Show Dorothy Dix Tells r ells How to I Win Men By DOROTHY DIX Copyright 1921 by the the- Wheeler WheelerS S Syndicate Inc I A young oun woman asks me to give her hersome hersome hersome some reliable receipt for tor pleasing th the men S I There is none Nobody knows just what peculiar quality in a woman at attracts attracts attracts at- at tracts men or repulses them Even the Bible declares that the way of ot a aman aman aman man with a maid Is one of ot the mysteries mysteries mysteries mys mys- teries that human wisdom cannot fa fathom thom Generally speaking a girls girl's first aid to popularity is beauty Every masculine masculine masculino mas mas- culine e eye e is caught by a pretty fac face Every man mars likes to be seen out with a peach who makes maltes other men rubber and ask the next day da- who ho was the lit littIe little lit lit- tIe tle queen Undoubtedly heavens heaven's best gift to a woman is a peaches and I cream complexion a straight nose and hair with a natural wave In It for Ither if It her good fairy has endowed her with these gifts she fihe can get all the balance herself S BETTER DETTER But let not the girl who is not a living picture despair Nothing is easier casler to camouflage than Handmade complexions arc are usually better than the rea real 1 article Marcel artists perform on every corner and there are very few men thank God who whip have ever learned to distinguish between a woman and her clothes The next aid to popularity is to learn how to dance how to play ilay cards how to play tennis and go Especially Espe Espe- daily how to dance for in these days if it a girl wants attention from men she must be able to tread trend a measure with them without stepping on their toes Heels are even more important than heads just at present and though a girl were as beautiful ts as Venus and andas andas i line Une as clever as Aspasia she would the walls if she could not toddle and shimmy or shake a nimble foot in the latest dance steps steps- 1 PLAY WELL I As for tor games the girl who wishes to be popular with men must play pIa well enough to make the game interesting but not so well that she beats her partner If It she can keep herself In Inthe inthe inthe the perpetual amateur class who begs the man she is paying with to teach teacher her er that wonderful stroke of ot his or explain that marvelous lead at bridge she will never look 1001 for instructors or I have ha to sit on the Country club veranda veranda veran veran- veran-I veran da with the golf goIt widows Nothing has more to do with the hit that women make with men than the line Une of conversation they carry This should be selected with great care and with strict deference to the Individual upon whom it is to be bo be be- be stowed Some men like Uke chatty women who will work like Uke coal heavers to en entertain entertain entertain en- en them Others want to monopolize monopolize all the talking themselves But there are certain things that allmen all allmen allmen men abhor One is sarcasm No man can ran abide a woman w wh who says sas sharp and ind bitter things and n effort to be brilliant and witty witty many a girl cuts her own throat with her tongue No Xo man likes a scandal mongering i woman or a girl who says little catty things about other girls No lo man likes a woman who laughs at other I. I people lie He is afraid he will be the next figure of fun Cun to her No o man likes a woman who babBes es on and on jn It m makes kes him tired If it he is a i i quiet man and if It he Is a talker he j I wants the floor himself HIDE CLEVERNESS Clever Cleer women are never popular with men unless they are arc clever enough to conceal how clever they are Men still prefer preter feminine brains I scrambled d. d and the less a a. woman knows the better the they like her The I college graduate who is entitled to sprite rite M. M A. A after her name is seldom I called Ma unless she has sense to refrain from making a display ot of I her lier erudition and upon highbrow subjects to men whose readIng reiding reid read Ing is mostly confined to the stock i market reports and the Retail Grocers' Grocers p I Gazette Doubtless in the process of time wp we shall shaH arrive at a place where men will I Inot inot not desire to pose rose as oracles before women and will not prefer to have a I I little fluffy ruffles roll her eyes at I them and ask them fool questions to I sitting at the feet teet of ot a lady Solomon l land I and gathering up the pears pearls of wisdom i I that drop from her lips But Dut that time has not arrived nor will It be here herc In In Inthe inthe I the next thousand d years e rs Therefore the girl who wishes to be bea bel bela a riot with men does docs well to put the soft oft pedal on her attainments and never never under der any circumstances correct a mans man's grammar or his his' history history his his- tory or set him rf right ht political poUt poUt- hiS I ical statements No man loves a woman who knows more than he does I THEY LIKE WOMEN I The more feminine a woman Is i's is the I better men like her This goes for tor both dress and conduct You never I saw a man who didn't like chiffons cJ or i ribbons And you cu never ne saw aw a man r who sho didn't like gentleness and and- aw sweetness tweetS tweet sweet et- et S nets ness in a woman r 5 I I The reason is perfectly Each sex ex likes best in the other oth r the thing that It hasn't got If It a man wants to look at mannish attire and listen to somebody s swear wear and curse and tell off oft colored stories he sticks I I to o mens men's society He lie doesn't hunt up upa a girl who is a poor understudy of ot his I little brother Therefore the tomboy i girl lrI makes as little hit with men as asI I I the sissy man makes with women So SoI I the girl is wise who sticks to her furbelows and who cries she gets getsI I I an angry r instead of ot saying Damn I I Men like sympathetic wom women women n. n The They I like ilke the woman who has the eternal mother in her for Cor men never row grow up At heart they are always little tittle boys I who want to lay their heads down in some feminine lap and be petted and andI I pitied and consoled I The woman who can listen sympatheticallY sympathetically sympathetically who can enter Into a n mans man's plans and comprehend that It isn't I just egotism eg that makes him talk about himself but hut that he has Just got gotto gotto gotto II to tell It to some woman the woman who can crown him with laurel when he succeeds and buck him up when he tails falls and gets discouraged has got the rabbits rabbit's foot with which she can conjure men even when when- she gets to tobe tobe tobe be 89 years old and hasn't a hair on her head or a a. tooth that Isn't hers by 4 right of ot purchase Finally and if it a womans woman's got this she needs no other charm to be POPular popular popular I lar with men to be one of those whom men rise un and follow fonow as she passes |