Show COME m TOI TO TO- I 1 HEARTS HEART'S HA HAVEN YEN VEN i BETTY BETT BLAIR BLAIR- Affairs of the heart and kindred problems ONLY will b be discussed ed In this department Letters questions and requests for advice should be I addressed ed to MISS BETTY BLAIR HEARTS HEART'S HAVEN TELEGRAM SALT LAKE W Write legibly upon only one side of tho the paper I It Is necessary that you append the right lame iame and address but these will wUl be held beld In n strict confidence confidence- and will by no DO means appear In print Ed Ed S FRIEND BROTHER Dear MIs 1 Blair 1 am the youngest member of a a. family of five fIn boys and md incidentally am the only one is as yet et unmarried with the exception of the brother just older than me lie He is 29 9 years old and was happily married up until a afew afew afew few months ago ArO when hen his wife wile who had been traveling decided to keep on doing dome so ao and asked for her free free- dom This ThEs particular brother is the home- home loving IovIne type and naturally these events cents came as quite a blow to him After months of continual bickering chaos and other disruption he has given Inn up his home and nud furnishings and come to live with my mr mother and anti me His wife has gone to California Call Call- fornia and as far br as a L reconciliation lion tion Is concerned that is definitely definite I out of the question Without going into the possible causes of the separation or the after I results may mav I ask uk ukon von on h how W am I to provide pro sufficient diversion in any anyway anyway anyway way whatsoever er to help him take his mind off oft the estrangement He lie Is not the despondent morose type but at present is feeling pretty low Jaw I am fearful of his conduct and would like to know if I should adopt Opt the laissez-faire laissez policy polle with Its 11 at attendant attendant at- at results or try to cheer him up Thank you Sincerely BROTHERS KEEPER Whatever you ou do to cheer your our brother should be camouflaged by bythe bythe bythe the laissez-faire laissez attitude as most roost people peo peo- pie especially sensitive people dIslike dislike dislike dis dIs- like interference even cven from those to whom they are devoted de What your brother needs more than anything else just now other than to be let alone is some inducement to engage in heavy physical activity So Some m e 1 sort of exercise I that will tire him hime e out physically and induce him to sleep through s she sheer h c c e r physical tion If It you ou have ha haye boxing gloves inthe in I Ithe the house have him put these on I with you and give him a good work work- work work-f out Take him to toi the gymnasium for swims floor work handball and md as soon as the weather permits out for track It is surprising how the fit physical cal condition occurring with recuperation recuperation recuperation after fatigue can lO tone e up the mental condition and make the world look right Naturally your our brother will continue o suffer for the disruption disruption disruption dis dis- in his family life but sufferIng suffering suffering suffer suffer- ing with hope and suffering without it are two different things altogether You can help to supply the hope But d don't dont t forget the camouflage DISCOUNTS DISCOUNT'S SPIKES SPIKE'S KNOWLEDGE Dear Miss Blair What does Spike know about girls Just because he has bas been goIn goIn go- go In steady and has bas had experience he still doesn't know A ALL L about us Incidentally this Is leap year car and md ItIs it itis itis is the girls girl's privilege to ask boys to certain dances These boys bos ought to tobe tobe tobe be glad they dont don't have to o shell out at the door Depressions Depression's on I will agree aree with Spike that girls sa say things about their rivals but wot wouldn't he Ill I'll bet he be would Some are er very wary but its it's a habit an awful habit Now heres here's my question What's a girl supposed to do when her enticing enticing In ing boy friends come to see her and to her surprise there are three or four other girls with them Of course the girls iris start to quarrel and what an evening What shall we do What shall we do THE THREE MUSKETEERS Well weve we've heard of people going out to dinner and taking their own food along with them but we have never before heard of them keeping an appointed date and taking other girls along to keep it Naturally you would be surprised But on second thought arent aren't you OU just a little bit sorry that the party ended in a squabble You could have completely vanquished vanquished vanquished van van- your our enemies by smothering the surprise clement element and appearing to have expected them You could have played the part of the perfect hostess and thus have made your our guests wonder so about your our motives that they would have made an extra effort forever afterward to be nice niceto niceto niceto to you And that would have been fun We always alwa's lose to our enemies when we lose our self But with control control control con con- what a party that could have been You could have kept those boys guessing ever every minute As it was they were enjoying themselves at your our expense And well we'll wager the bogs egged on the quarrel Boys always love a good fight They set their dogs on all the cats cath in the then n neighborhood when they are little tittle They stage rooster fights in the back yard ard And they black each others' others eyes up in good style to the rooting and hooting of their own fans The only thing you ou can do now is iso isto isto to o laugh and say to the boys We gave you ou what you expected expected-a a good show show for for which we should be paid the he price of admission to any other as good And to the girls say on the side The affair was staged Lets Let's get jet to together ether now to fool the boys Then think up something good p HAPPY MARRIAGE Dear Deu Miss lIss Blair I want to say that Im I'm a happy happ wife wile and have two lovely children and a wonderful husband Weve We've been een married d five years Isn't it funny when one is 15 happy happ the they want wanto to o shout it to the whole world Especially to those who think there arent aren't man many successful marriages cs like ike those I read about awhile back My 1 oldest boy is now going on 4 years cars old and he has blond curly lair hair hair but it Isn't as thick as it might be e. e My Iy husband wants to clip it to tomake tomake tomake make It come in thicker Would this make it come in straight Thank you PAT Sometimes clipping the hair docs does have lave a tendency to make curly hair come in straight But much of this is 15 also due to the treatment the hair receives afterward I would suggest cutting the hair instead of or clipping cUpping it t. t Dip the fingers in castor oil and rotate otate them over the head to stimulate late ate the scalp and induce the curliness curll curll- ness to establish itself Occasionally Occasionally Occasion Occasion- ally with warm water do the same thing hing Never use cold water on the baby's saby's head as this will make the hair straight We may not publish the he part of your letter asking concerning concerning con con- commercial products for making hair grow and for reducing weight but instead we have mailed you In your our stamped self addressed envelope our circulars Treatment of Dr Dry and Oily Ony Hair and Dieting for or Health It is a pleasure to publish the first portion of your our letter telling of your our happy lappy marriage Usually it is only of the unhappy ones that we hear PUREBRED POLICE DOG DOGA A purebred Belgian police dog doC will willbe willbe willbe be given hen to a friend of dogs dos who s III offer a good home The dog dol is a great playfellow of a small child and anda a wonderful watchdog but circumstances circumstances circum- circum stances demand that he be given away Go to 1356 South Eleventh East ast street or call Hyland for tor further particulars NAME FOR CLUB Dear Miss l Blair I have a very ery hard problem to solve We Ye have hae a team at school in which we pia play all sorts of or games Hit Pin Pins Is s one of or them though there are arc man many others We have been trying to think of an appropriate name for this club but ut so far have not succeeded Can you help us find one Thank you ou BOO Hit Pin is Itself a catchy name Why not call caU yourselves the Hit Pin Club lub This could be done even though hough you do play many other games ames the nature of which I do not know enow and which might help me to give a longer list Or you might just call yourselves the Gamiest Girls L or The Variety Club |