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Show Friday September 28, 1979 Mary Miller Ainge A Risk Anniversary To Be Feted Celebration 80th Year Set Oct. 7 The family members of Mary E Miller, Beaver Mr. and Mrs. George will honor their mother By SUSAN DEITZ Ainge, Payson, will celebrate their 50th wed ding anniversary Oct No goal in this life worth taking is without some degree of risk. I dont mean a risk that ts illconsidered, unreasonable. but one that is sane ané appropriate. To grow and to change meansto take someform of chance to put your ego or self-image on the line, and to gamble on the outcome You go into the risky situation with the idea of what you with an open house to be held from 3 to 5 pm in First Foods for Baby Fruitor vegetable juices are usually thefirst foods other than milk, to be introduced into the infant's diet at about one month of age. This is followed by fortified cereals and egg yolk to supplement iron reserves, at about three months of age. Other solid foods are gradually added, oneata time,as the infant becomes more accepting of new foods. Commercial baby foods carry nutritional labeling based on two special sets of U.S. Recommended Dietary Allowances,one for infants under 12 monthsandone for children 1-4 years of age. Overweight Infants family celebration will be held at the home of her daughter. Mrs Helen (Clair) Gale. 1085 S. 400 Hall, located between E., Springville Mrs. Miller was bornin MainSt. and 100 W on 100 Whiterocks. Uintah S. in Payson Friends and relatives County, on Sent 25, 1899 She married Joan G Mil are invited to attend Hosting the event will be ler on June 16, 1919 He the want to attain, and then you proceed to take the chance to get there And it can be scary Next to my Bible on the shelf in myoffice 1s a book that has been re-read by me and my friends more than almost any other “Risking. by Dr David Viscott (Simon and Schuster, NY ) Whatsort of risks is Viscott exploring” Here's a sample — Trying Your Best “The proper goal for each rson is to find himself and becomea successat being whatever he is, competing with no one, learning to be himself without apology If you do thatyc find that you are not as great as you mi a dramed, but on the other hand you aren't as bad as you feared.” — Changing: ‘If you do not risk changing when the timeis right, you will probably be forced to change when you are least prepared forit.’ — Learning to Say No.: “You havea right to say no because you havea rightto protect yourself, yourinae your feelings, your possessions and your . Learning to say no can be one of the most some thingsyou canlearn to do.”’ ing on Your Own: ‘‘Being on your own makes you more efficient by making you more real. When you are on your own you realize how muchtime you wasted tugging at apron strings, estimating the resistances you would meet by untying them and anticipating the frowns you'dface. Thetruth is that you are already standing on your owntwofeet and the strings are only as tight as you want them to be.” Single people, particularly, need to put a certain amountof risk into their lives to create a whole ite Married couples have eachother to interdepend upo! and to take a risk for both whenone isn’tuptoit. singles, because of their tremendous throughput of Eka(esa new experiences, need to acquirea skill of (reasonable, sane) chances almost daily, to ibility for doing so, and to grin and bear the consequences if an occasional risk doesn’t pan out oan way you expected. Single living is no wayisolated living; friends, family afd co-workers can fill the single lifestyle with rich variety and a complete spectrum of emotions. But to shape that complete single life, one must learn the art of risktaking. The greatest risk? Risking intimacy: allowing another to come close, very close to one’s innermost peyene, the sanctus sanctorum ofoursoul, and giving a glimpse into what makes us tick in all our vulnerability To do that takes great strength and courage; I applaud those who can. Many people who remain unmarrjed for a long time grow away from this risk, replacing it with a cool exterior and unruffled mien thatbelies the great need beneath. Lived that way, singleness can present no threat of emotional hurt or wounding; but neither canitallow the highs of real warmth and caring that closeness brings with it. It’s a trade-off: risk versus cool. My style? I choose the chancy way, that brings with it the posa of being hurt somewherealongtheline, but potential for real happiness. “"Viscott has written a very important book (and I say that jom), one that we'll come back to 4 jin and seThe spine of single ean4 the lity to grow and develop one’s strengths; thatty, of life chances. (Again, notfoolish, but red and fhtful ones, where the downside risk is fauged and found to be not to outweigh the potential good. “Life is either a daring adventure or nothing,” said Helen Keller. Take an appropriaterisk today, in your single life. And let me know the results (Susan welcomesletters from readers and will print them whenever Poses: Fora personalreply, write to her in care of this newspaper and include a stamped, self-addressed envelope.) (c) 1979, Los Angeles Times Syndicate Saturday on the occasion of her 80th birthday. The American Legion children of the couple The family requests no gifts Mr. Ainge was born in Payson to Hillardy J. and Minnie Francom Ainge He has been a farmer. a construction worker and a steel worker. He retired from Geneva Steel in 1974 after ov ye: ervice Mrs. Ainge wasbornin Mountain Grove, Mo. to James H. and Lydia H Rowe Hunter. The couple met in California where they were married Oct. 19, 1929 in Los Angeles. They returned to Payson where they havelived all but 13 years of their married life. In May, 1962 their marriage was solemnized died Aug. 6, 1973 The Millers had five children: John N. Miller Kearns, Forrest R Mil ler. Milford: Boyd G. Mil ler, Barstow. Calif Helen Gale, Springville and Karl D Miller Beaver. They have 17 grandchildren and 20 great-grandchildren Also attending will be her four sisters: Mrs Belle (Rollow) Kimball Salt Lake City, Mrs Helen (Dan) Felter. Ver: nal; Mrs. Ethel Aumiller, Jensen, Uintah County and Mrs. Georgia Eskelson. Gusher. Uintah County Temple. They areparentsof five children, four of whom arestill living. George R. Ainge died in 1977. Living children are: James E. Dan Park in Temple Brownsburg, Lois A Kirchschlager, Vienna, Va., and Richard P Ainge, Eureka, Juab County. They have nine grandchildren Mayme Hannah To Be Feted on 80th Year Mayme Anna Hannah will celebrate her 80th TWEEDISBOSSoverthis multi- lar and matching detachable gored woolfleece full back coat scarf. Coat available in beiege or It is trimmed with tweedknit col- Tust. DEAR AILLEN: (And others who have asked) Here it is — with a special request for husbands, ex-husbands, and single men to answer my: MARRIAGE SURVEY (With Special Note for Men) Are You — Married? — Single? — Divorced? — Male? — Female? — in this area for 65 years. Yes? — No? — 4. Do you think marriage is going outofstyle? Yes? — No? — 5, Which do you think is moreimportant in a mar- riage? To achieve personal fulfillment? — To try to please the other partner? — (Yes, I realizeit shoald be both, but which to you is more vital? 6. Whatdo youfeelis essential to a happy marriage? (Number| to 10 in orderof their importance to you) Children (including problems or lack of them, i.e,, no major disagreements on child raising, etc.) — Consideration, dependability and under- standing — Equal rights (malefemale liberation) — Faithfulness (i.e., no extra-marital action) — Financial security — Friendship between mates — Good sex — 1, Concerning your Romantic love — marital (or non-marital) Simiiar interests — situation, are you: Total togetherness — Completely Satisfied? — +++ Please fill out and mail Fairly well satisfied? — Notatall satisfied? — Obesity in infants seemsto lead to a greater possibility of obesity or overweight later in life. As a baby gains weight, fat cells divide andtherefore increase in number. Studies have shown that overweight babies fave more fat cells than other infants and that adults who were fat as infants have a greater numberoffat cells than adults who were not 2. If divorced, do you overweight as infants. In adults, excess energy want to marry again? (calories) is stored in already existing fatcells. The Yes? — No? — obese child may, therfore, be setting the stage for 3. If single, do you want obesity in adulthood. to marry? (with comments if you Mrs. Hannah has been wish to Helen Bottel, an LDSstake missionary, care of this newspaper. visiting teacher and SunSurvey results will be day School teacher She has seven published later this sumgrandchildren and nine mer. —H. +++ DEAR HELEN: Am too late to add my “How to Start a Conversation with a Memberof the Opposite Sex’’ contribution? Last spring I was walking my dog in a nearby park. This man asked, “Can I.pet your dog?” Little did I know I would be saying ‘Yes’ a year later to his, “Will you marry me?” — DOGS ARE WOMEN’S BEST FRIENDS TOO +++ Got a problem? An adult subject for discussion? You cantalkit over in her columnif you write to Helen Bottel, care of this newspaper. Less Weight Fad diets emphasize one or twofood groups to the exclusion of others, by-passing nutrients needed for a wellbalanced diet Exciting Fall Colors and Styles Designer Placemats (wicker, cotton,linen, etc.). $ 5910 $2.95 119 to 2.95 35to 95 (‘Nemmsac Designer Napkins (cotton, linen, etc.) Napkin Rings (bamboo,ash and acrylic) BLA * Carillon Square (east of Ernst) 226-7788 * Now open Mondaythrough Saturday, 10 a.m. to 9 p.m. great-grandchildren Janice Ward became the bride of Daniel L Park in a ceremonyperformed today in the Salt Lake LDS Temple. A reception will honor the couple this evening from 7 to 9 p.m. at the Orem 31st Ward. A wedding luncheon also honored them: Parentsof the bride are Mr. and Mrs. Louis E. Ward, Orem.Mr. Parkis a son of Mr. and Mrs Sherman D. Park, Benton City, Wash. The bride graduated in April with a B.S. degree in business education from Brigham Young University. The bridegroom is currently completing his bachelor’s degree at BYU. Hefilled an LDS Mission in the Columbus, Ohio Mission. Attending the bridewill be Mrs. John Zowtiack as matron of honor, with Mrs. George Leavitt, Debra Ward, Mrs. Clark Bues, LuAnne Park and Becky: Park also attending. Best man will be Dave Park. Special guests will be the negcore grandparents, Mr, and Mrs. Orson Rega Card, Salt LakeCity, and Mrs. Clara H. Park, Draper. A prenuptial party was given by Delpha and Janice Card. The newlyweds will make their home in Provo. Credit Cards Charge, MRS. MAYME HANNAH Chop Loaf Coffeecake ~ It's no trouble giving this delectable coffeecakeits scrumptious good looks and great taste. Mix 4 cup light brown sugar, packed, with 2 tablespoonsallpurpose flour, 2 teaspoons grated lemonpeel and ‘2 teaspoon cinnamon. Cut in 1 tablespoon butter or margarine. Add ‘2 cup snippedpitted sun-sweetened prunes Toss well with a thawed loaf (1 pound) frozen read doughcutinto 16 pieces. Cut through combination several times with a knife or kitchen shears. Toss again. Arrangeall in a well buttered 82 x 4¥2inch loaf pan. Cover; let double. Bake below oven centerat 350 degrees F. for about 25 minutes. Mix "2 or ‘‘pay-as- you-go" cards, require an annual fee. There are no pre-set spending limits and the amount due must be paid in full each month. Special services and features, geared to frequent travelers and other‘‘on the go,” are offered to cardmembers, such as automatic travel insurance, personal check cashing at hotels and airline counters, and detailed receipts. They also provide emergency card replacement within 24-48 hours and cup powdered sugar with 2 teaspoons water: ice restaurant gift cer- tificates. warmloaf. Room UNLOAD EXTRA POUNDS and otherburdens! Conveniently, Effectively, Permanently, At Low Cost! 377-2020 HABIT TRAINING SERVICE P.O. Box 1074 Provo, Utah 84601 1g om Color Pega. Ot Rooms with northern exposures will look cold and uninviting done in cool blues and greens. while those facing south and west can seem too bright and intense decorated in the warm yellows and orange. EE Bee eee NO MEMBERSHIP IS REQUIRED! Every Saturday At the ATT Rea Napkins andPlacemats open house to be held at the homeof her daughter, Mrs. Beverly J. (James Provo. The eventwill be held from 6 to 8 p.m. Friendsandrelatives are invited to attend Mrs. Hannah was born Oct. 8, 1899 in Brant, Mich. to Ernest and Laura Berry. She martied Herbert Hannah in Flint, Mich. She resided Marriage Survey Repeated With Note By aNRetluulele DEARHEL! A favor please? My husband and I and several of our friends meant to fill out your recent marTiage survey but papers were tossed before we had the chance. Would you repeatit so “that procrastinators may answer? I hope lots of men take the: quiz, as I'd like to know howthesexesdiffer in what seemsimportant to them. Thank you. — AILEEN (ALSO CHARLES AND FRIENDS) birthday Sunday at an 0.) Tracy, 3289 N. 650 E., Helen Help Us Reception Toni ght Janice Ward Weds Ainge, El Toro, Calif.; Mrs. Barbara (D.W.) Likins, in the Salt Lake LDS y, MRS. DANIEL PARK (Janice Ward) THE SHERWOODHILLS WEIGHT CONTROL PROGRAM MAKESIT POSSIBLE. DINE OUT EVERY DAY! Lose 12 to 100 pounds while dining twice daily at one of the country’s finest athletic facilities. Enjoy a controlled scientific program of diet and fitness evaluation as the inches melt away. Luxuriate in our sauna and whirlpool bath as your stomach fiattens and you r hips tighten. 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