Show I Come to- to A YEN VEN HA T S EAR Wit Ft Bony Blair Affairs of or the hurt heart and kindred p pt problems ONLY win will be discussed t t j 1 ta toO this Letters questions and re requests for advice should be to tot HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM t TCO BLAIR SALT L LAKE KE II SS u ibl UP upon only one side of oZ the thc paper I t it is necessary that tIit you append the right name namo and address but 1 lU b be held beld In strict confidence and will by no means appear ar arIf requiring personal reply must mast be by Int Letters If f La self addressed ec envelopes elo Ed 1 DOE DOESN'T UNDERSTAND DAUGHTER MELt Dial Blair I simplY r understand my hur She Is only 16 years ears of 01 bEt thinks thinks she should be a law It J herself herself She O roes joes out without il slay y until the wee small refuses B 2 to tell me anything rI rs what she has been or o tt t where doin doing I 1 cannot go 10 to been I- I b hs I f night worrying about herIt her Hu at t lIP laughs hi hs when I tell ell her this U laa It el he be 2 tell me not to be so to old me tells id that I should Just so ro to sleep I turret forget about her She doesn't id why by I am not able to do doJ doll J aul sun ll h her r mother loving her to watch over o her but she want to o feel m my protecting perform the office of or a ar Ire no nor ner r to me This breaks my What can un I do to show her the Iri u rr r of her wa ways Or If It not that her point of or view betT bet bet- that ht I will not lose her alto alto- T r C I 5 M ether eUler she has bas In her the making r a wonderful woman Is gifted gilted and andu u i and beauty It is my conant conant con can that she will not throw ant prayer way that she will begin to toik tok the serious side sider t ik k a little upon r lift life To her at present life lICe Is Js Just Juste e dance or car ride or whirlwind r a pit gli She Is very ery popular among amon Ie e bo boys boji and girls of her crowd and andl hen hID Jb he be It iS home the t telephone is is' JoUn lly ringing for lor her There 1 10 JO 0 many temptations for young oung ole eele nowadays Can you ou suggest I might do for better bettu un un- 7 MOTHER ER I Young Youa people do no not want to be un un- d. d They want to be let alone ey el are arc as you ou say suf sufficient unto They have never been rents or middle aged or elderly they haven't the sll slightest concep concep- worries concerning m n what all our eai em are about We have once been not mg-not not so long since but that we member and member and we know how to feel fee ith them but they will not know iw to feel with us until they have ached achet our O years and are spending nights over their own young young- oun generation You can do this much You can canen canen en fa your doors to your younger gen gen- alien atlon and see for yourself how ilU most of their fun really is ley ey are nighthawks it is true thirty velve which used to be late later lateus r u US is 15 only the beginning of the ening for them Yet their t youth seems to stand the strain the few hours of sleep Didn't your mother used to worry out oot you if your our beau sat with you youe e minute after 10 o'clock And isn't she afraid the horses had run runny ny ly and killed you ou if ir you were out the evening until after 9 97 9 E Every Dery ery older generation has nas worried about Its youngsters And yet ct those who are arc made of oC th the th-c right kind of stuff sture and who have had the proper background and md training seem to come through and make the finest kind of ot men and women You did Cant Can't you show your our daughter that thai you trust her implicitly to uphold the standards the race has set If It you ou mistrust her all her innate fineness win seem to her to be InnatE coun count counted ed for nothing Trust does docs so much to strengthen people young old or middle aged in their highest con AFTER GRADUATION Dear Miss 1 Blair I am a- a senior a-senior in high school and will be graduated this June The boy I have han been going with Ith is also to be graduated but as soon as he Is through he Is 15 moving ln with his family to another state We Uc have been beener er very much in love lo with each other and It breaks me all up to have him move away He ne has promised to write and to be true to me always but I know how It Is when two are separated d. d It seems to me now that it would be impossible im lot possible for tor me to ever look at another an other bo boy yet et one cant can't stay In alaa al al- aa I will have to go 0 out and mix with other people and try to have hae a good tood time lime and so will he I am not so much afraid of my ever eHr falling failing in love lo with another boy as I 1 Iam am ant of or him fallin falling for tor another girl Irl In fact back in this old home where they are moving he had a sweetheart before he came here and met me He lie has not written to her for some time yet et when he is back there again 1 I think sh she Is the likely one he will willi want to take out I 1 would rather he would take anyone else than her Do you jou ou think it U would seem small of me mc meto meto to ask him not to take this particular girl out GIRL GRADUATE It would be very bad policy for you to ask your our friend not to go with his former girl Such a request would only emphasize the comparison he may feel in his mind regarding the two of you ou and doubtless it would be in her favor if iC you were to make him conscious of rivalry It would place him on the defensive On the other hand if you ou were ere generous in your our remarks about the theother theother theother other girl and let him know that you supposed it would be the natural thing for him to pick up his friendship friend ship with her he would be apt to think Theres no hurry If IC she's trying to get rid of me mc in this way Ill I'll just fool her her Minds can be so contrary contrary con can when it comes to following the suggestions ori originating in the minds of others That Is with people who ho think for tor themselves and weigh matters mat pro and con As soon oon as a mind is made conscious of oC a certain situation it begins of Its own accord without further urging ing to pIa play with the possibilities con with it Perhaps because of this It would be better for lor you not notto notto notto to mention the other girl unless he does to you ou And when he docs does Ithe if It he does docs be generous PERFUME IE JARS Dear Miss Blair My roses this year arc are lovelier than the they have ever er been Will you ou please tell me mc how bow to make a perfume Jar with the leaves leans Many 1 thanks LILA Gather the roses in the morning toss them on a table in a cool airy place until the dew evaporates Place them In a large larg glass class jar and on each half Inch halt inch layer sprinkle salt Add to the petals from Crom day to da day until you have the desired amount Allow to stand for 10 days after the last petals have been added stirring every morning Have ready 1 4 ounce of or mace 2 1 ounce of oC allspice aUspice and cloves coarsely ground around 12 2 grated nutmeg 2 1 ounce cinnamon stick broken in bits 1 ounce powdered orris root 4 1 pound of ot dried lavender leaves Mix spices together in a 1 bowl and fill the rose jar with alternate layers of or the rose leaves and spice mixture Add several drops each of oC oil of or rose geranium bitter almond An and orange flower dropping upon the layers as you make them Over the whole hole hole pour one ounce of your favorite toilet water This amount makes a two quart Jar Jarand jarand ar arand and will be self preserving for years years years' f If kept in a tightly closed jar and left leU open only a few minutes each day Another way is to allow leaves to dry then sprinkle the layers with salt saIl cinnamon cloves and arid powdered orris root until the Jar is filled Keep tightly closed QUOTATION Dear Miss 1 Blair Many l years ears ago when I was a boy In school I had a I lesson lion In my copy copybook copybook copybook book about books It was something about their value alue expressed In terms of eating Some of them to be chewed others swallowed whole etc I wonder if it you OU could dig up that old quotation for me I should be beery er ery grateful for It it OLD MAN I From Bacons Bacon's essay Of Studies the following quotation is taken Some books are arc to be tasted others to be swallowed and some few to be chewed and digested Those were the good old copy book days |