Show IpE RESENTS SYSTEM p HOME MANAGEMENT fuA FAT T LEAVES HER OUT Friends Share hare Attention of Admirer but One Would Like ike to Know w Where She Stands An i I Embarrassing Situation By BETTY BLAIR Itis iJ every wife's right to have a voice In the manage manage- t f the home and in the expenditure of the income Her Hern tIOn n is otherwise a mockery and she s should take every o m means ans in her power to make her husband und under under- r- r tit how i how necessary to h her r respect self is his trust in her ty to manage J ir Miss Mi Blair W- W dore rare my marriage a year and O L as a school teacher two years I financed myself 1 entirely and managed man aged to do doso so and if sa save ve money Since my marriage our ii I income has not V permitted that I I. have a personal a allowance 11 0 and nfl my husband ri spends what moric money we do have for lor the 1 house I object very h to this system that allows co CD a voice in Iii the expenditure ur I Income I 1 have said sev sev- times Lime to my husband that I 1 it was the wife's place to h he managing and the I spend pend for the house but be he doesn't WIth me r I know it is bee be be- e he he bethinks thinks J 1 would be ex- ex It would d be impossible ible ne e to be extravagant on en it the thene theLe ne Le we WC have I would like the unIty of sh showing wing my hus hus- what a good manager I can md what thrifty bargains I 1 1 I make as 81 I have more time tIme- ik Jk kat at the advertised bargains I he has B But t I just cant can't hute hute hu- hu hue te e myself to keep talking t it as he ends t the e subject quickly Y as s soon n as it is 3 11 link k it is a humiliation to an anto any to have her husband buy r mouthful of food tood that 3 I into the house and to pay household bills and clde all li by hi himself iselt what we wed iud md d cannot afford Is there liD Ing I can can d do or or say to make makee e ee et m my point of view Many 3 3 DISTURBED WIFE t e e that it is a great humiliation ife to find herself in the posia posta post a household fixture who must work her and bebas be bc beb b bas as th the kitchen water faucet j T opinion that the only enly thIns thing I i a ease cue of this kind is to have once nce and for all ath Sal laJ all aU your facts Make out ayour ayour a 1 your case showing how you really the wife companion of ol ofa a 11 but bt merely a poss possession ion who need under his system of ol ofer er r or to oice olce In the management of the nd the expenditure of the in in- tress trw the that you do not to submit an any longer to the of ot your powers of nee nce through misuse Make Itala It ala ain n that he has never initiated J 0 a the full fuU order of being a ad ad ad d companion and that as as far farre ire re concerned you may as well weIl his hired girl and exact y 1 stipend for the work you do down do all your argument ready to pass out to him when e comes cames that your courage is md Uld your em emotions under con con- the thing in your imag imag- until you are sure you can sough to the end without be be- emotionally upset Your cause Ad nd should hould have redress Dont Don't Donta Donti i a 3 relate the facts of your back back- which have prepared you forme for tare care of money and of being keep kep within your income and more more thrifty buying than he to do do through having more live to it final argument ment tell your husu busU hus- hus u IU can po pa no longer loncer go on in this i 1 keep your your self self That l t fl no longer even cook or eat i i. he brings bring without so o strong t of res resentment that your our di- di dib apparatus ceases to function i may as well not eat 37 find that your see seethe the case through may win able hearing without hay have trw tress the final points HABES BOY FRIEND Miss Blair u rn a a girl of ot 17 17 of average and figure Ive I've had quite a ay y friends and have been Plenty of times by thought- thought IrIs Ins I have a girl friend L 1 11 I like Uke very much She does a ate to hool and she is isery very ery tr on ong her many gentleman II a u is one whom I like very She fine has gone with him and I to delight in keeping him ing ng However they mo may moy be each other and not would I b come e- e L them It a. a would be bi a very wag irig for me me to say J things about her herto to the 3 jut ut I have refrained k Wr levu I am not quite satis antis bout sharing him This girl tails about him between our- our and nd call caU him L our boy rt rb it its it's lust just a line but I 1 by What he says he likes ii If hc he is the one she best belt she r-e r went with willi fit V I shaU try not to inter Inter- m YOu think I 1 am doing the thing or would ou advise you try to take him entirety rOm the gIrl friend as Too IT IT TO hater aHer did with h her bOy bay I t ti it T I Were Too T 1 could uld not refrain from g a Poke ke at go the eldest u m o Oi you ev ever called this v ben boys boy s en he sugg that that-he likes tell h him there is one in one oney wn it t Otherwise tat t y you u must mus he YOur girl friend L II hI does you do this U if I only I were th the matter atter ot of the prete dIf it he lie ta is 1 i bluffing Buffing you youl altogether Aether If U he h. rall really l I 1 IN NEW SPHERE i j I 1 Mrs Mr l S. S Eccles wife p of ot S S. S assistant f s secretary x Y of f th the treasury a ac accompanied compa companied her husband to Washington WashIngton Wash Wash- ington where they are re at home at atthe atthe atthe the Shoreham hotel Letters questions and requests requests reI re re- re- re I quests for advice should be addressed ad ad- dressed to MISS BET BETTY T Y BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN HAYEN TELEGRAM SALT LA LAKE K E. E Write legibly upon only one side of the paper It is necessary that you append append append ap ap- ap- ap pend the right name and address address ad ad- dress but these will be held in strict confidence and will nut mit appear in print Questions involving in in- advertising information cannot be answered does d oes like you best much the best h he e is probably waiting to find out j just how much you like him Without a an n assurance that you ou do like him well enough to forego the company o of ot f other young men he may be just p playing laying safe My own opinion is that the young man really doesn't know his own mind as to which of the two he likes b best est If he did there would be no liking like ilk t ing ag on his part for the play which is h g going on If he liked one of ot you much L Letter b better etter than the other he would have havea a very definite way of showing it and L Lf o of f leaving no doubt in your mind Scar So Sc far f ar he hc seems to be in the stage where circulation seems the safer sater thing for forim h him im to do Keep his interest in you a alive live and you may help him to make makeup au u up p his mind BOY IS CHAGRINED Dear Miss Blair A girl invited me to go as her partner to a party Naturally I supposed s d there would be no ex cx- expense pense pease in it for me except the transportation but after I had called for her she asked me to stop at a delicatessen shop where she had to buy some eats cats for the party I knew I didn't have enough change chance with me to buy the chow so I 1 had to let her go inside to buy it without offering ofterIng to There I sat like a sap until she came came out with the food Should I ha e told her I didn't have any mon money and apologized for not being being be be- be ing able to help her or not Thank yo you HOT UNDER THE COLLAR The Thc girl herself should have been chagrined for placing you in such an embarrassing position She should have hav had the food bought before you yeu called for her You might have asked Would you like to have me come inand inand in inand and help you carry out the packages And you would have done so it if there had been money Jingling in your pock pock- ets eta But having none you were placed under further restrictions of showing your truly courteous nature If I 1 were you I should forget the whole matter You were in hi no noway way to blame |