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This quiz can be very enhghtemng ~ After learning more about your own and each others love language, perhaps - concessions can be made. When a verbally-oriented person concedes to pitch in and work ona pro;ect W|th you for an hour or two, perhaps the. = L : vrsually-onented partner can then agree to sit down for a while atter dmner and ‘. practtce some: actlve Itstemng skills |n exchange—whtle domgNOTHING but ’ Commg to an understandtng of how othersexpress therr lovecan alte— : ) » vrate a lot of frustratlon and mtsunderstandmgs e A al | would preter recervrng apprecuatton by a "Ahug it By : Wrth whrch of these statements do you mostagree? o o | _Pnnted by permtssron of xDr Lund To obtatn a free “Love Language Test”Or ¥, A__;“Rules For Crtttcszrng,’f o PR % "'vrsut the web srte <WWW. drlund com>”f-;fij': RS e L B | would rather hold hands inpubtlc or walk arm-ln arm and mean ttthan A ltve in a fancy Ll M A e L S 1 e AL EOL A R A f R A Blueberry Cream Scallopsover Angelhalr Pasta ~b. 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How Baes Wa{fififi?&A | SR 23 '_" As a parent ofa yoeng child ] woutd preter ~-a. Holding or wrestling with them -a 2 N J - C. thhdravr pnvrteges 3 @ SR Ttte Hongry tt’etfttesteumrtt at ttett" t:t: a Spank , o - Heat the ates et in 4 sante pet até ttt::garlicatrtt etzctttsdtomato I}egteeetttt ‘2}‘48 sttze wine andreducsby half. Add the cream, capers, scallops, blueberrics and reduceby halfayain o wtil eeezai ;; . - b. Scold "éetfimr»tfeetgeed | s clotasie When | get unset as a parent| would be more ancttned to » O [Moupsndicdtomate ?tbigg,q; oapers B | would rather have my mate a. Lol 5135&1‘?*‘13’4‘3*51“13"@5& o a0 b. Failure to communtcate‘ B A 21, . > RS a. Not being affectuonate | ~b. Talking back AT A (0 The thmg that upsets me most ahout chtldren IS - | |Mopehiewine el - B 19 e Each spouse may just not have a ctue , Most likely, nothing is wrong. - b. Say, “l love you” C. Surpnse me wuth agood deed 16, C Vtsuatly onented they love : :'would “Jump” in and help. What's wrong, don’t | would prefer to have my mate a. B Verbal!yonented - " yard. Perhaps the spouse, in this case, feels that, “if theyme?” rea!ly toved methey _ Availability and understandlng C. Loyalty and dependabmty 15. Touch onented "f‘B”'af‘stfv‘ers'.'~ iy Your hlghest score isyour “pnmary” Iovetanguage Your second htghest score . “is your “secondary” love language. No one way you express yeur love is o - wrong or right. But it is important to note that people express their love to oth~ers in different styles in varying degrees If your spouse is not demonstratrve . with their affection--not showering you routinely with hugs, ‘kisses’ and hand-e 'holdtng, it doesn’t necessarily mean that he/she does not love you. Perhaps ~ your spouse is more visual or task oriented. Try to understand that sheorhe =~ ‘ts commumcatmg their love through acts of servnce-—busytng themselves keep-- LT . ing the home or yard neat and clean. ‘On the other hand, a visual-oriented e 'j;"spouse may feel that his or her touch- oriented spouse does not Iove them e .. because they don’t, nearly often enough, offer to pitch in or take the mrtrattve to. oy ~ work on all the projects that need to be taken care of around the home and 1 c. Remember to run an errand forme ) i o a esffigigse B 2 e |