| Show N Home Hints and Heart Interest for Women W DIllen and Y out HEARTS HEART'S R TS T'S HA HAVEN i VEN Conducted by BETTY BLAIR Letters questions aud and requests for tor advice should be addressed to MISS BETTTY BEY BLAIR HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT LAKE Write legibly upon on oni anI one side ot at the paper It l is necessary that you vou append the right name and aDd address but these will be neld neki In tn strict confidence and will not appear in print Questions Involving advertising Information cannot be answered an an- Letters requiring personal reply must be accompanied by bj stamped self addressed envelopes Ed CAUSE FOR Dear Miss 1 Blair There is something that tint la is worrying worry worry- In lug ing me rue and I doot dont know all the answers anwen an an- wen iwers so pe perhaps haps you jou ou can help meI me I have been steady with a aboy boy for lor six months months I never ff really ally liked him as I 1 have others but hi his ways and different circumstances helped matters out for lor him Ev Everything r was WAIl lovely until on one day he left leU town and I s stepped out on n him Well he be found it out and there ther was vas quite a fuss 1 I know I shouldn't have done it Jt but well hut well I 1 did anyway and nd so 0 evidently he figured that turn tarn turnabout about was as fair play A few weeks week later I was as Informed of the fact fad thamy that tha my boy friend my true love had been stepping out on me I told him I knew about It and I It rather pleased than bothered him Since then things have been going from bad bd to worse I dont don't get Id along with him very Cry wall wail and other circumstances circum- circum stances make it very unpleasant fo for form m Inc me He lie has ha been telling me what to do doand doand doand I and ho how to to todo do It and who to pa pal around with and who to leave alone for so long lone now that it IL has bas gotten otten on my tty nerves I have hare met another fellow now who thrills me as I was never thrilled be be be- fore Out Dot when I go 0 out with him I have to ret get rid of my steady What Wha shall I do tell do-tell do tell him about everything or just let matters take their course I m may y be fickle tickle Miss l Blair but hut I really cant can't be blamed because I happen to fo like one fellow better than another Or can I 17 U Thanks Th one thing to be expected of adolescent boys and girls is that their emotions will vill change as does their ph physical d development Adult in- in s sometimes follows close closely un the heels of adolescence so ro that thai control of emotions is delayed until second childhood puts in its appear appear- ance After that there is no no hope But you must try to remember that tha there is more to real love than th the physical thrill one experiences es Thais That Tha Thatis is only one phase of love love and and th the most fleeting There must be something something some some- thing very substantial to fall back bac upon when the thrill stage has run its course There m must st be tastes in common an interest in the vital things of life lite something to talk about something some Fome- thing to enjoy in between whiles As for your affections for one o othe or orthe orthe the other of these boys bos I cannot say One learns loyalty loyally by being loyal On One learns earns to distinguish between en mere Infatuation and the real thing probably probably probably ably only with time But many girls girl make mistakes by following their the fleeting fancies before they examine carefully all the evidence But if loving one person means the giving up of your personal liberties such as the choice of your friends and ot other er important decisions I should say that you ou were paying too high a price and that adjustment in inthis inthis inthis this matter should be made But why not try to make the adjustment A Aman's Amans Amans Aman's Amans Aman's mans man's love a true man a good man Is worth both control and the effort to adjust st st. UTAH'S FLORAL SPOT Dear Miss Blair Is it true that on the Aspen grove side of Mount there are more varieties of wild Ud flowers th than n hi tn any other spot in the world 1 If theres there Is s a pl place e where there are more kinds of wild lId flowers I would certainly like to o see nee It wouldn't you Thank you kindly CURIOUS We doubt very much whether the I information concerning which you 1 ask k has ever been fully established but ut this much we can tell you that Dr Henry C. C Cowles head of the botany botany botany bot bot- any department of the University of ot Chicago made the statement that the e plant l t z zones zons n in the Aspen grove Sloe sine ot or Mount vere better marked and t the gos gas were e Varieties varieties va- va as 35 fine line as on any mountain he e had ever seen with the exception of f the seacoast mountains of Califor- Califor nIa ia This includes all the zones be- be e- e Mexico and the Arctic circle S POUND CAKE Dear Miss Blair Will Wilt you please give he me sue a s recipe for tor or butter pound cake Thank you ou MRS C. C We hope the following is what you have lave in mind One pound butt butter r 1 pound sugar 1 pound flour 9 eggs 1 4 11 4 1 pounds almonds weighed before shelled 2 1 pound citron 2 1 po pound nd raisins grated rind and juice of 1 lemon emon Cream butter and sugar add the yol yolks of eggs lightly beaten Then add dd the whites of 0 eggs beaten to a tiff stiff froth and the flour reserving lour reserving a part of 0 the flour to dredge the fruit Lastly add the nuts blanched and cut ut fine and mixed with the fruit and the he remainder of the flour lour This Is Isery very ery delicious and will keep for months I TO 10 WASH WASil RAYON Dear Miss Blair Will you please tell me what Is th he the best way to 0 wash rayon I have lia ought bought a good grade rade of rayon for lor everyday but In washing It the threads Breads seem to break and run Thanking you PAT When laundering rayon fabrics use lukewarm water and bland soapsuds Never ever twist scrub or wring the ma- ma erial teds Squeeze the soapsuds through the cloth Rinse several everal times and roll oil in a towel to partially dry Press with a not too loo hot iron on the wrong side CLUB FOR GIRLS Dear Miss Blair We are a crowd of ot girls Iris 13 and 14 years ears old who have hae decided to forma form a club dub We are going to read and hike and swim and do n numerous things together We expect also to give Ive paries parties parties par par- ties ies and sometimes Invite our boy frIend What would you suggest for or ora a 5 name for our club Thank you ou JUST EIGHT Why not call yourselves the Just Eight club Or the Variety club since Ince you will be doing such a variety of 0 f things WEIGHT EXERCISES Dear Our Miss Blair I read your column every ery night and nd find it very Interesting I am 16 years ears of age are 5 feet 1 2 1 Inch tall taU Will Willou you ou please tell II me how bow much I should weigh Also Abo would you please give Ive me some ome reducing exercises for the hips waist aist and legs les The latter are for a friend of ot mine who Is going on a vacation MURRAY l READER You should weigh in the neighborhood neighborhood neighbor- neighbor I hood lood of pounds I Exercises for hips and thighs Do stationary running vigorously for lor a minute or two to shake up the sluggish sluggish slug- slug gish ish flesh Give your limbs a n hard slapping and deep k kneading massage after fter the exercise For waist and hips Stand erect hands lands on hips f feet ket et together Bend forward orward from the waist keeping knees straight Rotate the trunk around round to the right back to the left anti and forward again Repeat five tive to toen ten en times starting from the right to the he left leU I |
