Show 20 A fi w r esay yra yr kia 3 9 iv page TOPAZ TIMES 1943 01 by lo A 10 UZ V VA hen when W AA abt A HS Wt am put his oia okayy uncle sSam service and when the war depart nent ent issued its proclamation afthey fecting the nisei men on selective ore recently ft started a lot of ahad and fast thinking about marriage to marry or not to marry au fuestion estion for those of later or now is the momentous ciu marriageable age and it must be decided in a month or during the first fine frenzy of a week these days looming evacuation brief acquaintances flowered swiftly into love and matrimony and those who regretfully blooded in the confinement of one room barrack homes brooded numbered too many if that happens again as a result of the war departments statement we will have hundreds of brides who will honeymoon alone the question Is it better to marry before he goes to camp and have at least a little happiness together if youve been engaged and the plans have all been made go ahead be a wife chos but remember have a husband and yet you entirely on her own have all the flaws of marriage and none of the flavor youre the one who choso chose marriage so married you are means your solo dates would be strictly with that moana your husband not his brother your old friend or ex beau youve a nice quiet time ahead of you with the other girls your aites dates should bo confined to group activity or dates where others will be present all even then dont bo one man be dating with any ono evening a pretty good safeguard dont fool yourself tho that just because youve known him long or that thol hes a newly made acquaintance and you fallen never bein love with a thud at first sight come fend good ond of him there I s a perfectly oatly possibility corf 1 you might grow on each numbers other so insist on a galety of t u A joffe 0 5 JoW fe il ft y i i INGENUITY y when the resident of topaz resettles hei he wm will be a master of ingenuity his knowledge of floor saving devices in itself should make him a man of no small importance in times where housing is at a premium for instance he no longer will scoff at double decker beds even if he has to take the upper he will use every gome space for useful shelves from ceiling to floor and as for being able to make something out off nothing one of these days former residents will pra- ctically their furnish homes with orange and two by fours beautiful magazines their other grace own boxes pictures will come in into scenes and landscapes will snow city walls where once they merely decorated sheet rock partitions give the relocated resident a piece of sheet rock mill in the future and he will become a seven day wonder he will make partitions with built in bookshelves which will become the marvel of ON urbanites THE 0OTHER HAND TIM HAM carry overs all of the carryovers may not be center of life 11 5 DOMESTIC however For inuseful as rak jeanw Q t TEAMWORK we must remember stance that the main function of the soup bowl is a dish with which we serve soup sn i ping a l youu while you quietly take it good seen sniping to be drunk with a spoon we natu must remember not 0 o should arouse his sporting instinct to proyou on tect with his defense the other hand if you serve everything from cofmake an issue of it you put him in the position of fee to tea in the bowls having to take sides a situation which is like the and drink said beverages spark that lights the fuse directly from the bowl we so avoid friction with his fp mily but also avoid must remember not to rush undue intimacy too you carrying marry the whole family from the table remember 1943 and it works both every dish we have used america 1945 is this your family hay be grand ways but your husband we must remember marry them granted you must do your duty to there are separate dishes I1 I1 li l i 1 ul ajlA mother in law is not 7 if your only uncooperative pera tive but difficult operative as well dont show your husband you think so after all you are the one he loved enough to marry y anyone even his own mother 0 them and observe own problems two speaking peaking of certain ceremonies as well as your friction home your of custom belong only to you a sense of humor for desserts that it is not necessary to clean a our dinner plate 0 place CA fop the jello or what have in marriage you view prob- you the in bankie we must remember not to lems objectively rather than personally be relieved to find many of them solved cupss to the end an argument about pass our cup how to spend the evening or which movie to soo dan deof the table as soon as we velop into a major domestic upheaval if either one are seated we must rememtakes the stand on the principle of the thing hon- ber not to treat china estly marriage dishes with the same abanthat sound silly because means you must give as well as take give way gracious- don as we did our enamelly notice give not dole out for an obviously re- ware whether we do or not signed attitude is just as bad as obstinacy will be amusing to note is borth more than money |