Show T V SWATTING THE DIVORCE BUG BUG- HA HAVE VE YOU OUTSTRIPPED OUT 51 RIPPED MICROBE S 'S IN IA RACE TO 70 FIVE BARRED FIVE BAR RED GATE GAlE E J S Thos F. F Graham S San ri Francisco Divorce Judge Judge Known I V as 55 Great Reconciler and Americas Americas America's Amer ica's Leading Heart Specialist I Amer-I A. A recent novel entitled The Five- Five V V Bair Darted Barred d Gate draws attention to a aV V phase of married life ute which has a air am ir V m most 0 s t Important VV bearing on the di divorce divorce dl- dl vorce question The author points out that a certain time comes in the lives of every married pair when they approach approach approach ap ap- ap- ap a crisis In bt other words they r are brought face to toL L face with e each a c h hother's others other's T R II RUE U E H j SOUL SOUli and are called upon to de- de dei i c Ide whether they T. T 1 d Judge ge ulam will go forward or turn back j In Ill Egland the span from from- the theatt att altar to this gate or crisis is estimated at approximately five years eaCh each year a bar In the United States I cm rm led to believe no such length of time Is required Ft From rn m one to two years of married married mar mar- ried life usually suffices to bring the American husband or wife to a aull I ull of what their Joint con contract ct Involves If It that realization I does not trend rend one or the other in I Isear sear search h of ot a lawyer the chances are that their that their union will survive T Tie The e trouble with so many American Amerl Ameri can marriages t Is that they belong to I It Ithe t the of ot you leap j Either r that or they ha have hae e been guided by Some gome motive less Jess worthy than social love financial or sordidly phY physical matches which seldom endure en- en en 1 I dure The five barred gate cannot Ibe I be opened by couples fundamentally unsuited to Lo one another V The cure or preventive for this I pha phad of must begin Inthe Inthe in inthe the gomes omes of our boys and girls The I rath fathers rs and mothers of ot young America America Amer Amer- I ica lea must be brought to a realization V of the fact tact that the only foolproof I bulletproof marriages are thos those based upon tue affection Ion I I ney prestige freedom from fur- fur each each of these m may y rightly be A consideration when parents discuss the possible marriage mar mar- of their thel children But if It any anyone anyone anyone one pt f them becomes THE consideration consideration consideration tion the contract is very likely like to turnout unsatisfactorily if It not V V VV V A soon oon as children reach an age of understanding they should be fully And md frankly informed of the obligation obligations obliga obliga- tion of ot matrimony Special stress should be a laid on the length of time Involved on the misery which h fol- fol an Unwise or hurried choice of ot husband or wife on the sacred and patriotic principle Involved Parents relatives and friends friends' have distl distinct ct duties toward the newlyweds The parents In particular who vho know knowS the trail rail ail to the barred five barred gate and S V V V mir mir- a V Perhaps you have arrived at the five barred date which stands between every married pair and the long road to hill just over the edge of which shine the sunbeams of Happiness If so you will surely read Judge Grahams Graham's expert testimony on the subject What's more you will think it over after you have read and It-and probably change your mind about veral things in connection with yo your r life partnership The Great Reconciler tells you s a lot about the trail to better read hi his article carefully the pitfalls to be avoided can aid ald immeasurably im- im measurably if It they wI will I Most youny youn folks hit lit the trail I 1 with an idea that it is a primrose primrose- poppy and-poppy path all the Way The I first time on of ot them falters the theother theother theother other cries out in dismay If It Wife momentarily drops her end of the basket basket bas bas- I ket kd in which they are carrying the eggs of happiness Hubby is prone to todo do likewise and vice versa I j That is not the course at atI 1 I all Those tactics continued the I j eggs will all be broken when the gate 1 Is reached and there will be no use tse I going any farther i i I I Much the easier and more successful success success- I ful way Is to have a good frank trank unI understanding un- un I before starting Decide upon a ii signal signa which Indicates that one or the other ether is about to let letI letdown I down for a rest so both sides sides' of ot of the basket may be lowered at once i ij I Ii j i without damage i iI Also it is ir possible possible nay nay probable I j that that cne ene ne or the other mar malT stray from the trail If the steadier partner pert part ner ncr has been Insufficiently instructed in youth or has failed to appreciate the full values and significance of the partnership he or she will run runaway away away to to a courtroom The sooner the boys bOs and girls of America are graduated from the College College Col Col- lege of Common Sense In respect to matrimony the sooner will wilt the Republic He- He public reach its fullest efficiency and the dread germs of ot be e eliminated More tomorrow |