Show HEARTS HAVEN HA VEN Conducted by BETTY BLAIR Letters Questions and aDd requests for advice should be addressed addressed to MISS ct BEST BEnY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT LAKE Write legibly upon OW one side of or the paper It Is 15 necessary that you append the right name and anci address but these will be held In strict confidence and will not appear In In print Questions involving advertising information cannot be an an- Letters requiring personal reply must bo be accompanied by stamped self addressed envelopes Ed DIFFICULTIES IN LOVE Dear Miss Blair I am enraged engaged to be married sue and since our engagement encasement my fiance flance has ha lost his lila job To my Imy mind this elU ends our oar prospect of ot marriage until h his he heIs heis is taken back on his job or gets Another He thinks however that W we should hould marry right away and trust to the future to take care of ot us I have hav seen nen t too o much of this sort ort of thin thing It brings the difficulties that kill love When I marry I want the at least to be out from under a cloud I couldn't really be happy even cven with my ray husbands husband's love knowing that we couldn't provide for our our- selves elves Our parents have v said to 10 i go ahead and get ret married if we wan wanto want to and they will help us us he gets lets his Job back ck or finds other work I am hop hopeful r l that the f future dure will wll have something to offer us As long longas as we know we love each cach other wc we can afford to wait walt I am meeting with witha a good rood deal of opposition but I f feel fee el elso so sure lure I am am right that this doesn't doesn matter I dont don't anticipate losing my fiance through waiting I might lose Jose his bra love by marrying him under the present conditions What do io you think about It Silas Blair OF SURE Without the belief beliet that the genuine things of life lie do not diminish in value with time there would be belittle belittle little Joy in fri living Think of anything any thing you like like- from the literature lIre that lasts through the ages to hardwood hardwood hard hard- wood fun furniture ture cut on beautiful lines and the older they get the themore themore themore more their value Is b enhanced Some of them did not originate In very propitious pro circumstances The beauty and value of many of them was not ot known until lon Ion long after their authors had ceased to exist yet they continue to 10 give pleasure to many In many respects love ove is like this Do 10 not think for a moment that difficulties dill dillI s kill love Often the individuals duals involved are not strong enough I Ito to take care of the valuable charge I entrusted to their care It isn't really love that dies so much a as it is that thai people neg neglect to keep ep it tethered in their own households and ana dooryards and Ind so the little chap wanders into greener pastures But de does this only at the thc point of starvation of strangulation by the forces that surround surround surround sur sur- round him hlin As a matter of fact there is nothing like difficulties to develop love Jove 1 It if love itself is Js not desecrated This is apt to occur where people plunge themselves into difficulties from difficulties from which there is no extrication There will be bc difficulty enough in hi waiting for circumstances to right themselves before you marry You must not expect however that thai even though you OU marry later under seemingly cloudless skies that clouds will not appear It will b be something however to ha have your first love together together to to- gether under circumstances that will allow you to forget lor tor a time the outside world and arid its many cares p DAINTINESS AND BEAUTY Dear Miss l Blair A friend made a remark to m me the other day about another friend that set tet et me me thinking She said Oh yes es she's pretty enough but she hc Isn't Isn dainty She seemed to think that the person about whom we were speaking could in no manner becharming becharming be becharming charming charming- because she lacked ness Will WUl you ou please tell me what you think about this and md where Inthe Inthe in inthe the scale leale of charm daintiness comes Thank r you ou MILLIE l This happens to be a prize year to get a grand reputation for daintiness It even has the edge on beauty for steady company with charm Not every girl can be beautiful but every girl can be dainty With Whites with organdies and and de dc soles Ies so much in favor to mark the of ot dal dainty fabrics the absolute cleanliness clean lin liness ss for daintiness daintiness' is ie is nothing but this that goes along with it offers opportunity for every girl irl to be dainty Daintiness to put it bluntly means immaculate cleanliness scrupulous grooming rooming clothes so fresh they look lookas looka a as if you had bad stepped out of a bandbox band band- box pox and then that delicate fresh fragrance that every woman craves If It you are arc wearing white collars and cuffs culls dont don't be lazy and decide they'll do the second day They maydo maydo may do all right but you will vIlI have for for- cited your our dainty appeal Get a couple of pairs and keep them washed and arid ironed to perfection If It you have white hats be very careful about them They are a luxury luxury lux lux- ury unless they wash or you ou c can n clean them yourself White gloves gloves' are quite as much of a nuisance but how nice they do look It is worth the trouble And all your lingerie must be fresh each day and again for tor evening Warm weather makes the job of being dainty hard for the woman who perspires But deodorants will vill do dothe dothe dothe the job Most of them should go on evenings and some again in the morn morn- ing Your feet particularly should be given especial care And if your hands perspire massage them get their circulation Improved and use cologne on them Yes daintiness comes first in the scale calc of charm S AN ANNIVERSARY GIFTS Dear Miss Mis Blair When one Is Li low on funds what Isan is Js isan an appropriate way to remember an anniversary Thank you HARVE A card a note or a few flowers lowers may may may-be be sent to express felicitations BOOK ON TANNING Dear Miss Blair Will wm you please tell me where I Ican Ican can get et some information on tannin tanning and tooling leather Jeather Thank you D Write the U. U S. S department of agri agri- culture and ask asic for bulletin No 1334 This will give complete information on n the tanning of leather S DOG TRAINING Dear l Blair The dog do we obtained through your our column olumn is nil all that could be asked for or in a Pet net But we we would like Uke to in know enow some some general principles principle i in training raining a dog dogo We are sure this one could do some cute tricks If It we only knew v how to teach him Thank you for any information you may give FAY FAT The general principles of dog training train train- ing ng and handling are three be calm be e firm be just Excitement in voice or manner is unnecessary unpleasant ant sant santo and defeats its purpose by con con- fusing using the dog and less lessening ning the respect res res- res pe in w which t should he-should hold old you ou iU o u oe Je seu in m all ail your serious handling of ot a dog and once you have given an order that you are ire sure he understands insist upon immediate and complete obedience Provided that your command is within with with- in reason there is no justification for disobedIence Let your words go un un- heeded ceded even once and you give the dog og an idea that he will be sure to utilize in the future If It he thinks hean he hel can an get away with anything he will willry try ry to do it Justice is essential on practical as aswell aswell well as humanitarian grounds You should no more punish a dog for doing unwittingly something he should not do than you would a child It t is only wilful disobedience that merits something more than a few sharp arp words Above all aU never lose your temper Such uch a blunder would seriously impair im im- im pair your dogs dog's respect for you This would be bc a a. condition of ot extreme seriousness |