Show Whether They Wed for Love or Money I I VY BY nl X J t I I There has been a n great deal of di discussion this dis as os to whether the CO coming minE marriage marriage mar mar- riago of or Gladys Vanderbilt and Count 1 Is 11 a love iove match or simply an of or money mone and lineage f That of course ourse L iso isa no question which nl th the oung people themselves cs can In answer and ancl It Jl Is not JIl likely cl that they vill take the world Into their onn Jenc ence 0 Of one thing thinA I am Ye very certain and that hat Is that Miss an Vanderbilt is marryIng marry marry- In Ing ng a 0 man who Is most observant gt all nil th he the little cO courtesies les and that hat women so love lo All foreigners who lay claim daim to the tho title Itle of gentleman n arc past masl masters in n tho the art ait of or courtliness 0 Not lon long ago 1 was a guest at t a country hou house o n t young Italian tn-lian was x-as also stopping Ili ills Ilis courtesy y and nna attentiveness enes toward the women o or the party part vero delightful to see sea ln a n woman expressed the r fish f. f vish ish for t 01 r nn anything ho he was ns on his r feet foet t to be of service The rhe American men n in the party part were wr ill line fine m men n hut but som somehow ho or ni other othor this his yo young unA foreigner made them seem Im t ju-t u-l u a little hit crude Ho lie was vas no lie better man than an any of or them hem not nol hair half as fine as some omo of them but In that one respect h ho he was superior to o all oil lIe He certainly cei how ho hoto to pa pay homage lomago to I Women o Iri lAUlu o And n let lol im im- tell you ou young oun men mon that women think a great deal h al oC or tho little attentions that make th them m fecil tedi as asi I though hough they were cie guarded and looked upon as OS something precious Count dill i 1 should Ii however cr be e something more morl a carpet knight II He lie e comes from a 61 race noted for fot prowess both hoth as diplomats and anel var- var T The family faintly dates from om th the so 50 Century etu nn nod from rom that date dateo to o thi this the members have haye been prom 1 in hi church and me state P Prelates te bishops a and nd arch archbishops hi have n hec-n plentiful Thc They have havo also been worldly princes holding holdin large courts retinues small armlet armies etc At th the death ath of Geol George I. I the thc family bc became amo stewards of the thC royal palaces In n Hungary al' with th tIn tho title of or BUI grave Din rn which Is nl also o n secondary title of th the thic Emperor of Germany So you 1 0 see sec e the young joung fiance lianca o of Miss MI- has boa a lon long line of ancestors to thaw qualities both good and bad had from I Of or all tho those tl-iose e dou doughty douhy h warriors some ome of or them miu must t ha have re h been cn men of or brains brain and force Perhaps in hi this young o m tw twentieth nU th thc c century y courtier the courtesy s of the diplomat antI and the th strength warnor war war- nor 1101 ill iIi meet null and mn make main I I a ery line fine lineman lineman him man of cit s Men Ien make a mistake ml if they Imagine that women like 1110 to h bo be dominated by hy shell sheet bruto strength rl Ihl St rung Should lb no Gnu Ic Woman tines does n admire and strength extremely bin ho to n also o sets great groat store tor by I 1 ml chivalry A man mart can an cut a 1 to tho tim soul Mul b by treating her hr nt g gently Very Yon often when whon a n. man mon is interested In Inon onti be lie will for forget lt the politeness polite ness nes duo to other othel women especially 11 3 when th the one woman oman is o of lh the party He lie will 1 look after her comfort very n and anel manage o to forget that tho the other omen exist They y may shim shim- ble on or ot off ofT a car nr their way through a d. croud anything clo for Cor them thorn Now o oin in a a. certain Va way that Is ic all nil n as asIt asit It should hOt be lie HI cares for that one die and naturally she como comes t first firstIn In his thou thoughts and her comfort is first to bo lC con considered Rut nut Is It quite necessary IY to make c other women feel fecI like nothing I r dont don't want to to-criticise to Ji the thC average average- young oun American too severely for I think he lie i is the tho fine 1 man roan in the thit world but hut I 1 do tin think that In some Komo respects he can learn a n. few fo lessons In courtesy O from from Crom hi his foreign cou cousins If It he he- antis adds a n. f few w of the courtly ways of ot the old world to In tho ho splendid vita vim 1111 of oC the tho new he ho will Avill HI Indeed rl be lie above o t I cis oh Do 10 Not flo Go il 0 IH IHn n MISS F. 1 am nm eighteen years of or ago age and am tm amIn amin In lox love 0 with a a. yong man years yeah elU my senior Wo 00 were Ice keeping company for the thC past t four months In and ond he lie acted OlY nice to m mo inc ami gave a ame me a n good Urn time He lie has n it t called nt at t m my iy house toy for the th last t tW k though thou h H it wn was usual for him to call weekly I sent him him a u. letter ettor cd no 3 answer II sW 1 Shall Shull I go o to 10 i visit vilt lt him hini and ascertain tho reason on for his not calling X Y 7 Z Xo Nci tb do o not think oC ni calling on un l lie H wn think it n very vory 6 thing for for or you ou to do You have writ writ- i ten ln him and that is io all nil that you can cando do do Perhaps hn ho tins has som some good e- e s- s disc cuse ant an and if It so he ho write or 01 call nil calland and anel tell you on so Xo No Ii It Sot Xoi DEAR n MISS FAIRFAX X I t nm am deeply pl in love 10 with a young man whom I I. I meet quite often oCten but have never ne' stopped to spek pe to him al although although al- al though ho he Is very r anxious to speak to tome me How would you yon n advise lse me to let him know that I t care car a It great r at tie deal for tot him hint Would 1 It fl bo ho proper for me rue to and let him know A. A M M. K IC Xo No m my dear it would not be at nt all proper for you ou to write rite to a man whom you yon do 10 not know 0 If he Is 13 so anxious lo tn meet you ho he will find some ome someway someway I wa way of or being Introduced If you on act net In a 1 bold forward manner he will think Ol very vory lJ lightly of of you OU r I. I 5 A Condescending Suitor 0 J j jD D DEAR MISS JS'S FAIRFAX 1 I am am nm In tn lox love with a n. young youn man who broke 1 t nother girl he ho was as to I marr marry a a. year I a ago o. o Ho lie tells t me that If he hI can cnn forget ct her in another year he will marry mo nw If Ir I will that Ion long hong Ho lie says sn's he lie thinks a 0 great deal tieni of or me m Please tell teJ mo me what lint 1 ought to ta do ho as asI asI I J love C him dearly oarl an and oblige L L- L. L I think h he Is a It Iter I Ot er very conceited condescending condescending condo con con- do descending ce young man Tell Ten him that you ou will not promise promise- to ito walt vait for tot him but hut that If I you Oil are nm still sUH free freo at the end endor of or a years year's eor time timp h he may ask aslou you ou to marry marl him and you ou ou will consider his proposal rop I t II i fill Ih I lu II I liy Tinus 1 1111 I T To protect this the banks hanks of his hiM state from demands for money at nt n a time lime when UW they thir- tero ClO unable to obtain It the governor gox oj or nt Ore Oregon on declared a five days days' hoWl holiday In that stuie The n acting o 1 0 Ol Oklahoma did the same Flame thin thing for that territory tei n Nevada n also enjoyed a orl series of ot these holidays The Tho legal al h holiday created to afford ll rest st ami recreation has hns proved ed through Its operation on comm commercial paper to be hC n a re refuge In time oA or storm California nin found it useful iii the th business demoralization demor that followed tho the great Ut earthquake earth earth- quake and destruction of Sun San Rn Francis Francis- co en 0 The lIti nuh nubile 11 Pre e in no holiday I mood hut but they were wro given holl holidays as for rora fori fora a i month or 01 moie until tho liS felt felt- secure enough to tn lc resume ume business I I Tills u use c of nC the le legal 31 holiday Is a i curious development dp The states have o 0 not In terms tel au authorised t ell the su suspension lon I of payments p h by pro proclamation o of the I governor gO hut but In iii pro pi for Cor a gubernatorial guber guber- appointment of or a Thanksgiving in ing day their Jaws nw ire are couched In language lan lait- L guage ua l general g to cox cover tho the thoI I creation r of nf 1 legal 11 holidays R for Cor ot other nurI pur- pur I potes f The ThC law Jaw of Pennsylvania names all l the Hie fi fl ed tl holidays 1 anti nud rl adds any an day clay L C CI I hv hy the till O of the tb state lat or OT the tH nt of the tho I oiled d States o as I 1 eln day of than thanksgiving tasting fasting or prayers pray pray- i ers era or other religious religIon observances I To protect the banks hanks In n the Uio Western Vestern fashion ti-ic ti O or of P Pennsylvania nm n H i find It somewhat Incongruous to toK I appoint i Ii Special day of or thanksgiving as thc they K I Belong to seasons of or plenty I than ini or of panic Ho has haR Another string f hJ lila his to how bow I under tho the law tho the thoI I appointment of or a fast day This would 0 be bo more in accord with the public f feeling feel feel- i- i ing and l serve r equally well roil In i giving days of or grace to maturing rem com mm m mercial paper I s. s III or of tI the X X inv Hn I. I It IK is now nn established th that t a 1 ph phe widely exploited as q the ray N f Is on one of the little hItti jokes jolt on science DIs Discovered ov reel or alleged to have ha been neon discovered h by nn an eminent French scientist some eight years rs after the thC first announcement of or the wonder working X ray the strange light that was scientifically distinguished b by the letter N has now failed and It appears appears ap ap- ap- ap pears that it never ol existed Yellow science mu wet must t turn to something something- l else elst- for or exploitations It was WOoS perhaps e ex expected that the ray N-ray would cure cancer cat can CeI run engines reveal re ht hidden treasures bIn bla blankets from zorn lom moths anti and Improve the complexion But ut such uch problems must now walt a-walt I 0 now flOW revelations lC of or science for their 30 10 o- o lution It appears that thaL nobody ha has I f been able ablo to produce the tho rays X since sinco their discoverer first t announced them And Anel the discoverer O OCI CI has declined to o produce before th c eyes cyca CS of accredited witnesses At u last it Il Is determined that thal tIme the m rays 1 arid and their wonderful ef- ef reo s 4 novel never hitch had an nn nl existence elten Y but bilt that l ont 1 series eft lIr lf Yn it fei i au I to Illusion lI f cd h by a n pec Pl of auto auto- su suggestion Such J Is t the h greedy i-e- i e ily of the p pseudo scientific Hlo c mind that It i is often oCten rather more difficult to I disprove l o a fantastic claim tha than n 10 to hi ie- ie i cuie cm-c fur for it Flie II unit nuil I Ji Ii lit lit- It n. n Th The ancient rule rulo of or school discipline based on the observation atlon that sparing the rod results In spoiling the tho child hl has been pretty A generally ablo abi In these days The community In which the teacher the thC principal I or the superintendent is poi permitted to tolay lay punitive hands upon th the pupil I Is Indeed rare Other methods o of dl cl I nUnc have Q superseded tho old oM and tho the bad hael boy hoy is li suspended ti sent rome nome kl kept after school made to stand In Iii a n corner sent to a lower grade or nr to toA 1 A truant school or d ed with Ith in th the effort to make mal him s see sec c tho error of or his hisa a ways s And still wo we have tho the holike ho v like the poor always with t us Some educators tors hell believe wo we e haxo more mOll of ci him hint with us liS than titan thanIn In in the lie old da days N Tho The recent ann canvass I of or f the principals of or schools in New cw York brought out i t preponderance o of S sentiment in fax Carom or or of ot restoring tho the rod to tD Its pristine place In correctional methods Out o of S SI I principals who ho were vere willing to answer lr the question 19 HI favored ored the use of corporal cot cor punishment In extreme ca cases cases- e I That shows 8 a n remarkable turn In educative edu edit I sentiment The Ihme Ness v ew York 1011 board boat of or education has hns taken n up tho timo matter anti and mn may yet et decide to tn permit principals ls to resort to nOt Hogging when they think It t I There I Is usually a n way to the thc had bad hoys hoy's heart hut but not always J intelligent effort should he be made to find 1101 that hidden way wa Sometimes th the lie roil brings s th the lion linn to make th the wn way nay clear I t Rapid nail growth gro i is an tn indication I of t-if health |