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Show 04 DAILY HERALD Sunday, SepteirietIZ 2004 CELEBRATIONS Wake up and see the warning signs C Brown, 80th Mansfield, 50th The sons and daughter-in-law- Clayton Brown of Spanish Fork s of Marilyn Griffiths Mansfield and Ronald C Mansfield are happy to announce their parents 50th wedding anniversary. Ron and Marilyn were, married September 15, 1954 in the Salt Lake Temple. They are the parents of six sons: Mark (Suzanne), Paul (Kerry), Steve (Gayle), John ). (Pam), Scott (Manna), Mike They have 21 grandchildren and 3 A family dinner honored them on Saturday, September 11, 2004. Congratulations Mom & Dad! (Aly-son- i V ."- arofyiv I have been married years. We have the typical struggles most couples experience and are both strongly committed to making the marriage work. My wife is extremely attractive, but now 40 pounds heavier than when we married She also picks at her skin and has turned several spots into permanent scabs. I am very concerned as her actions are not healthy for her, and secondly I find myself less physically attracted to her. People always say it's what's on the inside that counts, but I believe the inside and outside are a reflection of one another. Am I shallow for being upset my wife isn't taking care of herself (physically and mentally) now that we are married? Fred will be celebrating his 80th birthday on September 9, 2004. He was born in 1924 in Koosharem, UT. A celebration will be held in his honor Saturday, September 18, 2004 at the Senior Citizen Center in Spanish Fork, 167 W. Center St, from 24 p.m. We invite all his many friends and family members to come and wish him a Happy It isn't shallow to be upset that your wife isnt taking care of herself physically now that "you're married. It's shallow to be upset that your wife isnt taking care of herself physically when her physical ills are a clear and frightening side effect of tier Birthday! No gifts please! We love you very much Dad!! Jerohn, Jeanine and Jeffrey more than the typical struggles." They may have started ' there, but they left that station a long time ago destined for points more severe. Quickly. For whatever reason, your wife feels she can't address her problems with you openly. Or with herself even. When you downplay these problems, first as typical couple stuff, and then in ascending order of as a pesky sexual hurdle for you, you help to create an environment where she probably doesn't feel safe even admitting she's unhappy, much less questioning the happiness of the marriage. Much much less asking for help. Offer it. Say you're worried about her. Say youll call her regular doc for referrals, or hold her hand as she does. Offer today. boyfriend, who I would LOVE to marry if he'd only ask. What say? ' Detroit I say, rephrase the question: If the shirt you want is too do you wait for it to go on sale and risk its not being available in your size any more, or do you give up and try on a more affordable shirt that you also like, only not as egre-giousne- ss Carolyn Hax Tefl Me About It need for mental help. And, for the record: It ceases being a case of "She got me to marry her and now she feels she can get as fat as she wants" the moment she starts picking her skin till it bleeds. Fred, Fred, Fred. Please, help her. Your wife has (XHiipulsions that demand and may wen treatment have a serious underlying cause, such as anxiety or depression. At minimum, she is under great stress. At minimum, she is not turning to you for support, but rattier turning on herself. At minimum, you have way much? Then I say, if your marriage question can be translated into retail without even the slightest change in meaning, you need to be single. You're missing the whole marriage point. It's not a shirt, it's a life. A shared life. Before you wear it home, assume it's a long life at that. . day-to-da- "Tell Me About It": Dear Carolyn: Is it ever OK to kiss another man while you have a . te1hnewashpost.com; fax: or write: "Tell Me About It," do The Washington Post, Style Plus, boyfriend? My boyfriend, while great, fust hasn't jumped on the engagement train. This other fella has shown interest (OK, it's mutual), and I'd like to see if there's anything there. But not at the expense of my 1150 15th St., NW, Washington, D.C. 20071. Chat online with Carolyn each Friday at noon Eastern time, at www.washingtonpost.com. TODAY IN HISTORY f Today is Sunday, Sept. 12, the 256th day of 2004. There are 110 days left in the year. church does not speak for me." In 1974, Emperor Haile Selassie was deposed by Today's Highlight in History: Ethiopia's military after ruling On Sept 12, 1609, English ex- for 58 years. In 1977, South African black plorer Henry Hudson sailed into the river that now bears student leader Steven Biko died his name. while in police custody, triggerOn this date: ing an international outcry. In 1880, author and journalist In 1988, Hurricane Gilbert H.L Mencken was born in Balslammed into Jamaica, killing timore. 45 people and causing damage In 1938, Adolf Hitler deestimated at up to $1 billion. manded serf determination for Ten years ago: A stolen, engine the Sudeten Germans in Cessna crashed into ' the South Lawn of the White Czechoslovakia ' In 1943, German paratroopHouse, coming to rest against ers took Benito Mussolini from the executive mansion; the pithe hotel where he was being lot, Frank Corder, was killed. held by the Italian government. Five years ago: Under intense In 1944, during World, War international pressure, Indonesia announced it would allow II, U.S. Army troops entered an international peacekeeping Germany for the first time, near Trier. force to restore order to the In 1953, Massachusetts Sea devastated territory of East John F. Kennedy married Timor. Andre Agassi captured his second US. Open title, domJacqueline Lee Bouvier in Newport, R.I. inating Todd Martin 64, 7 7 In 1954, "Lassie" made its ), "The Practelevision debut on CBS. tice" and "Airy McBeaL" both In 1960, Democratic presK created by wrier-producdential candidate John F. David E. KeUey, were named Kennedy addressed the issue of best drama series and best his Roman Catholicism, telling comedy series at the 51st a Protestant group in Houston, Emmy Awards. "I do not speak for my church One year ago: In the Iraqi oh public matters, and the city of Falhtjah, U.S. forces mis 7. . ... - - , 3 takenly opened fire on vehicles carrying police, killing eight of them. The UN. Security Council ended 11 years of sanctions against Libya. Typhoon Maemi slammed into South Korea, killing at least 117 people. Music legend Johnny Cash died in Nashville, Tenn., at age 71. Today's Birthdays: Actress Irene Dafley is 84. Actor Dickie Moore ("Our Gang") is 79. Actor Freddie Jones is 77. Country singer George Jones is 73. Actor Ian Holm is 73. Actress Linda Gray is 64. Singer Maria Muldaur is 61. Actor Joe Panto-lian- o single-- Miller, Emery Hansen, 100th Leona Fannie Logsdon Hansen will celebrate her 100th birthday on September 17, 2004. Friends and family are invited to an open house celebration at the home of her granddaughter, Dianne Robi-so- a 406 E. 3100 N. Lehi, from 600 to 8.00 p.m. that evening. Leona was born at home in American Fork, on September 17, 1904. She married Wayne E. Hansen of American Fork in the Salt Lake Temple on January 16, 1924, and they had two daughters, Janice (deceased) and currently lives with her daughter, Joyce and Don Crump in Pleasant Grove. Diane Miller and the late LiRoy Miller of Springville, are ple tsed to announce the engagement of their daughter, LeAnn Miller, to Robert Russell Emery, son of Russell and Shelly Emery of Spanish Fork, The couple plan to be married on Saturday, Sept. 18, 2004 in the Mount Timpanogos LDS Temple. A reception will be held in their honor that evening at the 1st ward, 870 E Canyon Rd., Spanish Fork, from 6 to 8 p.m. The couple will make their home in Spanish Fork. ' 6-- Mead-owlar- 6-- (2-7- 6-- is 53. - ri singer-musicia- (5-7- ), 6-- Rollie and Phyllis Bestor have just concluded a wonderful celebration of their 50 year-lon- g years together. Having met while students at the University of Wisconsin, Rollie Ray Bestor and Phyllis Clara Indermuehle were married September 12th, 1953 at St. Mary's Catholic Church in West Bend, Wisconsin. Their marriage was eternally solemnized in the Provo, Utah Temple in 1978. This special year included the completion of their second LDS mission and such diverse trips and activities as watching an exciting BYU football game at Notre Dame, taking a unique trip to Elko's National Gathering of Cowboy Poetry, watching their son Kurt perform his first Christmas concert in the Wisconsin town of his birth, and vacationing with college friends in Florida. There was also just enough time to squeeze in a Panama Canal cruise! full-tim- e HOROSCOPE GEMINI (May 21 June 20): Do something with friends and you win learn some valuable information. Get to know the people in your neighborhood better. Romantic encounters are evident. 4 stars BORN ON THIS CELEBRITIES -- Yao Ming, Benjamin McKenzie, Ruben Studdard, PaulWalker Happy Birthday: It's time to put yourself and your dreams on the line and give it your best shot. Regardless Of the results, it will lead to a better you and a better future. Don't hesitate to ask for help. Your numbers are 1,11,20,28,37,46 DAY: A highlight of this golden wedding anniversary year was sharing it with visits to family in Atlanta, Georgia (John & Chris Bestor), Rexburg, Idaho (Jul & Ron Anderson), Salt Lake City (Kurt & Petrina Bestor), and St. George, Utah (Carrie & Lon Henderson) as well as hosting a Christmas celebration with all 35 family members. Congratulations! ARIES (March TAURUS (April a little hot under the collar today. Give people the benefit of a doubt. The more laid back you are, the more likely you are to get your own way. 3 ;JI Double-chec- k any paperwork that is pending. Legal or contractual matters may not be as i. 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This is your day to shine and you will attract love and friendship. 5 stars CAPRICORN (Dec 19): By helping someone in your family or a close friend, you wiU build a strong bond that wfll bring you many returns in 22): 23-Se- pt 18): 20-Fe-b. t let anyone or anything fluster you. Disappointments in partnerships may develop, but if you are logical and handle the situation in a practical manner, you wiU do just fine. 3 v. SAGITTARIUS (Nov. stars VIRGO (Aug. AQUARIUS (Jan. Don 21): (Oct You may have difficulty avoiding someone who wants to have it out with you. Try not to overreact. Let this person vent,: but don't retaliate. 2 stars LEO(July23-Aug.22):Yo- u Question what you are doing if you are having problems with friends and family. Your stub- -' bornness may stand in the way of getting what you really ' want. 2 stars stcirs StflTS SCORPIO will be 20): 20-M- LIBRA (Sept 22): Lots of talk and plenty of activity should be on your agenda today. Love will flourish, so don't sit at home by yourself . Favors will be granted and options win be made available. 4 23-O- ct CANCER (June 21 -- July 22): Put This is a perfect day to make physical changes and certainly a great day for love and romance. You are in a real creative cycle. 5 stars the future. Give today and you win receive in the future. 3 st&rs some thought into what you see yourself doing in the future. You can make the necessary changes if you stop thinking about it and start taking action. 3 stars 19): straightforward as you think. 3 THE "WORLD FAMOUS" Cnemrt 2004 EUGENIA IAST, SUNDAY, SEPTEMBER 12, n CWEMARK-PftOV- n (1815-1902- - Bestor, 50th n Singer-musicia- Gerry Beckley (America) is 52. Rock musician Neil Peart Associated Press (Rush) is 52.. Actor Peter Sco-lais 50. Actress Rachel Ward On Sept 12 1953, Sen. John F. is 47. Rock musician Norwood Kennedy married Jacqueline Fisher (Fishbone) is 39. Actor Lee Bouvier. In 1960, as Darren E. Burrows is 38. 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