to gloss it over, to not aliow an outpouring of emotions, try to justify whatever happened. Our feelings are facts to us. A child needs time and an opportunity to sort out these at feelings, often alone other times, with those who love him. Dr USWjry'i ? ii 8 fr swsftted ta ft It tftftVXHftM aewi ee&istad Dt 3 C afervs Newt 'TiifiriirrftniTinfriiiiirwiilwTiitif'g.igiHriifei,r..?f,yr.iTx7rri. m MK4M &eGteMUL l.n. ng Section 34 E 1st South, at least one week in advance of the wedding Pictures must be printed within two publishing days after the Olympus Hills . . . Foothill Village . Downtown . . , Valley Fair . . . Ogden . . Fashion Place . . . 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