Show 1 COME COZIE TOt TO TO p t HEARTS HEART'S HA HAVEN YEN t tt t t tt ti t i with BETTY BLAIR t i Affair ot or the heart and kindred problems ONLY will be discussed S In this department 5 Letters Questions and requests request for advice should be ed to toMBS toS S BETTY BErry BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT LAI LAKE side of the Uie paper Write upon only one S It is 15 necessary that you rou append the right lame and address but butS S these thue will bo beld held In 10 strict confidence and wilt will by no means meana appear S S In Ed Ed I RIGHTEOUS INDIGNATION NATION Dear Hear Miss 1 Blair I am a s married woman of 22 My 1 MyS S Is Just juit startIng starling out in business bus busi S ness leSl esi and we are very ery poor I bad had too to too o on working In order for u us to get S long Despite this we were very ery appy app until one cue of our friends got S His wife seemed to grieve grievo a a. tot lot so we asked tier ber to come and sta stay with us for a week ceck or so That was ix Six months ago and she is still with us U Her husband left Idt her quite a lot of noney but she site never ne even cen offers to jay us any board or to bu buy an any gro- gro or things for the home She 1 ver very lazy I get up at 5 o'clock f very morning morning- and do the work and he lie Is always In bed when I leave fo for he office At night when I come com home I have to tidy up the tho house gc get dinner do the dishes and a 1 tho thousand sand other things every wife has Jus to do while she Is 13 out riding with ID my hus bus band He lie began taking her for rides ride to cheer her up when she first tint came and they arc ue still continuing I never neve go So on these rides as I am nm always busy basy or too tired Another reason is that tha they never ask me to go with them My Iy husband does not seem to care for my company compan an any more but 1 Is always sweet and considerate to this girt I dont don't believe that It I Is because I am unattractive e that he has lost lent Interest in interest interest In- In terest In me sue for forI I am considered pretty I am slender stender 5 feet 1 Inch tall fall weigh 9 04 94 1 pounds have reddish reddish- brown hair brown eyes ces a clear complexion com corn and am always clean and neat I have bave had Jud quite quito a 3 few chances to go out with different men Now Miss Blair I dont don't believe I Ican Ican I Itan can tan stand to have hare this girl living with me an any longer but my husband will wll not let me mc tell her to go My 1 mother and friends all aU seem to think that I ISm Iam Iam am S foolish for letting letting- them act as the they do and still sUll go on living living- with m mj my husband What shall I do Should I leave my ray husband Should I tell this girl gir to go xo Should I quit work and try to get gel along on my husbands husband's Income Or should I Just let the housework go so and regain m my old self and let my husband see that I can play around as S well ell as he Will you and your readers decide for me Thank you yon DISTRACTED Dear Miss Blair I have had a a. girl friend staying with me now for tor some time of whom I used to think the world but since coming comIng- to see me this time she is La so changed that I am at a loss to know how to treat her I am getting to the point where I cant can't even act ad IUt natural natura ral toward her She has given Iven everyone e the Impression Impression sion Ion that she has taken fatten all aU m my friends away aay from me just because they treat treather treather treather her nice for my sake She talks about me mc to all aU of my friends and laughs at me mc t telling lIIn them I am Jealous Jeal ous of her She talks continually about the men who ho fall for her and tho the compliments they pay her and worst of all she tells things that I know to be untrue She has made it impossible for me mc to continue to live 11 with her and yet d I dont don't know how to break with her without causing much embarrassment embarrassment embarrassment embarrass embarrass- ment to us both We Wo have moved into a small room roon where here we do our own cooking bushe but bu she Just cant can't be made to share the expenses She has a husband to support support support sup sup- port her but she has hM made It S S S S sible for me sue ever to live Jive with my husband again Will WUI you OU h help helpS p mo mc solve soho this problem TIRED The foregoing letters arc are so much alike that we offer the few suggestions suggestions we have to both botn If It a burglar came into your home and you caught caugh him there you would know exactly what to do to get rid of him and you yen OU wouldn't waste any time Ume doing it it either In both your cases there are women In itt your homes parading under the guise of friendship and stealing from you openly yet et subtly your our dearest poss possession ion peace of mind They arc are stealing other things from you ou love of husband friendships even room space That which was once freely freel offered was done so with friendship for return value The contract automatically automatically auto auto- ceases when one party to it utterly fails falLs to live up to her side of it il Both women know they are lre not fulfilling fulfilling fulfilling ful ful- ful- ful filling the act of a friend Both know they are wronging the other who gallantly gallantly gal gal- Is trying to see sec the project through under the handicap their ac actions actions ac- ac lions provide Perhaps they haven't thought of themselves yet as thieves but that is what they are They are arc taking what doesn't belong to them and they have ha no thought of ever re returning returning re- re turning the stolen goods Will you let the bur burglar lr continue to ravage your our home under your very eyes and do nothing to stop l him m All you lack is the will to do what you ou know you should do The means will take care of itself itselL Only be sure that the they do not take with them other priceless possessions wh when n the they take uke their leave I think Distracted would be foolish foolish fool fool- ish to give up either her husband or her work and that Tired can move out from her trouble and find a new room and a new friend if H the present masquerader cant can't be persuaded to move WANTS TO WAIT Dear Miss 1155 Blair Will you oa please tell me ins what I should do I am In love and so deeply In love lore that I sometimes lose Jose sleep over the affair I am 19 years of age are and have already proposed to the girl When I asked her If she would marry me she sho answered that we we would have to Lo wait walt I do not want to wait walt because I am afraid if It I do I will lose Jose her and she means so much mach to me There are times when I doubt whether she the loves me and wonder if she is just leading leading- me on and now Miss Hiss Blair I have ha come to you to ask askor I Ifor for or your advice In the mat matter r. r Will I you please answer soon LOVEBIRD Find out why the girl doesn't want wanto to o marry you now If it is be because she is s not in itt love with you you should be glad she doesn't want to marry you 0 She he may not even know the state of her own mind or heart Every girl should be given time to find that out What reason reason reason-or or excuse has excuse has she of offered offered of- of ferro for or not wanting to get married now S You cant can't lose what is not your own what never has been or never will be Be sure she loves you before you urge the marriage You alone can cart find this out DIFFERENT NATIONALITY Dear Miss Blair I am In love with a boy of a differ dUfer- cut ent nationality from my own He Ho wants me to marry him and I dont don't know what hat to do Everyone objects to our marriage If It I marry him he ho howit will wit take me away vay to India with him where I will not have haye any friends Please help me with my problem BILLY How old are you Billy It is very important that one should know that and much more about you and the boy who wants to marry you OU and take you ou to India with him before one can otter offer suggestions My strongest t tImpu Impulse e now judging from the immaturity imma imma- of your our letter and the little you have told me is to sa say DONT DO DOIT IT What That you now think is love is probably not sufficient to overcome ome the handicaps that lie before you TREATMENT T FOR FOB SUN TAN TANN TANN TANN N O. 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