Show Womans Woman's Inhumanity It Always Makes to Helpless Man Him Mourn R At a brilliant dinner club a n brig bright woman suggested sugs a discussion slon t ot or Womans Woman's Injustice to Man as compared ed cd with the older and more familiar topic of Mans Man's Injustice to Woman I race ce to face ace with sith the tue subject wo we ar are led to o ask What VhaL Is womans woman's most ob obvious obvious ob- ob offense In tho the line of oC Injustice t toward the thc sterner sex P Perhaps s v W we might place first the fact of her bringIng bring bring- Ing log him hm Into the thc world Surely that Is JJ the beginning of or al althe all the tte many troubles man is forced t to beam beai through woman and It In is an oc oc- oc cui directly traceable tr to her hor Adam Adani to he be sure had no mother on or V whom ho imo could could lay ny the tho blamo blame of oC exist exist- t- t hut but be lie made up imp for tho lost lot op op- op of finding fault after bo lm h got goi gota a i wife vie V St soon Boon as a n man child Is Ja horn born time the mother usually begins to spoil him b by Cultivating his selfish qualities It is that a a. mother awakens th the young mutt mind of oC he her s son n in itt Its forma- forma tit t period period from from one to fourteen years to to the fhe Importance nee of or being orderly onerous tolerant and charitable g S Se loes not mint tench teach him n to tn keep his room picked up to lip to care for his own cloth- cloth In g ng In the tho way of brushing and hang- hang la to ing-to ng o to old avoid litter and disorder which work for Instead she CM all nil these small services for him or r maids and governesses to tolo 10 lo in them And nd he grows groc's up imp thinking is a n womans woman's sphere to follow about 1111 iii attend atton upon uon his bis small hut but con- con inual needs It surely rely Is loves love's privilege and pleasure pleas- pleas ure ire re to serve but a n small boy bo can be lie malic orderly and self reliant In these theBe I tatters matters of or dally life liCe without ever he Is la being so 30 made if IC a n Is IR sufficient Just just- to the time child fhe hr i rings Into life Ure to the Ow Importance of or shell uch training Just lust so he lie can nn be bp he be goner goner- OUI us in his Impulses and tolerant rant In his bis of or others All II these qualities mean lean happiness for Cor the thc mother wife wire and nd daughter iter of or that child chIlli when a n man nan inn filling his serious domestic and Ocial offices in n life iCe After Arter he Is grown and has hns hardened Into nit thu man his mother made mn him the of or the tho women with whom he begins to affect his charter char char- ter If JC be Ime has l family wealth social manly beauty or brains to them they accept him with sith mOIa moral derelictions me may mn ho bo boIs homis his mis Is and make flake no effort cHart to Improve him tim lm Tiley seek seck only the benefits he Ime henl nl tiny be able ahle to besto in one wa way or lother tier by b his Influence or the tho pleas- pleas me Ire tc they thc ma may derive e from his Imis ion tion on Tet et wh when alien n he lIe marrlee r the wife who ho accepted him with all his blem- blem hes begins hl to Illustrate another phase oC it womans woman's Injustice to man by b com corn of oC his vices and infidelities When hen he lie was MM harming uti ii merry marry 11 lives and ami breaking social and an 1 moral laws Ina In Ina a n wholesale manner she did not object ob ob- ob When he continued in time the same Ih oT oi conduct after aCtor marriage she he ob objected ob- ob r ely Cm it her personally This Thin phase oC of woman to man mon I Is I. twofold t. since It mO also l Injustice to to t wo won womankind In general id i'd again ln n. n large lar c cla clasi of or women worrier or ar who vio from Cron Inheritance t or from o otho at 01 tho tile brain brainand and starvation of or the emotional emotional emo emo- nature are arc Imperfectly dovel bain are unjust In lii setting petting standards for normal healthy human Immar men which only disembodied spirits could be bo expected to follow tollow If IC men arc are educated from Crom tho the cradle to time the business arena with a n knowledge of ot time thc the higher meaning of o life liCe If It they the are aro taught ugh t to Lo understand the power which results from Crom self-control self and tho the splendid recompense which Is Is' Is the tho re reward reward reward re- re ward of oC those who master tho the appetites anti and passions b by the tile will then might t tWI we WI demand the th ascetic life liCe of oC them But nut since mothers sisters misters sweethearts friends teachers and society allow allon them to grow up to manhood as ns merely merel healthy young oun animals animal with natural appetites and passions and on only a vcr very imperfect Idea of self restraint it Is most unjust to expert t them to follow stan standards ards set h by the dyspeptic tile the anemic and the un undeveloped or In Indeed Indeed indeed In- In deed of or the time highly hl hl developed d spiritual man Inan or woman We e do not expect the thc newl newly born infant to walk or talk lall like tho the older I child Ho lie must first be taught taug The Toe average man Is newl newly born In the tho realm of or self lIe Ho Is la like tho only Infant only conscious of his physical It Is unjust to demand of oC him that ho he walk walle and talk according to spiritual laws until ho has been taught Woman oman Is unfair to man in not hot realizing realizing real real- izing his need o of sympathy In ill his hand- hand to hand hattie battle with tho outer world Sim She Is la forever crying over o her own battles her own trials and her own need of oC sympathy and she ste utterly forgets that there Is no loneliness lone lone- liness so great as that of tho 1110 strong Woman oman Is 11 unfair to man llIan In the present pres pres- ent era in demanding all the thc privileges eg egos s 's of or business equality eq and objecting object object- In ing ng to the discomforts of that sam sano equality Sho Silo wants him to share simara all the hc professions arts anti and trades with her imer and amId declares there is no tie sex In brain But nut she he wants him to consider her sex on Oil returning from the office or studio and to give up his scat as he would not do were silo she a L fellow man Thousands of American and French Frenchwomen Woolen women arc unjust to men In ln refusing to be the tho mothers of their children I Sit when situated n l to give children tho J best possible nn pOJ care anti and advantages vantages a It la is hl from the C well ell Well Well-to-do o classes that this thus refusal 11 comes come Tile The wago Wage woman woman suffering with lire dire poverty or the they oma woman whole whose hose husband Is la diseased or vicious Is Justified in hit refusing to be he a mother But flat such women usually propagate their kind w th alarming frequency while t those 1 To who true have nil earthly blessings blessing I to she give the 7 time to mo motherhood hood from their selfish i pleasures J But nut with sIth all thin list Of or womans woman's failures and nn 1 shortcomings it is is- brief brief indeed when placed Plad side sille by b side wIth tIlo tho list or of mans man's enormous offenses J Ja a woman Vho would dare undertake to enu- enu ate f. f ELLA WHEELER WILCOX |