Show i I SOCIAL Socia AMENITIES FOR Foy FORI I j F THE SCHOOL GIRL I i 1 NCE CE again n ain comes tho the time for splendid splendid ONCE O B did di resolutions and the tho opportunity of beginning ue all nU over ocr again a ain to make mak of Ines nes ne self n 1 quite qute perfect being bein It has seemed so 80 fortunate that the timo time If f making these fino resolves should come list at nt a n season when every one is in ex icily leUr the thin right mood to help ones efforts dung 1011 At Al the Christmas season there surely annot be a single person pOl n who is 11 not so mUlled with the spirit of the Christmas Christinas dea Ien that he or she does docs not unconsciously urn over oer a n now noV leaf and determine to illow Iho all who have haTe been so 60 kind hind and with their gifts and expressions c if good will ViI that their advances are nrc ap And then just ju t a week utter l day comes tho thin beginning be of o the thelow new low year when one sees secs stretching ahead i Vista of o days to como come that may be tilled filled rills happiness or discontent exactly in as one rises to meet theta them In making the tue new ne year rear resolves it could be well to be governed ns os completely IH ms possible by a J sense of the Christmas Christinas To practise good will to all aU ight i ht through an nn entire en rc year car world would of oC oCt telf t cl make muke a 0 lovable 10 ble and ond loving character Hit Due who practises good will to all ill soon lImes Imes to feel kindly disposed ou nud ready r rAI 4 a AI pH un and excuse even those who 1111 for ety rry one laid had disliked most cordially cor the old method of ol turning tho tha th aru nr i neat against ones self Without doubt he one against t whom the ill will is felt 1 I eels cl n n strong stron dislike in return and ami the round for one is I probably no more no i than for Cor 01 time tho other oilier A 1 girl irl who wishes to feel fed good ooiJ will iII tp to every everyone me one will make an especial effort to t make mako ill III whom w lom she personally does doc not en care re for i 1 com fond of ol her and she aim will be sur at nL how hose mon loan Jn n feeling of real ufe ion will ill ensue ou oil her part III In almost very vcr case j I If she can really practise good will It will bo be b astonishing how little difficulty she he will experience with all nil her other old ol faults that formerly caused her no end of worry Worl and au bother hother A person imbued imbue u wiLlI wiLlIn a n spirit of oC good rood will cannot commit any auy un great unkindness s cannot even be rude rolle for both unkindness and rudeness like every ever other fault reflect upon some one else and ond cause them diem unhappiness or discomfort The popular girl Sir may owe oe some som of her at attraction attraction traction to her beauty some nOlDe to her natural charm some tom perhaps to n a brilliant mind but hut of It must mast come from her good will II to her friends Unconscious Unconsciously ly h she he makes her friends feel that she is isi interested i in them wants them to have C the beet in life and if there Is d anything she cau can do to help at nt hay uny un time this girl is itS always 6 ready She radiates ra good will and aud her friends give I her ber the best they know The girl irl who lo knows the meaning oC of good goodwill will to all could not be lIc email Sho Shu is too I anxious n ious to make those about her happy tobe to 10 tobe be he able to do the little things that hurt or orsay say mr the little things that wound Site She never tries to give c the impression of how ho splendid n u time she is 19 having basing or has hud it at J t n n 11 time when sho she knows her listener tins lias l s not had Imd the tho same Bame admiration She could coul not be lie about bout I money matters either cither for lor she site will always want to keep from tho thee I friend who ho has not so i I largo laro o an dD allowance us s all til I I of the difference Generosity is IS but one ODe of or the lie minor attn bites li which come como naturally nn tit tle girl who I Ihas has his as ns her bier New ew Year resolution the i determination Jel to keep alive through nut the he year the th beautiful beau eul message of Chr The Chic spirit of Christmas is i to o give I to I sire Ih it everything in ones onos power to all II t whom one meets lint hut gifts bought with whim gold are u dinall part indeed of this divine l I spirit of giving rIle nce gift ifs ift expressed the I thought thou b lit ht that the donor wishes wished to please I and surely this idea illen can be carried out in ina a thousand a different ways 18 through lJ flit tho year But Put it is the giving o of ones OliOS self which counts the giving hin of ones onen one mind null nod personality p to 10 ones OU 6 friends frien s whenever that help is v wanted anted I Often a n girl birl is heard to wonder why it Is that certain of or of her friends are me nr so o much I more mor popular than others Any number of ot her lien other friends n a girl will know Illow to he hc just as flue fine of or nature nn often much stronger of or character than those who tho naturally ua i attract nt at first meeting and make hosts of or I new friendships every year rear Invariably the girl who attracts Immediately and then keeps these friends rieu s through thick thic and thin Is one who sires gives gin J herself spon spontaneously spontaneously to all nil who seek seok When sym sympathy i pathy is is wanted she uhe has hns it in t store to give for site she is i genuinely interested iu i i each person who h comeS to her ber First mind and foremost however she Is 19 not afraid of o being beius personal She trusts her friends and instinctively they guard her secrets and and are always loyal lo al to her herIt h herIt r rIt It is those who Iio never trust their friends with the thc part of themselves which they value aill who win are ure not iu in return trusted It Itis Itis is b necessary to give ie of ot oae on s wn experiences experiences experiences Ideas and ideals before one can con hope llOpe for u 11 like trust tr t from others Nor will the little secret aims nim and und hopes loseby lose by being shared with other On tin till contrary con COil they they thc will trill only acid nu grow liner by b being allowed a glimpse O at an another another another other point of ot view For her bier own sake oake then us as u well hell as ns for forthe forthe I the sake sale of ot those with whom else elie hc conns commies I In contact during the year let her adopt I a 1 resolution to tu keep ou on with whit the spirit of Christmas Chr throughout the whole twelve twelvemonths II months that at nt the end of that timo it t he hI proved whether or not she who I hips hns sincerely practised this doctrine his hM I not got ot more out ant of ol life huts Ims won more morr friends Is I herself It a happier girl because of the till resolve taken on ou the t 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