Show JI j Widow ana I ii fier En mi s I Beatrice Fairfax Fairfa Advises What to Do DoWhen DoWhen When a Man Proposes But Ills His Relative Opposes My 11 Door Dear Miss n Fair You tare litre so kindly giving tving advice in lairs fairs oC o the heart noon that I take the liberty and the th pleasure of or writing you OU OUI I am a bachelor over oer 40 and for several years have enjoyed the acquaintance ot oa o a widow a few years younger than myself who has children well grown up Our acquaintance has grown Into a close friendship and we have beve considered the subject of ot marriage and are both inclined toward such a stop The Tho only Obstacle is an Ln unmarried female relative of mine who expresses express s her disapproval plainly and sometimes violently and who un ira doubted would make things very ver un unpleasant Unpleasant pleasant If I should marry Would you advise me to disregard the objections of the female relative or drop my m acquaint acquaintance ance with the tho widow whom I love loveE E B S I admit that an unmarried female rela rein tive tivo of uncertain age has rather a fierce sound Bound But It would seem that a bach bachelor bachelor bachelor elor who has penetrated the shady side of 40 and a widow with grown children were rather easily intimidated l if they allowed her to frustrate their plan to marry many Why pay any attention to her and her disapproval further than to request her herto herto herto to interest herself exclusively in the busi business business business ness which is hers liers There Thare are coarse rude rudo ways of Intimating IntimatIng ing lag this they may have already occurred I Ito to you when she has been particularly I violent in her disapproval but it can be done politely you know without blows or without making you ou feel like resigning from your club I should advise you ou both to marry without wasting any eny more time since you love each eark other The widow marry marrying marrying marryIng ing your female relative slie ha is marrying only you This is something to remember remember ber bel BEATRICE FAIRFAX III |