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J'l Jl I IHasty ' Hasty Secret Marriage lIIarnage lIIarnageSolves MarriageSolves t | | Solves \ Ao 1\0 1 0 lio Problems , j a ay abut ? jtS3 ; y but bllt Makes lIIa1.es lIIa1es Males Mal . es Many lIIany ManyDCAR W DtAR DCAR ] " > : CAR \ BUSS I\IISS I IISS MISS DFNE What t.o to fio 00 ' . youthink ) 5011 you 5011Is ou outhink think of this problem The girl girlIs girlIs Is eighteen the tbe boy is twenty t'lenty t'l\ t'l tl ' \ enty two twoThe twoThe twoThe The boy Is not in a position to marry marryyet marryyet marryyet yet yetalthough althoush although he be has steady oteady ; worlt work worltThe workThe workThe The girl feels that he be mnst must marry marryber marryher marryher ber her soon in order tliat that sl e m m-iy m iy m'tY mtY ' - ty be behappy behappy behappy happy The Tbe danger dang-er dang er - is that he isery is % \ cry ery high hlg-h hlg h - strung and ud if ; she ohe turns turnsaway turnsaway turnsaway away from the one she loves there thereIs thereis thereIs Is a ahole whole \\hole hole \ crowd of other men menalt waitIng \\alt alt wait waitlug \ altIng Ing lug " to snap ber her up n ttould Would ould It be bepossIble bepossible bepossible possIble for these two young people peopleto to marry \ without Ithout their parents con consentr consentr consenf sent-r sent r ? 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ang wig ng I 1 Ier 1er I erideas erideasAs er erIdeas erideas Ideas IdeasAs As for a marriage marnage without the theparents theparents theparents parents consent-that consent that consent - that has neveI never neverbeen neverbe"n neverben : ' bepn been " a pract cal plan of procedure procedureIt It involves mvolves secrecy which starts startsmarrIage startsmarriage startsmarriage marrIage oft off on the \ wrong rong basis It Itmeans Itmeans Itmeans means that there will wIII always be an anunpleasant anunpleasant anunpleasant unpleasant aroma about thehole the \\hole hole whole wholesituation \ wholesituation holesituation situation It causes endless comph compli comphcatlons complications complications catlons cations and leads to much petty gos goss s p and suspicionDEAR suspicion suspicionwoman DORIS DENE I am a awoman awoman DEAR woman of fifty five and have havereached havereached havereached reached the age where I want some somefun somefun somefun fun after all my years of work and andworry andworry andworry worry over the children I am com corn comfortably cornfortably cornfortably fortably well-off well off - - my children have havegrown havegrown havegrown grown up np my husband is dead I Ihave Ihave Ihave have a great many young men menfnends menfriends menfriends fnends friends who take me dancing dancmg etc etclIy etcMy etcMy l\Iy l Iy My \ old friends criticize me for my myactions myactions myactions actions but as I am extremely extremelyyoung extremelyyoung extremelyyoung young for my age and do not look lookI I 1 ke the mother of two grown gron gro\\ gro \ n up upcluldl upchildren upchild cluldl children ; en I dan , ( ' an n t see why I 1 shouldn shouldu t tenJoy tenjoy tenjoy enJoy myself as I see fit I don t tget tget tget get along with men my own age ageheeause agebecause agebecause heeause because they are all dull and stay stayathome stayathome stayat-home stayat home at-home at home - - - Please let me know your youroplDlOn youropinion youropinion oplDlOn opinion oplDlOnYoung opinionYoung -Young Young - Young FlityANSn FiftyANS Fifty Flity FiftyANSWER ANSn ANS ANSWER ER-Presumably ER Presumably SER-Presumably SER - - Presumably you pay payfol payfor payfor fol for : ' the young men s enterta nment nmentand nmentand nmentand and in m return for that : ! 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c a site sake a of 01 01ul ofu ul ulallhey u ! allhey al at they can get gel from fromI fromer 1 I 1er fromIeroo er erfoo erPoo foo Poo ! oo ofle olla ofte t I sf 51 sl e a is an object obJecl of 01 01rld ofride ndicule rld ride ridecule , cule to 10 tl ti tle tia e a very ery people she is u belnend befriend befriendi belnendI I g Because Becau.e Becaue . she willnol wellnot ivill will well not nol adm I t t Ihal that Ihalsl thats thatsl sl s ! i t I Ias I us as I j ; Iu j(1st (1st 1st ( a u < " ( her leen teem teens . she w III IIIslen ll 11 1 1sten I slen sten stenc stenr r ( ly to 10 tl Il t1 Ilose t1ose ose i . i I 1 1o o 0 are w III ili ll , g to 10 woti .0011 0011 coot/ coot coota . .0011e .0011I .0011er / cIer e a I 1 1er er t I in a I-and I and ty-and ty Iandnalurally tyandnaturally t ) - and naturally nalurally sl 51 51e sla e a doein doem doecn I t Ir tf t r f { d if 11 t1 t1at at 01 brandof brand of 01 01ad ofad admrers adnirers ad nirers mrers a u nong I / Ier Ien er en erIrue entrue ertrue Irue true Ine free dsYou dsYou ds dsYou You can be young all alJ your Ife IfeSou 1 I fe fe10u fe\ou fe ou 10u Sou \ can keep a young sp nt nit and a ayoung ayoung ayoung young heart You can enjoy the thefr thefr thefr fr endsh p of young people You Youcan Youcan Youcan can make yourself yourselt beloved to young youngand youngand youngand and old with your YOUI : ' clear mind mmd YOUI your yourtolerance yourtolerance : ' tolerance your YOUI : ' understand ng and andmterest andinterest andinterest andinterestBut mterest interest mterestBut interestBut But you cannot dress yourself yourselt up upm upin upin m in imitat Imltat rmitat on of what you were at atsixteen atsixteen atsixteen sixteen and hops hope to recapture the theglamor theglamor theglamor glamor of youth The more you ab absorb absorb absorb sorb sycophantic flattery into your yoursystem yoursystem yoursystem system the less clear cIear your mind mmd be becomes becomes becomes comes The more you insist mSlst on be beIng being being Ing flattered the less tolerant you youare youare youare are of those who won t play up to toyour toyour toyour your van ly ty The more you think thinkabout thinkabout thinkabout about looks and the necessity fol for forkeeping forkecpmg : ' keepmg keeping up a flamboyantly youthful youthfulappearance youthfulappearance youthfulappearance appearance the less Interest you youhave youhave youhave have in other people and their livesWIth livesWith lives livesWith With the result that you prepare a alonel alonel alonel lonel er old age for yourself YOUl'selt YOUlselt ' than If Ifyou ifyou ifyou you d accepted the tact fact of your 1l.f 1lf fit . 1l.fties fitties fitties ties gracefully and had chosen in interests Interests intercsts terests and occupations oceupatlons which would wouldhave wouldhave wouldhave have kept your YOUI : ' mind active but notladed not notJaded notjaded Jaded with artificial excitements0 excitementse excitementsC excitements e C Bell SyndlcaloWNU SyndicateWNU Syndicate Syndlcalo -WNU WNU - WNU Service - - - - |