Show BEWARE OF DISPUTE END OF QUARREL ALWAYS HARD TO FORESEE King Solomons Advice Off Contention Before It Is Meddled 5 With Nith Worth Heeding and RememberIng Avoid the beginning of quarrels No better advice could be given to toa toa a newl newly wedded couple coupe King Solo Solomon Solomon mon with all his wisdom never nover truer word than that the beginning of strife Is like the out of W wa water l lter ter therefore leave oft off contention be before fore foro It Is meddled with Most lost quarrels quarrels c conjugal or otherwise begin with trIfles and lo io Behold how great a afire fire a little matter A AvoId old dIsputes S It Is the first step which counts for which sound reason do donot donot not take It itAn An n orl man who as a criminal law lawyer lawyer yer of oC ninny years standing had bad wide and deep acquaintance with human na nature nature ture used to tell his daughters Make Ip p your our minds to the fact that your are aro but men IDen although they are arc gentlemen and take heed how you Jou hem to anger It takes two to maIze malte a quarrel never neer be one of the lie two and remember that your dig I best Is preserved by silence when you are aro provoked Never forget that r 4 take your our husband for or bettor betLer for tor worse and If which heaven forbid worse comes nt at leas hear bear It like n a Christian gentle gentlewoman gentlewoman woman You will find tho ho recIpe In Matthew 6 5 beginning at verse verBe 39 There Is no bit of wisdom which prospective brides and grooms moro more profitably may mar take to heart than that while quarrels between lovers who are still may mar successfully be patched up as good even better than new provided always that neither or of orthe the lovers meant malice and also that thal hath both are affectionate and forgiving of disposition the tho genuine matrimonial familY row rarely Is followed by kisses unless there thore has been heart hearl heartburnIng burning which seers and acrId bitter billor bitterness ness of spirit which long hong endures un tier dol the sweet sweat of reconciliation A tempest of tears and not often ofton Is the tho forerunner of oC Ing alter after rain min On the tho contrary It b by far Is moro more likely to stir up lasting dIssension and anger angor How Ilow can it lie he possible that love Tovo of any sort can cau he be made more precious procIous b by disputing and wrangling by contra contradiction contradictIon diction and continual disagreeing During the lays of oC court hl 1 It is pos that hat It may pass for playful teas tea teasing Ing when hearts are soft and heads head wen even softer but after marriage there II is danger that lint each ench will he be reid ready to assert his or her rights and each bo be beless less willing to yield to the other Lovers quarrels usually arc either of Jealousy m mostly clue dim to selfishness or else tho they come corrao from what has HS called the tho leak leakage ago age of bad temper a most undesirable able ablo quality for tor either husband or wife If lovers loera cannot avoid quarrels before marriage there thero Is sma small hope that they will bo be able ablo to eschew them hero afterward |