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Show I The Eureka Reporter Four September 13. 1991 Court dismisses Some have A child gains independence by having input into their appearance part of local and choices. and Kathy's Corner Quality grandparenting by Kathy Riggs You may or may not have been aware that we recently 2. Financial gift giving 3. Television watching 4. Sharing information National Grandfrom parents Day (September S'). The of grandparenting lhcjast importance 5. Advise giving should not be overlooked since 6. Problem solving the bonds that could, and often 7. Attending religious services do. develop between grandchild 8. Disciplining the child and grandparent will likely last 9. Taking day trips together well into the grandchilds adult 10. Teaching specific skills years. 11. Solving parcntchild probWith the increased life expeclems tancy of older adults, wc have an It is interesting to note that increased number of living grand- paVenisYthcamc" timchcrc more of the reported activities fit has been a chance in the number into a fun seeking, pleasurable of children ncr household result- - types f time spent. Many of the ing in a decrease in the number activities reported as being done of grandchildren per living grand- - ty grandparents were things that parent. During that same period parent did, should, or could have time there has also been an done if time were available. Most people can reflect on increase in the numbers of homes some fond memories of experi- disrupted due to divorce, alcoholcnees that center around grand- ism and other social problems According to Dr. Glen O. parents. Those memories can Jcnson, USU Extension family scrvc as anchor points in the lifeand human development special- - of a youth. Lessons and stories sharcd by grandparents may 1st, many researchers and family scholars have suggested that more become turning points in the life a youth who otherwise may attention needs to be focused on some bad choices. Grand-hel- p niakc what grandparents can do to lend and support in the midst of parents can say things in a way the negative effects of family that youth will listen. Grandpar-disruptiocnts arc a great rcinforccr of It is well documented that a pnrcntal values and behavior. can help put stabili- grandparent can have a powerful Grandparents in a world of rapid social influence for good on a grandchild ty and cither directly or indirectly. Some change disruption in families of the themes observed in the research pertaining to the grandparents reflect roles and status that could be described as: stress buffer, family values watch dog, referee, parenting tutor, gift giver, playmate, role model, mentor, The Utah Museum Association historian, family story teller, best cld the annual meeting on the friend, etc. Southern Utah University campus Listed below is the rank order jn Qdar City last Thursday and of how a group of grandparents Friday. All meeting were held in by researchers at Penn ion Canyon Room in the Tf bcauliful Studcnt - n. how you !nk LJ grandchildren Bikeothon will research caln wS non-verb- Elc-studi- sons Attending the conference, representing the Tintic Mining Museum were June and Colcen McNulty. They enjoyed the beau- tiful campus, the gracious city, and the information they received from the discussions. EUREKA CENTER MAIKLAND, P.A.C. ..Office Hours.. Mondays Wednesday Fridays cata-Thcrefor- c, ct want-cspcci- ally after all. As teenagers experiment with clothing styles or express feelings about certain clothes or appearance, be careful not to h ridicule or poke fun of their ices or tease about their bodies, This is the quickest way to cut off d communication and your cnee, 6. cho-scarc- influ-treate- Akron Ohio the annual Is the location of Soap All-Americ- an Box Derby. There available one-mil- T-sh- irt rt; 433-665- 3-- 5 1012 3-- 5 Blood Pressures checked without charge Coloring Bleaches 1 J8P, - Frosts Senior Otizons: FREE Eyt Exwni for Drivor'i Liconm APPOINTMENTS ONLY PHONE i ! 4336367 Closed Sunday and Monday j At one time in ancient Rome, it was forbidden to cat eggs. The egg was regarded as a potential Wc speak of a herd of cattle; in this manner, we havc an army of frogs, a clutter of cats, and a skulk of foxes. MOD. 21357B MOD. P21357B gg)g)99 8. chicken, therefore too valuable to be eaten. Expert Styling Copies Available-- 5 ea. FOR APPOINTMENTS 433-690- 5 ng appreciated, T-shi- I. threatening manner and keep communication open for when they arc ready to verbalize their mixed feelings. Louise Young, USU Extension Clothing and Textiles Specialist gives some specific guidelines for helping teens talk more openly with their parents. 1. Start early allowing children to make clothing choices and decisions not only in selecting clothing purchases, but also when selecting what to wear from their closet. 2. Ask their opinion and allow them to express themselves with-miniout making fun or putting down, combina-minin- g They may like a color Is tion you think silly, but rather s than they will find saying on their own if soon out enough their friends share your opinion, 3. Help them feel good about their bodies, size, color of hair, freckles, etc. If they express dis-o- f content with being too this or too that, let them talk it out. 4. If they have clothing tastes different from yours--an- d they will-- go through magazines, cdu-rcalogs, and shop with them to cate yourself on their opinion, 5. Guide their choices by using good buying practices. Let them earn money to buy what they if it is something you cant afford or choose not to purchase for them. They may decide it Isnt worth the effort cd will be two courses to ride. One will be around the high school track; the e other is a trail loop just north of the high school, Please come out and partici pate. If you cant ride, you can count laps for those who do. All Grasshoppers "sing" by rubbing 3 their legs together, or against in S30.00 Those turn or more who their lough wing covers. a $75.00 get gets you a a and gym bag. If you havc any questions, call LYMAN'S BEAUTY Nick Castleton, SALON No person on planet Earth has EUREKA, UTAH ever lived to be one Neptune year LYMAN L0NEY old. A Neptune Year is the time Owner and Operator it takes the planet Neptune to Blow Styling and cutting revolve once around the sun, or 164.8 Earth Years. Perms MEDICAL JOSEPH al serving. Ask questions in a non- Scssions included such discus- as: Building Bridges (be- nrrfnr rini lwccn muscums and lhc public); ?nn have spent Granl writing; Finding, Training, and peeping Volunteers; Public y. Relations: Museums in the Public recommends donations that Jive close between Ncw and in 25 cents and 50 cents per Eycs; Dcvclopmcnts Utah Muscums. mile, but any amount is greatly . nnH it suit law enough for regular contact. 1. Joking or teasing the child celebrated Clothing clothing a tool for can be choices clothing than rather cohcsivcncss family communicaconflict by developing Sunshine Mining Co. today tion skills when discussing clothing announced that a portion of the and appearance-relate- d topics and law suit brought against the decisions. If parents begin early showing company by Chief Consolidated Mining Co. had been dismissed in they respect their childs opinions Utah District Court said Tim without making fun of their cloth- Hannifin, local mine superinten- - ing selections, the child in turn dent. respects a parents feelings when Hannifin said that the dis- - opinions of choice may differ, missed portions of the law suit Family conflicts may develop over involved Chiefs alleged claims cost, needs versus wants, and about Sunshines breach of its most commonly, faddish and un- leases, and Sunshines usual clothing decisions. As parcnLs try to teach their alleged failure to proceed with the of the leased properties in children values, but then have Utah. These were the main por- - their children come home with tions of the damages Chief sought torn jeans and strange styles or fads, parents can use the situation against Sunshine. Hannifin aLso said that Chief as an opportunity for communica- will probably appeal the dismissal, tion rather than conflict. This is a Other claims by Chief Consoli- - crucial point in the parent-chil- d dated against Sunshine alleging process and may influence the conversion of Chiefs property and pattern set for communication fraud in obtaining Chief s consent throughout the relationship. to assignment of one of the leases Clothes express and protect us. were not effected by the courts Clothes also affect how wc act. ruling. parents commonly to certain appearance cues that young people sec as harm- less. Kids may know exactly what they arc doing when their clothing gets the attention they arc after, Teenagers, especially, will take the risk of parental disapproval and anger if their clothing helps On Saturday, Sept. 21, at cm achieve social acceptance, Kids havc a strong need to mOTevVot Si. conform and look like their ? . peers, Judes Hospital in Memphis, jn jjis way, is used as a clothing Tennessee. St. Judes was cstab- - socialization process by which kids lished by Danny Thomas to re- - internalize societal norms, pcrccp- and treat cancer and jjons of others as well as form similar diseases in children. about themselves. Children are admitted and impressions pads may actuauy be safe turf for regardless of their ability setting the stage for indepen- to pay, so they need your help to dcncc 0, if the choices arc not continue to be able to offer this too deviant, parents may be wise valuable service. not to overreact. Instead, read the Anyone interested in riding, language by just ob- should pick up sponsor forms at Tintic High School, Eureka mentary School, V & Js Gas & Groceries, or Carpenter Station. The get as many people as you can to sponsor you, and come to the high school track with your list by 10:00 a.m., Sat., the 21st. Most riders average 20 miles and the problem movers to meet L.. :ange of push and the specific needs of your la.n. A . system for more c'eavjo Greater '.ersa:nty v.ith options for bagcmc. recycng and oo.-.er- fletnatching S'lao-C'e- cr.es vcj no monthly pa.ments for 90 cays Asvcurceaer for details snapper Anything Uss Just Wdn'l 0--; Cut It. Renter Seed (o, 1030 SOUTH STATE ST. PROVO OPEN 8 A.M. TO 5:30 P.M. |