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Devoted Devo J Parents Happy HappY- HappYDCAIt , - 1tEAK DORIS DEV DENC DE"E DEE " > : I am nineD nineteen nineteen nine EAR - JuLua JuLuaI bave have bavet havetried D DCAIt teen and for two - ycars years who are arer arei t tried r I e cl to help my parents beenIn beensuccessful been beenIn eb wed need lave lavesuccessful I b have not riot financial i In i Io Iojust haveabout about successful as my j job > " just .I I justmar . about sup supports supriot m mar marports mar-- mar mari meNow Now I amrlage am offered ollered ; : ports me . i Aider older man lieS liefor He lie Hej e eseems ' - - - much -i i - by a j seems rlage S to love me I have somehtat somehtatfPction nothrng nothrngfor noinnisfor for him ham but respectl respectland respect and some af affl"ctlon atfection everythlDg everything every give me He Be lie can fl"ctlon flctlon fPction " also make lifeifferent life fe fedifferent | I need nced and thing thlDg * - - A and J mother motherThe motherThey nmlher nmlherare motherd father different ifferent d fer ter my We Weare in hIe life The They , . are my chief worry lifeAnne tamilya 'a a ' " ' devoted familyAnne tamily- tamily tamilyII family -Anne Anne - - AnneB Annere Anne AnneH a are re a very H B II FAr.SWERYou FANSWERYou FANSWER F t make a de do devoted dovoted dcvoted Ar.SWER-You Ar.SWERYou Ar.SWER ArSWER You ANSWER-You ANSWER ANSWER . - You c cmakes can voted family happy andthrough and comfortabJe comfortabJethrough makes makesdo comfortablethrough unhappy mar marrlage marrage marnage through your own can canmarry canmarry canmarry rl r1 of nmeteen nineteen And no g rlage rage she does not notlove notIDye notlove marry an older man love IDye and escape much disillusion disillusionment disillusionrnent disillusionment ment rnent and heart ache before she ISthrough isthrough is isthrough through throughOther Other girls have tried tned the experr expert experrment expertmeat expenment to make It s sgone sone sgone ment meat you propose gone one well for a while The devoted devoteddaughter devoteddaughter devoteddaughter to tothe tothe tothe daughter In a glow of gratitude the man who is helping helpmg to give her herfamily herfamily family the comforts they needFor need be beIieves heves Neves aNeves herself herselt to be happyfew happy For a afew afew few months she is contented merely merelyto to know that her people are bemg being bemgtaken beingtaken beingtaken taken care of Relief Rehef from an ever everpresent everpresent everpresent present worry makes her splrrts splrrtssoar spiritssoar spire spiresoar soar and causes her to believe beheve that thatshe tha thashe thatshe t she has found l life e s truest happl happi happlness happimess happiness happinessBut ness mess nessBut messBut But in m another few months some someof someof someof of her exultation dies down Even Eventhe Eventhe Eventhe the most self sell sacrificing sacrrficmg girl in m the theworld theworld theworld world begins begms to want a happmess happiness happmessmore happinessmore happinessmore more personal than that offered by bythe bythe the spectacle of her parents wen well wenbemg wellbeing wellbeing bemg being As she learns to accept the thefact thefact thetact fact that the woU woll wolf is now establ1shed established establ1shedpermanently establishedpermanently establishedpermanently permanently at a respectful dls dis dlstance disranee distance tance ranee from the door of the ancestral ancestralmansIOn ancestralmansion ancestralmansion mansIOn so her joy m in this fact dl di dlmmlshes diminishes dimmishes mmlshes minishes and her demand tor for an another another another other kind kmd of happiness happmess beginsit begins 1t it / ( is then that she begins beglll3 to crill crib crillCIe cribcue cnticue CIe cue % the man nUITI roan she has married marTied to reaIt rea reaII reali II li III e I a " that she le ! , can never love him-and him and hint--and hint himandthat hintandthat him - - - andthat that but for her first blind blllld bland delight delaglu insheer ITI in ITIsheer insheer sheer material materialcomforts comforts she uouldnever uould uouldnever uouldnever never 1 } 1al late al ate I " been able to stand111m stand 111m lum 111mAll himAll lumAll All his faults fault & are magnified magTilfied magTilfiedIT magnifiedan in IT an ! her hereyes hereyes hereyes eyes Even gratitude gratttude cannot Keep her herfrom herfrom herfrom from expressing expresslllg her unfavorable opm open opmIOns opentons opinL ions tons bluntly Because Became she is as notin not notIT notan IT an ! loie lOll tote " she cannot make ma1.e ma1e . her benefactor bene benefactor beneJactor factor Jactor happy And he shortly shorzly comes to toknow toknow 1.now 1now know . t.e te the ' . bitterness of being beang umcantedexcept unwanted unwantedexcept unwantedexcept except for his lies money money-uhlle money uhlle money-whsle whsle - - u.hile uhile . his Ills lies young youngmexpeTienced younganexperaenced younginexperienced mexpeTienced mexpeTiencedu anexperaenced anexperaenceduafe uife uafe u If IfI I " struggles desper desperately desperarely dcsperately ately arely to conceal her dstase dsmote d slaste stas/e stas e smote / for an un unloved wloved unloved loved lovedspollse lovedspouse spouse spollse spouseI spollseThe spouseThe I The result is sordid sordld domestic mlscry misery mis mls ' ery cry And it 1t at is inconceivable mconcelvable that thatthe thatthe thatthe the parents of the self selt sacrlficmg sacrificing sacrlficmgdaughter sacrificingdaughter sacrificingdaughter daughter can find pleasure or happi happf happiness happfmess happiness ness mess in m the comforts which havebeen havebeen have havebeen been given at the cost of theIr theIrchIld theirchild theirjAilds chIld s happinessDEAR happiness happmess DEAR eightDEAR DEARand MISS DE"E DEE DENE " I am eight eighteen - ' een and am in m an love with a boy boyof boyof boyo of ( whom my parents do not approve approvebecause approvebecause approvebecause because of or his h.s hs has . nationality nationahty and ro rohglOn r r"ligion rligion " hglOn ligton lie is wealthy and gives me mea mea a very good time Should I break breakoil breakoft breakoff oil oft with him to please my parents ' > ' * | I now see him every day I enJoy enJoyreadlDg enjoyreading enjoyreading readlDg reading your column every dayD dayD day dayD -D D - D GAN.WER G GANSWER ANSWER AN.WER ANWER : . - No good runnmg running runnmgaround runningaround around with the boy if It you have to todo todo : do it on the sly That kind of ro to romanee tomance romance manee mance never made for permanent permanenthappmess permanenthappiness permanenthappiness happmess happiness The sly date may give giveyou giveyou giveyou you a romantic thrill but it doesn t tgIve tgive tgive gIve you the faintest famtest chance to toknow toknow toknow know and understand the boy you re regomg regoing gomg going withOn with withOn On the other hand it would wouJd be a apIty apity pIty if Lf you broke up a nice mce fnend friend fnendShIP friendship ShIP simply because your hero hap happened happened pened to be of a different race and andcreed andcreed andcreed creed from yourselfWhy yourself yoursell yourselfWhy Why not compromise comp'omlse compomlse ! ' with father fatherand fatherand and mother mothcr " ' " ' Ask them tor for a square deal squaredeal squared Ask Ash . that you be allowed to toentertam toentertain entertam entertain the unwelcome guest I in ! ' ) inyour your own home under the parental parentaleye parentaleye eye parentalPerhaps Perhaps it If your fond parents parentshad parentse had an opportunity opportumty to know you your ! ' yourbeau yourf beau ideal they might appreCiate some appreciatesome of his good points pomts pointsDancing pointsDancing - oethics ofethics Dancing Dancmg \ M l\t l t It s not a question of ( plainbad plaIDbad ethics my girl just a case of plaID plain bad mannersNobody manners mannersNobody lawsyet Nobody has inventedany invented any laws yet to cover the conduct of I ofI younglady younga lady a d da y who has been a young adance tdance escorted t to 0 a aau dance by a be beau au s she h e docsn doesn t care a carea bang hang about The whole queShon question Is questionis Just a matter of ot opinionand lonand personal OPI opinion lon -and and thinkhayed - and personally I think you b be e- e - en . haved hayed very badlye badlyyou badly badlyIf manticket If n you use a man as an entrance ntrance ntrancehIm , ticket to : a dance YOsm you might h hntrance accord accordshow hIm the same courte courteaccord courtesy sy yoU would show to the kc kcsy keeper wouldeper eper of the he be z zoo 00 W when h en enof gives you ) ou the special of going Inside thspeClal pnvilege privilege pnvilegeCor the e mOnkey house houseclaim Cor for a few fewe minutes mUlutes claim claimmUlutes claimThat That s all I 1 1It IIt -It It It is - - simply simpJy good taste to showyou show I goodoccasIonally " i-lnnm- i lnnm ilnnmJ - J- J Jscoit - occasIonally durmg during durmgtaste an thatyou evenmg evening that thatyOU you recognue recognize th than the e boy who brought broughtthe yOU to the dance dancee and d the taxI and who : probablpaid who paid for forto fory will to take hprobably haveOme probably y have YOU h not firunot definitelynot unreasonable home Ome It ItIS IS d definitely e firu tely telymand mand of th the the e lad to de dewhom one dance WI WIe with th the fair whom ladywhom he mistak mistakth mistakenly enly lady ladyed ed Supposeded him to supposed want wantnmg be h henly he er r escort scoit for nmg ling nmger lingr the eve eveIt ve It If 11 you persist in Y your 0 ur 0al al rather treatment treatmetat casu easu casuyoU | of swains sw swY swains aIDS r > < - " yoU J1 11 find th that a Ma t taIDS your Dancmg Dancing M the stag . . hne line . . . .v v . will niu b bPU be bePopularity oe po Popularity Popularityuse of PU 1 arlty usewith With Withyou withyou no you since smce no : use towill to practlcIOf practical manwill will bear the themmded the.exnensaBoUSvndl . xpense expense minded mmded " ' manyou man | of - you to the da daxpense dance danceof ce where escortmg escorting escortmglire lire pre at Play Playce playwhere the stagS stagsO O @ Ben Bcll BoUSvndl Syndle"te Syndlete Syndle"teWNU Syndic " tew , _ _ -WNU WNU - _ TOUs TOUsvlc _ ! 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