Show I II I After Honeymoon Wanes Man Treats Love as Some I Matrimony for Men Men Disappointments Kind of Commodity but bui Nothing to Worry About Aboul I II I By WINONA WILCOX And so 50 they lived happily ever afterward I Every newly married man expects his own experiment in domesticity to read like a fairy tale A man in love loveis 1 is a simple trusting creature not a abit abit I bit like the crafty diplomat described in much feminist literature I Because he is so 50 credulous he is terribly surprised when the years reveal reveal re reo veal a few of the disappointments of matrimony Man ought to know that the old ord order r nevertheless he expects expects expects ex ex- ex- ex love to be a permanent quantity and and marriage the one stable human in If a man gets into a business difficulty dif dif- difficulty he tries to make the best of it on the ground that the times money the market will improve but if trouble arises in his home he has hasan hasan hasan an unfortunate way vay of making the worst of it He is sure that if love changes in the least it was never love at all and anyway it isn't his fault But most of the time it is for any man can turn the course of true love by the power of three magic words And it would be well sometimes it Ir Irman itman man would reason about his marriage as clearly as he does docs about his busi busi- ness As a rule after the honeymoon has waned man treats love as some kind of ot a commodity valuable to be sure but nothing to worry about once itis it itis itis is nut out in a safe place So he gives it to his bride his whole stock at one time and expects her herto herto herto to guard it without any special help from him for the rest of their lives Jives And so far as any reference to it is concerned he might as well weIl thereafter thereafter there there- after be bankrupt Life would have fewer disappointments disappointments' disappointments disappointments disappointments' disappoint disappoint- ments ments' for him if he were to distribute love through the years on the instalment instalment instalment I ment plan Women never tire of hearing I Ilore Ilove Ilove love lore you j If husbands do not volunteer this information regularly and with a creditable amount of sincerity wives plead wistfully persistently Do you love me Say you love me Thus from the beginning a husband has it in his own power to determine whether the woman he has has' married ob ob- ob- ob shall prove an inspiration or an stacle If a man lose his fortune a wife of ot ota I a average character and sense will not notI only share his poverty but she will make him forget it If he lose both I arms she will manage to support the family and reconcile him to existence I She will adapt herself to all the changing and trying conditions orlove of or I love and marriage just as long as she has the magic words I I 1 love you you to give her strength But as Jane Welsh Carlyle said said- Until a woman cries men never i think she is suffering bless the bloc blockheads blocki block block- i heads |