Show p I 1 a aO O OXil Queries addressed to this department should be addressed to Miss Kathleen Kaye Department Salt Lake Telegram Salt Lake City Utah S Queries are limited to one ono question each written on only one side of the 5 paper with full name and address of writer appended also name or Initials I to used be-used used for Identification In column col All names and addresses are held In m strictest test confidence S I IDo IS yDo Do 5 5 55 not write In pencil S 5 5 v Do not ask for private reply S For special service phone Wasatch between 11 and 12 5 When necessary phone for th the location of any commodity mentioned In Inthis this department S S Dear ai Dear Miss Misa Kaye S J I 15 read your your every S C and enjoy it very very much S l have havo been ben giving others such suchS S f advice I wonder r if you i S h Jp me 12 Miss Kaye I have two o one sV e 14 and tho other otner 16 I Ij j j just cant can't a it do a thing with t ese They sass me and when I Iw S w l them to help mo me they cry and andS nd i quarrel bout about which will do it until S I I get so tired of it I do clo it myself S r Iguess guess Its It's my fault for in inS into into t to th them m like like I do but what h ht t can I 1 Ido do Miss Kaye Kayo Another r thing they theyS S a ar determined about doing is going t to the dance once once a week Now ow this dance hall is bout about four miles away way and they have to walk about two miles after they get off the tho car car car- that is is they tell me they walk but butS butI S I have been told that they get in inand inand and end ride with any boys boya that n open to come along Th They y not only go to i the dances but to the show twice a week and in fact are aro out somewhere some some- I where every night They both go goto goto goto to public publio school and I have seen the principal about them but nothing nothing nothing noth noth- ing seems to do any good So I come cometo to you Miss Kaye as I knowS know S you OU can tell me something to do Wishing you the best of f luck A WORRIED MOTHER Sandy And grave cause you have hae fox for worry little woman The sad fact is IS though that worry will not solve the problem problem problem-It It wont won't even help So I first of all lets let's discontinue the de destructive destructive de de- j worry and try to conCentrate concentrate concentrate concen conCen- in real constructive thought ht on ona ona ona a plan which may be made whereby you can reclaim your little girls S When in the Divine plan woman w was s set up next to God by being given the share In the sacred and andS S holy business of creating her kind she sho also fell feIl heir to a grave And she who accepts the sacred e of ot motherhood au automatically automatically au- au agnees agres to answer for forthe forthe forthe the charge she is given to keep Now my dear you have not ful- ful d y your ur part of ot this sacred sac bar- bar you gaii-you you have haye not measured up to your trust And until you do you have something very serious for lor which to answer Your little girls could not have gr grown Wn into the things of ot which you tell 5 had they from the tIe b beginning had proper Draper mothering Why it tl v er would louId have occurred to them th that tsuch such would Be De possible You Tou have come to me for help Im I'm glad you have and how I w wish sh that I help you you you-I I wish it more than xou know but no no pow power r on earth Ian can help you now until you start helping yourself That will not be easy easy It it will be most dreadfully r hard hal and I almost grieve for you you- as an the struggle Im I'm Jn- Jn n- n stIng that you take up I But there is' is n ther way way out Youve You've t tf in by neglecting our In the training of ot th the kiddies- kiddies and nd d you must needs find your way aut out outi What been very 1 simple and easy had you taken it tep by step In the daily dally life Ue in inS S the proper time will not be BO iso now nov lor the reason t that at you cannot even start to build until much which goes oes to make up the very natures I y Df f these girls girla Is la weeded out To I i I right about face and arid start from rom a anew anew anew new beginning sometimes seems scorns al almost almost almost al- al most impossible but it is not When hen henso so sacred a a. prize is at stake you iou dare not consider defeat you vou mu must t know you have kave to win at nn any cost cot S So in that frame of mind go humbly humbly humbly hum- hum bly bly to the girls and tell them that you ALL are arc on the wrong wa way way that you ou must together retrace your steps and get back to a 3 I. I new nW beginning begin begIn- ning way nIng-way way hack back where you can get your feet on solid ground Then when you have haye admitted I your wrong along with theirs when you have thus won their confidence in your hone fairness plan to together to- to o geth gether r for a better har harmony ony in the Home and arrange some sort sott of referee game whereby you'll sOmehow somehow some sOme- how pass on the prospective outings as they come up But know now of Mother that they MUST NOT go to dances and picture s shows If you to together together together to- to gether cannot arrive at a substitute substitute substitute tute for this dangerous form of amusement t then en compromise and anti regardless of how you feel about it I GO WITH THEM And if it you go go cheerfully x S And while you are working out your new plans go into it happily I and be free and chatty with the girls Let them know Imo it is their plan as well weIl as like Ilke three I school girls work it all out to to- to gether Play the Glad GIad Game Game It It is I wonderful when three earnest and sincere players t follow Ilow it together I If it would help come to re and let me rae go into this all with you personally We a I way to save your little ittle girls from the fate that is all but upon them even and together perhaps we can plan the better But act net you ou must and immediately You DARE not refuse to save them from themselves no matter what your personal feelings feelIng in the matter When you accepted the responsibility of of motherhood you took on a grave problem and andOU you OU DARE not prove untrue to the trust I wish I might have spared you much of this poor dear for for truly I feel a very keen sympathy for you My sympathy for your troublous life is only surpassed by my fears for the girls and a determination o j Impress impress im mi- press you with the seriousness of the tho situation If It I have succeeded In in In- In directly throwing a protective cloak j jabout I about them then I have helped you too to an extent that it would even be worth the price of f your f fr f end end- ship whIch shIp which I sincerely trust you will not compel me to pay for this frank discussion You wont won't will you S Dear Miss Kaye Kaye- Kaye Does a person have to p purchase a license In I order to hunt hurtt Jackrabbits In the state of Utah Thanking in advance you 4 SLIM LII I Sandy In Jn section 23 of the fish and game of ot ine he st state te of I Utah Utah I find the following provided fUr fUrther further fur fUr- ther t that all all species of rabbit or hare hard may be or or otherwise otherwise other other- wise taken at any season of f the year by any person holding a Ii- Ii cens cens to hunt small game You are very welcome Dear Miss Miss' Kaye This is to help an elderly couple that bought a farm in Colorado The well water ater there is so hard that thai when she puts soap in it it curdles Can n you tell me what to tod todo todo d do to to- break the water wate so she can us use it for washing clothes They haul their drinking water ater but it makes It awfully hard to haul it for washing too Do hope you willbe will willbe willbe be able to help them and thanks for past favors 5 POOR WELL Salt Lake S The very cheapest and best treatment treatment treat treat- ment meat for this sort of ot water is the ordinary washing soda Have the friends draw the water and stir in well the soda in the proportion of ot about four pounds to o the 1000 gallons gallons gal gal- lons Ions let stand then then drain draIn off the wat r and ana let the sediment remain In the first container This would prepare tho water for laundry pur- pur poses Of ot course I suppose they know I about household ammonia hydro pura etc eta dont don't they Hope this will prove a a. help for forat forat forat at best theIrs is a difficult lem You are most welcome Dear Miss Kaye Will you please tell me the ad address address address ad- ad dress of Lila Lee Leo the screen star and oblige S A SUBSCRIBER Nephi Glad to let let I you have it Subscriber Subscriber Subscriber Sub Sub- scriber Miss 1 Llla Lila Lee Lasky Studio Hollywood California Dear Miss Kaye Will you please tell telf me whether an orange dress would take any particular ular dye coloring I have an orange dress to dye and would like very much to know the colors that are bes best I Very respectfully CURIOSITY Payson I I r Colors must be dyed a darker shade than the original l one and sometimes itis well wen to keep within I i the same color and dye to a darker I tone Orange makes a lovely brown Also it can be De e dyed black or dark blue Dear Miss Kaye aye How convenient It is to be able to ref refer r to youl I. I In this evenings evening's 8 Telegram I read an editorial which referred to the tha Bok pe peace contest Will you be kind enough to advise through your column column col col- the closing date of this contest and if not too late to enter tell me what the rules are Grateful for your trouble in the j matter maHer I am S Sincerely y y yours urs tirs S M. M B. B S Salt I Cak And nd how much I like to have you S SS come to me S Sorry but the Bok Peace C Contest I was closed November |