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DENE DrNE DjNE : ; I J am m wenty- wenty twenty- twenty twentyone tweed tweedone ( wentywe - - TEAR " EAR EARa EARMISS MISS Ihave haveam DEAR D ) old ind and have plannedA plannedto planned to - ' marry marryEAR we one _ yews years yea yeaboold II a boold booldof boy of of twenty twenty - -A A - two 4 4rA rA wha whaw who whohas whohss w - working worklnr : Bls Ills uis father fatherobjects fatherobjects ii u uobjects lias has hss just jest started refused tolet toolet to too objects to me - and has .w w . more more JUyhis JUy My Myfiance see me any anyfiance the boy let father s swishes sme consented to his ] ds has fiance told me inc methe incthe Be hand came to othat me wishes he be hecould becould until thewishes that and said saidothat truth the without his fa father father could support me me meany meany not see would he help ther 5 s So long as he be Is relying relyingon more any back on onhIs onhis he be WID will Dot not go father , on his S don t tknow tknow tknow his worS word not m m5e to see 5e 5eS me I to do - know what to think thmk or what Y YIn I YIn ' Nancy mail mall comes a letterfrom letterfrom letter letterfrom In the same from the sister of Nancy who says saysshe saysshe saysshe seekmg seeking seekmgmy seekingmy seekingmy she knows her little htt1e sister is and wishes to tell tcU me methe methe methe my advIce-and advIce and advice - facts of the caseI case the ' . I true know " writes the sister 'that that 'thatthis 'thatthis " ' thatthis this boy doesn doesD t care for ( or N "J J " as he be heshould beshould heshould should or he would have stuck to toher toher toher her through thick and thin thm She 15 is 15makmg ismaking ismaking makmg making a fool of herself herseU and break break- breakmg breaking breaking - her heart over a worthle worthless < ; s manI man ing mg want wantyou wantyou want- want wantAny I J I only want to help heJp her but [ to ' tell " " her ' - . - * that . " - * - tlus this " Any boy boyIsn Isn icn t tthe tthe t tyuu you yuu ku n- n nthe - * the man IDan for her and that he has hasshown hasshown hasshown shown clearly that he doesn t loveher love lovei , herSuah her -Suah Suah - - S Szrah trah ' i ANSWE"R-Sorry ANSWE"R ANSWER Sorry ANSWER-Sorry ANSWER " - - Sorry Sarah but I Ican Ican Ican can t condemn the boy out of hand handHe handHe handHe be bemg bemg being before fair trial He must have a mg dismissed as an utter cad and a aJuke alukev alukev must mustbe mustbe mustbe lover And Nancy Juke\ Juke lukev Jukearm \ ' arm be given an honest answer not an anoutburst anoutburst anoutburst outburst of angry oratory at the theexpense theexpense theexpense expense of men m n general and Nan Nancy Nancy Nancy cy s true love in m particular partlcuJar partlcuJarDon particularDon particularDon Don t forget the boy is only twen twenty twenty twenty ty two-and two and two - - and not yet able to make hIs hIsown hisown hisown own living hvmg apparently That makes makesit It necessary for him to live hve WIth WIthfather withfather withfather father and mother for a while True TrueIf Trueif Trueif If he were constructed of heroic ma materlal material matenal terlal terial he d go out into mto the cruel cruelcold cruelcold cruelcold cold world worJd to starve m the cause causeof causeof causeof of true love-but love but love - - but heroes aren t pop popuJar popWar popular uJar War in m these modern tunes tzmes And AndWIth Andwith Andwith WIth so much unemployment and anddepressIon anddepression anddepression depressIon in the world worJd just now I Ifor Ifor Ifor for one could not praise a boy who whoadded whoadded whoadded added to the sum total of the world s shuman shuman shuman human misery by voluntarily voluntarIJy Jom join Joming joining joining ing the bread JmeTlus lineThis line Jme lineThis This Tlus lad has had to compromIse compromIsewIth compromisewith compromisewith wIth his fate He must live hve WIth WIthhIs withhis withhis hIs father who has exacted tromhIm fromhim from trom fromJun Jun hIm a ajiromise promIse never to see his fair lady again agam Having Havmg promised the thehero thehero thehero hero shows a commendably honor honorable honorable honorable able spirit spmt m in refusing to break h s sword sword sword word on the sly There is certamly certainly certamlysomethmg certainlysomething certainlysomething somethmg something to be said tor for him In InholdIng inholding inholding holdIng strongly to his purposeNo purposeNo purpose purposeNo No one can blame Nancy for feel feelmg feeling feeling mg ing hurt and miserable over the SIt SItuatIon situation situation uatIon No one can blame bJame her for forseekIng forseeking forseeking seekIng to mend her broken heart heartas heartas heartas as best she may But she need not notfeel notfeel notfeel feel that her erstwhile fiance is el ei elther either either ther a cad or a cowardDEAR coward DEAR DORIS DI"JE DIJE DENE ; " I am a ahigh ahigh high school girland girl and t \ ery un unpopular unpopular uni popular : Even rven the girls don t seem seemto seemto seemto to like me I am never mvited mVlted invited to toanythmg toanything toanything anythmg anything and as it is very bird hud hird for forme forme forme me to make new friends frrends my chance chanceneer chancenever chancenever ne\er ne er never \ improves I am usually nsualJy at athome athome athome home alone Can you give me any help-T help T anyhep anyhelpT ! ? - T A SAl.SWERAgam SANSWERAgain S SANSWER Al.SWER-Agam Al.SWERAgam Al.SWER AlSWER Agam ANSWER-Again ANSWER Again ANSWER ! . - - Again and again I 1 beg begof begof begof of the girls who come to me with a aproblem aproblem aproblem problem like Ilke this to give me some somethmg something something thmg thing constructive in III n the way of a apersonal apersonal apersonal personal anaJyslsThere analysisThere analysis anaJysls analysisThere There are dozens of reasons for forunpopularIty forunpopularity forunpopularity unpopularIty It is 1S easy to say that thatm thatn thatin m n general a girl will W1ll get over her herself herself herself interests self consciousness by taking takmg up in terests which distract her mmd mind mindfrom mmdfrom from thoughts of herself but so often oftenthis thIS rule ruJe doesn t work because the thevictlm thevictim thevictim victlm victim of unpopularity unpopuJarIty is specialcase a speCIal case instructionsThere speClalinstrucflonsThere and needs speClalinstrucflons special instructions There are many girls who are un unpopuJar unpopular popuJar popular unpopular simply and solely because becauseof of their lack of vitality They may mayseem seem colorless colorJess and unInterestIng uninterestingdull dull and stupid because healthor of ill III health -or or - < > - or r some jackof lack lach jack . of energy whIch whichcould could be remedied if outthe they found out the truth about themselves themselvesThere There are girls it/lose it lose uhose ulrose / inabil inabtl tomake toma1.e tomale ma1.e ma1e male . rnabrlly ty ( y to friends fncnds factthat rests solely on the fact that they Ihey have forbidd forbldd forblddng forbiddng ng manners girlsuill girlswill mannerst mannersthat that t are alooland aloofand alooj alool aloof and frigid fngld T/iMg T iMg These / girls sirls sirlsyet uill will tell you conf confdently delltly that enelldllest aiefriendliest Ihallhey they 1 I 1al Iaie al aie e /nelldllest nelldllest friendliest / feelmgs feelings rn in the world 10 to uard 10uard touard uardelerone uardeieryone edet hodet elerone eieryone ) alld and alldwant andwant want to be 1 I 1 . hod- hod ed- ed - yet ) et if they Ihey mite wrlle write a long Kiniate IlIlnlale itiniate r i account aee01l1l1 e01l1l1 count of 0/ 0 0Ihell1ehes / themselves Ihell1ehes themselies $ ae ac it II ivill will willvery very ollen often oftenbe be revealed revealcd Il ti Ilat tiat t ! at they cata cala id arc are s ! tper per cnt err crit ! cal a Idexlremely idextremely extremely exlremely sure sllre 0/ 0 of 011 o / [ t1 11 ti 11elr tierr eir elr err own f un- un unon - op on n nare n nIons Ions They are humble lacl lack lackof . of popularity yet ama abolll about rngly arro their lelr ga arroga It In eomlcellon connection ullh uith ullholher uithother olher other mailers matters And there are always girls glrJs who szmply simply need to attend to theIr ap pearance III n order to attract of some the attentIon they crave so Un tIdiness and slovenlIness have effect effecton on the h1gh high h1ghschool highschool school schoolaUdIence more than the - - - - aUdIence juuti = : average uLeaverage girl in III n her teens suspects The very young genera tIon Is CrItJcal critical CrItJcalof criticalof of the dOWdy at the heel down gIrl gIrlwhose whose haIr is al ways n a mess and andhose \\hose hose whose \ general pearance ap IS frumpy iled lied Even a 11m hm income can be made to duce at pro least one trim trun , school forschool USeBut useBut use useBut costume for Butas But as I say one c can ? 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