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Show Ptte 14 THE HERALD, Provo. Utah, Tuesday, January 8, 1974 How fo Make OL Worti of Women Un I ,!;" & 1 rf ft ' f !', MRS. HYRUM ANDERSON MEAD JR. (Rosemary Dunn) On Vicious Gossip By HELEN and SUE BOTTEL RAP: I've got a frlemfl'll call Pam. About a year ago her parents made her break up with this dude and she almost had a nervous breakdown. When she got out of the hospital, she had an "I don't care" attitude which I set out to change. After she "came back to life," we were still best friends. Then someone called her folks and told them I was hcoked on drugs and laid out of school almost every day to get high. The first couple of phone calls, they ignored, and then it began to get to them. Meanwhile, a mysterious caller informed my mother Pam with the guys and a was a put-oregular sot. Mom doesn't believe anything until its proved, so she told the caller politely where to go unless she had FACTS. Pam's parents made her break off with me, but six months later 1 persuaded them to let her come to a party I was giving, for her 17th birthday. Both my parents were present the entire time, two other parents dropped by, nd Pam's mother called twice! But someone just couldn't resist telling her that the party wasn't chaperoned and it was loaded with dope and booze. The adult chaperones all said they were surprised at how well behaved we were, but Pam's mother heard the wrong side. Well, t Pre-nupti- have more will power, and makes you feel worthless for not going on a diet? Then, when you go on a diet and try desperately hard to resist food, everyone offers you fattening things, and gets their feelings hurt if you refuse them? Like I was at a girl friend's and she'd just made a pudding-cake- . I say, "No thank you" and she thinks I'm saying her cake is no good. Like the gang ordered pizza sent cvei the other night and when I wouldn't eat my share they made me pay for it anyway. Please tell people to HELP someone on a diet. Not make it LOSING tougher for them. BATTLE DEAR LB.: You've already told 'em! Thanks they needed that! HELEN AND SUE - DEAR RAP: I have some old eyeglasses and wonder if you have an address where I can send them. I've heard of an orgaizaUon that uses them for poor people. FOUR EYES DEARF.E.: Send your old eye glasses to EYES FOR THE NEEDY, Short Hills, New Jersey, 97078. This nonprofit group can use not only glasses of al kinds, but also unbroken plastic or metal frames with lenses, old silverware, watches and jewelry H containing precious metals. Some gossiper gossipers ANDS are having a darn good time ruining Pam's and my friendship. What can wi do? HELP HELP: Seems to me Pam's parents are overly anxious to believe stories which could easily be lies. Or are they proved overanxious period? If you could get your parents together for a talk, your problems might be solved. HELEN (GOT A PROLLEM? Or a subject fcr discussion, two generation style? Direct your questions to either Sue or Held Bottd or both, In care of this If you want a newspaoer, combination mother daughter answer.) -- - Grooming Guide Printed crepe flame stitch and striped pleated skirts provide the basis for jacketed spring dresses HELP: in the Lew Prince collection for Why not snoop arouu and try AWrich lnc. The easy jackets of to locate the gossiper? Tia creme r Tench goutille jersey are shouldn't be hard: after all, how accented by elegantly mixed and parties al THE I sun, collection. ALUMN AE in MR. and Mrs. Gary C. the former Janet Gordon, son of Mr. and Mrs. Jerald Dean of Orem, who will fete the couple at their home, 949 S. 190 W., Orem, from 7 to 9 p.m. on Thursday. Friends and relatives are invited to attend the open house with no further invitations to be sent. Parents of the bndegroom are Mr. and Mrs. Orval Carter of F easant Grove. The couple were married on Dec. 3 in Elko, Nev. and are now residing in Orem. CLAIR MRS. AND HASLEM By Dr. June Berry Moslems to Celebrate AAUW Hears About Wedding Anniversary The Title I Project After their marriage, the couple resided in Bennett, Uintah 50th wedding anniversary County, for 35 years. They moved Saturday at the Orem Second, to Orem 15 years ago. Mr . Haslem has worked for 26th, 42nd Ward Chapel, 400 E. 400 N. from lo 5 p.m. the government and has been All friends and relatives are active in ths LDS Church, invited. The family requests no serving as bhhop for two years. Mrs. Haslem acted as Relief gifts. Doris Diamond Haslem was Society President for nine years, born Aug. 21, 1902 in Springville a counselor for several years, to William and Emma Jane and has also served as secretary Weller Diamond. in the organization. Mr. Haslem was born in Vernal They have three scis and one on Oct. 30, 1897 to Joshua and daughter; Ray Hasten, Wayne Alice Southam Haslem. Haslem, Bill Haslem and Joyce Mr. and Mrs. Haslem were Haslem Bolton. They have 21 married in the Salt Lake LDS grandchildren and five An open house will honor Mr. and Mrs. Clair Haslem on their TempleonJan.il, 1924. and have a bank, mint, post office, photo shop, beauty shop and about 20 other businesses. The shops are built with two by fours, plaster board, and real building materials, not cardboard. Thursday. Edna Torres, a sixth grade The meeting featured Dr. June student, accompanied Dr. Berry Berry, curriculum specialist of and answered questions from the Granite School District. . She AAUW members. She also told presented slides and described a about the Court System at Title I Project at Webster School Webster and how she became a in Magna. and judge. She emphasized the need to lawyer Children are given many make school relevant to opportunities for success as disadvantaged children and told derks, tellers, managers, and how the children and teachers of other positions in the shops. Dr. Webster School have built a Berry said the 3 R's of the project community in their school. They are reality, responsibility, and relevance. The children have better self concepts and a better attitude toward school since the project began three years ago. In addition, the fifth and sixth graders made an average gain of one year and five months last "Dynamic Learning" was the theme of the monthly meeting of the American Association of University Women held in the Ernest L. Wilkinson Center on Variations their on year Stanford Achievement Tests. The meeting was conducted by Mrs. Veonne Howlett, president. She thanked the members for their cooperation in the birthday project at the Mental Hospital and asked for volunteers for a February birthday. She also Ask the Cook: in that announced the Ciauntenettes would provide music at the February meeting. Cherry Squares By GAY PAULEY UPi Women's Editor NEW YORK (UPI) -T- here is a lighter side to the serious business of retirement, a future which faces millions as- - the senior population increases. Helen Alpert. an editor, takes a look at the problem in a lighter vein when she lists the pitfalls and traps in the current issue of "Retirement Livuig" where she writes of ways to ruin a beautiful future. "To start off." she says, "here are the seven easiest ways to intolerable. make retirement Each is guaranteed or your money back. Try a few ; or invent some of your own. You'll regret it." With her permission, I'd like to list her seven. in One. Do no homework anticipation of retirement. Don't look for any kind of work it will spoil your loafing. A second career? Nonsense. Retirement means you've get plenty of time for nothing planning is for plodders. Breeze along letting each day take care of itself. This is the only way to keep yourself open for lively surprises. Thrse surprises? Like discovering you've run out of food money by the middle of the week or that your car's being repossessed. Two. Never think of money. All you have to know is that financial somewhere hovers security between income and outgo. Three. When people ask how you feel, don't hestitate to tell Ihem. Itemize ev;ry ache and pain, dwelling on each in detail. You may notice that people are avoiding you but that's because they can't hope to match your interesting diseases. Four. Quickly move out of the community where you spent your life. Don't question the wisdom of familiar abandoning surroundings. The worst you can do is move to the wrong climate, wrong house, mobile park or condominium. Stay optimistic; you can always move again and again. That's how the West was won. Five. Move in with a son or daughter or next door to them or on the same block. Living with your children will give you something engrossing to do dising, every hwashing, mopping floors, preparing meals and snacks several times a day. It will feel just like home again. Except that it's not your home. Six. Ignore your health. Sneer at doctors and periodic health checkups. You feel fit as at 40 except for some shortness of breath and a cigarette cough. As for cholesterol and your paunch, why waste money on a doctor? You can take your pick of any quickie diets in magazines. These diets are all over the place and always getting debunked, but why concern yourself with such trivialities? Seven. Loaf all you please. Work is for peasants. Having nothing to do proves you're retired; don't spoil it by getting involved in politics, hobbies, clubs, civic life, volunteerism and senior power. Of course a person who has nothing to do gets in everybody's way and has nothing to contribute to any conversation, but that's not your problem. Miss Alpert concludes that retirement can be full of pitfalls and her seven easy directives "can guide you into the best of the many lurking traps. "The moral is: Start making mistakes now. Don't wait until tomorrow. What's ahead is only the rest of your life!" minute-babysitt- By NAN WILEY Dear Nan: I tried your recipe for cherry squares but the second time around I used pineapple extract in the crust, spooned pineapple pie filling on top. That, too, was delicious. I thought your readers might like to know that the recipe can be varied. Gail R. Prager, Pittsburgh, Pa. You bet it can. Use any of the pie fillings available at your grocers. With great regret that recipe was one I had to omit from my new book, along with some others I had my heart set on. Believe me, I stretch dollars too except for those times I get carried away with a lavish hand French occent ot I use 14 cans pie filling instead of just 1, dividing the 3 cans between two batches I bake at the same time. I catch every sale on those fillings. They are one item I find convenience worthwhile for sweets like these bars. I cut part of each batch for freezing, placing them on a tray until solid, then toss into freezer By AILEEN CLAIRE bags. They thaw quickly, are ideal with a cup of hot tea. NEA Food Editor Keep them in mind for hurried Leave it to the French to cooking. come up with a family dish Cream 2 sticks (Vfc pound) that could substitute, for butter or margarine with 14 some, for meatioaf. This is cups sugar. Add 4 eggs, one at a Stuffed Mushrooms lie de time, beating well after each one. France. These are filled with a mixture of lean ground Stir in ? cups sifted flour, 1 teaspoon (each) vanilla beef, pate de foie (liver pate) and orange or lemon extract. and biscotte crumbs (crisp, rusk-lik- e toast), and Sometimes I use almond flavor French with herbs and in place of one of the fruit seasoned The sauce combines flavors. Banana extract goes spices. beef broth, chopped mushwell too. room stems, s Beaujolais Spread batter in a we!! greased wine and gherkins. You can jelly roll pan (154 x 104 by 1 make your own bread Club Notes PROVO LADIES meet Wednesday at 2 p.m. at the home of Veva Hart, 185 E. Center St., Provo. Program will feature "Values in Democracy" with Dick W. Thurston as the speaker. BETASOROSIS Will meet at the home of Mrs. Raymond Sundquist, 2869, Marrcrest West, Provo at 2 p.m. Wednesday. Mrs. Floyd Millet will present progiam. Meeting represents change from normal scheduling. dii.ner ore stuffed mushrooms with sauce. UTAHSOROSIS Will meet Wednesday at 3:30 p.m. at the home ot ,Onieda Keller, 1181 E. 2320 N., Provo. PfflLENADA Siuffed Mushrooms, A Family Dish Here are some ways I use the slices of canned apple pie filling. Pour over coffee cake batter, add crumb topping and bake. P"ur custard mixture over a generous spoonful of filling in each cup, then bake. Combine with crushed unsweetened cranberries to serve with poultry. Heat to sem over gingerbread, spice cake or vanilla ice cream. Ideas for using chocolate appear in the booklet, "Make with a long, stamped, envelope to Nn Wiley in care of this newspaper. Stripes are featured on a wide, easy top that floats over a wrapped circle of skirt that ties on. A matching hat for the resort costume ties on with a drawstring at back. lots, egg, salt, pepper, parsley and crumbs. Mix well and use mixture to stuff mushroom caps. Place in a single layer in a shallow pan and bake in a preheated 350 degree oven for 35 to 40 minutes. Serve with cornichon-win- e sauce: Melt butter. Chop mushroom stems and For Budget and Time Saver Skillet Trv Nutty Tuna-Ric- e A money-stretchin- g dish (it specialty food store. These brown rice and tuna which filled mushrooms also may please health food folbt served as hors d'oeuvres. will lowers. It also is a flavorful STUFFED MUSHROOMS ILE DE FRANCE 1 1 Vi Vi large mushrooms pound lean ground beef can pate de foie cup chopped cup fine biscotte (toast) crumbs (4-o- z) legg teaspoon salt Vi teaspoon pepper Vt cup chopped parsley SAUCE: Vi cup butter Chopped mushroom . stems Va cup flour 1 cup condensed beef broth 1 cup French Beaujolais wine Vi cup chopped cornlchons (tiny gherkins) Salt and pepper tc taste 1 Remove stems froir. mush- rooms and reserve for sauce. Mix beef, pate, half the shal saute with remaining shallots until golden. Stir "in flour. Gradually stir in beef broth and wine. Cook over low heat, stirring constantl" until sauce bubbles and thickens. Stir in cornlchons, salt and pepper to taste. Makes about 6 servings. Will meet Thursday at 2 p.m. at the Utilities Building. Norma Howe's exhibit will be featured. FINE ARTS CLUB Will meet Thursday at 3 p.m. at the home of Mrs. S. E. Jacobsen, 1328 N. 900 E., Provo. No Parking on Ninth East so car pools are suggested. KALON Will meet at 8 p.m. at the La Von H. Jones, 432 S. 600 WjProvo. BETA EPSILON CHAPTER of Beta Sigma Phi crumbs if biscotte crumbs peanuts instead of cashews are not available in your are used) has a base of 12 LITERARY CLUB Will Food for Americans Mine Gwcolate." For your copy, mail your request and 25 cents "Since I'm buying il to cut down on fuel consumption, can't I write it off on my income fox?" In Retirement zmssmmmmmmmmmmsesmimsmmmsmsi dinners were hosted by Mrs. Bev Cotant, Mrs. Eugene PanKratz, Mrs. Garth Jolley and Mrs. Jay Barker; by Mrs. Robert Eyre; and another by Mrs. Quinn Hatch. inch). Thinking, imaginary many stinkers do yoa know who matched ascot ties. top with tablespoons of squares, are so jealous of Pam's filling, leaving some batter pie friendship with you that they'd For sun dressing how about a around each spoon of fruit. Bake lie to break It up? -5- UE tie-o-n frilled midriff halter witli a about 45 minutes at 350 degrees skirt with a flirty or until brown. Cool. golden HELEN AND SUE: frilly bottom in pink or aqua? with confectioners Sprinkle is it when that Why you're That's one RX for fashion L the sugar. Cut in squares to serve. overweight and not from the Adri resort reducing, everyone wonders why you dori't Orem Newlywed Couple Carter on Jan. bouquet. Musical numbers were given by Kira Pratt, harpist, with special numbers by Paul Parker and Diane Dennett and Becky Whearly and Wendy Brown. Generation Rap Mistakes An open house will honor Mr. 10. The bride is Rosemary Dunn Exchanges Vows With Hyrum Mead Jr. Rosemary Dunn became the bride of Hyrum Anderson Mead, Jr. in a wedding ceremony performed Jan. 2 in the Salt Lake UTS Temple. A reception honored them that evening from 8 to 10 p.m. at the Orem City Hall. Parents of the bride are Mr. and Mrs. "asil H. Dunn, Orem, aid the bridegroom's parents are Mr. and Mrs. Hyrum A. Mead Sr. Attending the bride as matron of honor was Sandra Camargo with Cassandra Dunn as maid of honor. Bridesmaids 5 ere Pam Glenn. Diane Doxey, Colleen Mead, Nola Mead, Julie Anne Dunn and Madeliene Dunn. Flower girls were Wendy, Robin and Suzy Dunn and Debby Hooley. The bridesmaids wore rose pink velvet gowns and carried pink and white rose bouquets. Best man was Kent Burton with Bryant Hatch as head usher. The bride wore a gown of white velvet, heavily beaded with irridescent pearls. She also wore a floor length layered veil and carried a pink and white rose Open House to Honor Household Hints When buying a dishwasher look for racks that puli all the way out so that back sections are easily accessible. A nice er is a feature of a dishwash- plate-warmi- cycle. A built-i- n dishwasher generally is the most convenient type to use. Once installed, it operates without further connecting and disconnecting. A built-i- n dishwasher is the quietest type. Surrounding cabinets help muffle sound of the water action. Portable, front opening models of dishwashers are the same over-asize as a built-in- , except fcr the addition of the top. Many are designed to be converted to built-in- s if the family moves or thekitchenis remodeled. ll dish that requires little time in preparation. RICE SKILLET 24 cups cocked brown rice Vi cup butter or margarine : 2 ribs celery, sliced 1 medium green pepper, cut in strips 1 medium onion, sliced 1 cup sliced mushrooms Vi cup broken cashews or peanuts 1 teaspooa salt V teaspoon pepper Vi teaspoon dried leaf thyme 1 tablespoon soy sauce 2 cans (64 or 7 ounces each) tuna in vegetable oil Prepare rice according to package directions ; set aside. Melt butter over medium heat in a large skillet. Add vegetables, mushrooms and cashews or peanuts. Cook, stirring occasionally, until vegetables are crisp-tende-r, 3 to 5 minutes. Add salt, pepper, thyme and. soy sauce; mix well. Stir in cooked rice and tuna. Heat to serving temperature, stirring occasionally. Transfer to serving dish. Makes 4 servings. TUNA-BROW- N (HEW5PAPH fHTERPIHSS ASSN.) Will meet tonight at 8 p.m. at the home of Jean Bartos, 25 N. 2 DRAWER lO0E.,Orem. PHILETERAS Will meet Thursday at 1 p.m. at the hosne of Mr&. J. Robert Bullock. Joyce Nelson will be in charge of the program. LELECHE LEAGUE Provo chapter will meet at 8 p.m. on Thursday at the home of Mrs. David Riddle, Wymount Terrace, Provo. Topic of the meeting will be "The Advantages of Breast Feeding" the start of a new series. For further information contact Mrs. Aaron Dickey, Orem, or Mrs. Leonard Hadden, Provo. ADKJOT 95 Utah Office Supply 69 Eoti C ittr, Provo 373-243- 0 191 S. 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