Show 1 Married Bliss is not really as Bliss with the By JEAN GALLACHER BLISS After one month of married and numerous requests for this I feel a compulsion to let the gang in on this marriage First of married life is all you can expect and Here's where the more comes Everyone who is married will want to give you Now my advice to you don't take anybody's Older men and women will drag you look at you wistfully sigh something like you poor or don't know what you're getting or don't understand how serious this Hours of advice Thereupon they will launch upon one or more hours of about how and when to have your first about about all these terrible problems you're going to have to those The worst problem you will have to face in marriage is all the self appointed counselors and advice givers take great glee in manufacturing imaginary problems which you will have to encounter the rocky road of I realize that within the first month of married life you can't possibly run into all of the problems which you will have to but you run into some of the biggest and most important of all the adjusting This problem is just as big the first day of marriage as it ever will be in your Adjustments to to each others little decisions as to how wide the window will be left who gets the outside of the in-law adjusting to friends who are not mutual wives of can you name that many adjustments and problems which you have to face 1 do realize that juggling your with the bridge games to fit in family is a bit As marriage is a a it should be considered so at all B the man alone is supporting her half is then his little to keep meals ready on time for and a little kiss now and If both partners are working or to then each is carrying his or her full load But who is to do the fix the do the sh opping Why both of of Give hubby a few jobs to tf he is expected to do it from i the he won't little understanding about this before marriage him iron the flat hang up the fry a little hamburger now and then you make the recruit him to help with the to set the flip him to see who washes and who wipes the and you'll both have enough spare time to take in a few keep up with your go and do as many things as you did Positive side Now that we've hashed over and solved many of the disadvantages of married let's turn to the positive Skipping over the more obvious we come to that wonderful feeling of not having to explain to Mama when we come in after 2 a.m. and it's so nice to know where everything is in your own house to put something somewhere and know that it will still be there when you want it it's nice to be respected you write out a check it's surprising how much weight a little will carry and when your husband leaves you a tip under the plate because the meal was so good wedded bliss |