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Show Salt lakt City, Monday, February 20, 1MT DESERET NEWS AND TELEGRAM, AS if , y Bnsnnnir llnm JiirjJI o icin' Presenting v . .. r Petetson T akes Labor Post FEATURES t w r - Confidentially Yours Young Bride Asks For Advice . By MARY MAmncn Dear Mary Marker: My husband and I have been married. for.s 10 months. I thought when we were engaged that we would be able to answer any marriage quiz, as to suitability for each other as marriage partners. But it looks like we had just been : .. kidding ourselves. We get along worse and worse. We used to go out every Friday ..and Saturday night when we were engaged. Harry $ Av 'V Iniul Bur writ to Mmrr ivmaiet Mirkiri nolwln Ideal Nawa. fcy Mdriulni of ilia Dm! letters te Mbit Murker, Deseret New, F.O. Bex lift?, Salt- Lake Cite It, FASHION SHOW Admiring some of the clothes to be modeled at the annual Chi Mrs. K. Clark Mitchell, left, Omega fashion show and luncheon are and Mrs. Reed M. Stringham Jr. Models are alumnae, Mrs. Don V. Cook, seated, and Miss Jewell Ainsworth. Chi Omega Sets Fashion Show "The Art of Fashion is theme of the Chi Omega luncheon and fashion show to be held Saturday, 12:30 p.m., in the ballroom at the University of Utah Union Building. The show will stress the influence art has on todays fashions. Unusual displays of arts and crafts, featuring pottery and paintings, will be presented by The Hanging Tree. Duripg the luncheon, Paul Banham, professor of music at the University of Utah, will entertain with a discussion of the relationship of music, art, color and fashion. Among those modeling the fashions from ZCMI wUl be members of Chi Omega. This annual event is sponsored to raise funds for one of the organizations philanthropic projects, which is a Fine Arts Scholarship. & of the event 'are Mrs. K. Clark Mitchell and Mrs. Refed Stringham Jr. Other members of the com- , Expert WATCH and JEWELRY Repairing GIFFINS 5r,L Immediate Service mittee include Ann Reichman door prizes; Mrs. Neal and Mrs, Robert Crofts, fashion show coordinators: Mrs. Willis Lucas, decorations; Miss Charlene Carmen, tickets and programs; Dotty Clawson, Utek never seems to want to go anywhere now. I have to threaten or nag or cajole to get him to and then take me anywhere the fun is all gone. His mother lives just two houses away. She runs in the minute we both get home from work, and if we have had to leave the dishes (I mean . if I have had to leave them), she always comments and acts rather hopeless about us. This invariably gets Harry into a bad mood. Big Max- well, bakery sale, and Mrs. Keith Aste, candy sale. Reservations can be made with Miss Susan Woodruff, and Mrs. George EMpire Paulson, EMpire Job ; I try to keep everything neat and clean but it is quite a big job and Harrys mother cer tainly gives him the idea that a man should never do any thing in a home. This Is. hard on me, for my job is as hard as his. We are Madeleine Alder, Dennis Orton Marry Tuesday PBX Meeting, 7 p.m., Dairy, 723 S. State. 1 Ensign Business and Professional Womans. Club MeetReception Center was setting Saturday ing, 7 p.m Hotel UtalT, Pio- evening for the marriage of Miss Madeleine neer Room. Alder, former Brigham Young University Lady Maccabees, Mt. Hive student, and Dennis Marwin Orton. FollowNo. 27 Meeting, 8 p.m., ing the nuptials, the newlyweds were YMCA, 322 E. 3rd South. . honored at a wedding reception.' Utah Symphony Guild Symposwith greeting guests were Assisting 2 p.m., Uni- their ium-Meeting, parents, Mr. and Mrs. Hugh C. Alder, Union Bldg. 679 Vine St., Murray, and Mr. and Mrs. versity League of Women Voters, Arthur B. Orton, 201 Vine St., Murray. Unit 8 Meeting, 8 p.m., home For her wedding the bride wore a of Mrs. Lawrence Requa, 1744 gown of lace Underscored with tafYaleAve, molded bodice was styled with long The feta. League of Women Voters, sleeves and a sabrina neckline, trimmed Unit 6 Meeting, 8 p.m., home reof Mrs. Melvin Freeman, 230 with pearls and sequins. A bridal hat illusion. of veil leased her Wilson St., Midvale. Attending the bride were Mrs. Larry Grand Army Auxiliary Evans, matron of honor; Miss Yvonne Christensen, maid of honor; Miss Elma Rae Oliver O. Howard Womans Kohler and Miss Mary Alder. They wore Relief Corps Auxiliary to the white de soie gowns with red cumpeau Grand Army of the Republic merbunds. will meet Thursday, 12:30 p.m., Petite Emma Nancy Orton and Danell at 201 E. 1st South. Orton were flower girls. John Van Ry performed duties of best man. Ushers were Steven Orton, Bently Orton, Bill Alder, Bob Alder and Brent Alder. The newlyweds will make a home in Salt Lake City, where Mr. Orton will attend University of Utah. Clo-verle- floor-lengt- Harry wants me to give Into about him all the time everything. I think we should do some compromising. I cannot understand how we got along so well before marriage and make such a mess of things now. Any advice, Mary Marker? Discouraged Wife Dear "Discouraged Wife: Yes. Dont give up. Work at your marriage and by to make a good adjustment before your hoped-fo- r children come. No conditions are ideal for marriage. There are always hurdles to be managed, especially during the first year. Marriage is quite different from being engaged. There are almost invariably frictions, or possibly silent irritations at least, among any two or more persons living in close contact with each Other, roommates in a dormitory, sharers of an apartment, members of a family. It Is Difficult make two is difficult to busy lives blend into one, two. sets of tastes harmonize when they may be very different Relatives, even when dearly PA '4 : fl f'i ' t rUTf UP i' is. 7 j ' ' r-P-- : i ' ''tJ'P' h . TIRED OF DIETING? Call Betty at Stauffer and learn about the feminine way to reduce. See how you can lose inches from your tummy, hips, thighs, legs while relaxing on Mr. Staufmagic couch. For More Information of. CLUB CALENDAR PLEDGES VOWS Mrs. Dennis Mar-wi-n Orton was Miss Madeleine Alder before her marriage Saturday, evening. Apple Dessert fers both working to save for a home for the family we want to have before long. . Sometimes, though. When 1 see how badly we are getting along, X yonder if it wont be the divorce court Instead of the cozy home we had dreamed CALL HU 5-88- 31 Tuck a few plump juicy apples into your shopping basket the next time you go marketing. Then be sure you use them to prepare this delicious Apple Dessert Quickie. To prepare this easy dessert, combine 1 cup sifted enriched flour, 1 cup brown sugar and 1 teaspoon cinnamon. Cut or rub in cup butter or margarine. Place 3 cups sliced, (fresh or peeled if they are closely connected with the new household, may bring up new problems to be solved. There are hundreds of. other difficulties, many of which may come the way of the newlyweds. You should be trying to talk all these problems out before they become impasses to your marriage that might lead to one of those . divorces. Lack of communication is one of the major reasons for divorce. Xf there Is basic love plus the ability to talk logically and intelligently, about problems, looking at the justice or injustice of situations in particular, love may be cemented instead of being destroyed, as obstacles are overcome. Ipved, ALM. Keeping Posted Musf Rude - I Waitress : Be Tipped? By EMILY POST Dear Mrs. Post: Was I wrong in refusing to leave a tip in the following situation: A group of six went to a very nice restaurant for dinner. The waitress was very rude and the service awfuL We waited a half hour or more between courses and when the food arrived it was cold.-Onof the persons in the group thought we should at least leave a small tip even though the service was bad, but since a tip is supposed to be given in appreciation of good service, which we did not receive, I said a tip was not necessary and did not leave one. I would appreciate your opinion on this. Answer: Your waitress certainly did not deserve a tip and you were justified In not leaving one. It would perhaps have been wiser of you if, at the first evidence of rudeness on her part, you had gone to the head waiter or manager and insisted that he change your waitress for one who would at least be polite. Dear Mrs. Post: To whom should a note of sympathy be addressed when the only living parent has died and the three sons and a daughter surviving are all married and live in their own homes? Answer: Deseret News Washington Bureau WASHINGTON Mrs. Esther Peterson, native of Provo Utah,, new director of the Women's Bureau of the Department of Labor, says the work of the bureau in the Kennedy e Administration will be focused on the level, which constitutes the bulk of the female working . Mrs. Peterson said her predecessor as head of the Womens Bureau, Alice K. Leopold, made a "great contribution in alerting womens ' organizations to the meeds ; of working women. -- ; However, she pointed out ,, that ' the emphasis in the Eisenhower Administration 7 was on college graduates, working at the professional level. This, she said, would be the immediate difference in the work of the Bureau. : Aside from changing the walls from "Mamie pink to every day govemmentese green the lively new assist ant secretary does not contemplate a serious overhaul in. the bureau. Although th ideas she brimming says she prefers "restraint . to revolution" in beginning to tackle her new Job. With the April I960 fig. ures showing over 23 million working women in the Unit--; ed States, Mrs. Petersons job concerns itself with one- -' third of the total UJ5. labor force. She is one of the highest paid women in the Ken nedy Administration with a salary of $16,000; , Mother PiFour A mother of four children, Mrs. Peterson is primarily concerned with the problems of working mothers., Eight, million working mothers with children under 18 years of age in March 1959 was the highest number ever recorded. The minimum wage law is another area in which the new assistant secretary would like to see some changed She says that of the 20 million people in the United States not covered by ' the minimum wage law a great percentage are women. Along this same line Mrs. Peterson is interested in equal pay for women. She says the premise that married women work to pick up pin money is ridiculous and that,-othe whole, they are working because their paychecks are deeded to help support their families. The former Esther Eggertsen, she is the wife of Olive -Peterson, labor advisor to the State Department on African Affairs. Of their four children, itaren, the oldest, is a recent graduate of Wellesley College and is now working as a research assistant at George Washington University, In addition they have three sons. Eric and Ivor are. at Harvard, which, she chuckles, accounts for her appointment, and Lars, the youngest son, is a student at St Albans in Washington, f.(L Varied Career career in teaching at In addition to a twelve-yea- r of Southern Utah and the Winsor School in Massa-- ,' chusetts, Mrs. Peterson was Assistant Director of Educa- tion for the Amalgamated Clothing Workers IT America,, and more recently was the legislative representative, for the AFLCIO tn Washlngton. In thla capacity, she worked, with Senator Kennedy' on his minimum wage bill and helped .f organize labors women for his ticket in the campaign. Some of Mrs. Petersons greatest boosters are among the women from her native state. Mrs. Frank E. Moss, wife of the Democratic Senator from Utah, recently entertained at a luncheon honoring Mrs. Peterson. Coming on the eve of St Valentines day, the theme of the luncheon was Esther the Sweetheart, of Utah and the tributes were WEST'S LARRSST PIN DISPLAY. paid her by Mrs. Moss and Judge Reva Beck Bosone. SHEET MUSIC PIANO METHODS, .. better than the others, you write to her (or him). Otherwise, to the "head of the the eldest You Too Save Money Classified. Ads ACCESSORIES, family-m- Ml eaning BONOOS Mall Orders Accepted nal Hart Bros. Music KOI STIR NOW NUT YEAR r El MH1 FOR EM SI SO S. 11th left. Sugar Heece .0 22 ftforflja apples canned) in a greased square pan. Sprinkle with Bake In a flour mixture. moderate oven (350 degrees F.) about 30 minutes. Serve plain or with whipped cream. Makes 6 servings. NURSEIY P EMIT METHODIST CHUtCH CO-O- If you know one ETC. 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