Show av 1 H f r is H ff N 5 B j 1 athe T he n home ome circle i t dont marry the young man who leaves his mother to find her way home as best she can on a dark night while without that or word ot of apology to the old lady he looks after you one ot of these days when the novelty is worn oft off he will leave you to go alone as best you can while he seeks his enjoyment at the club dont marry a man who curls a scornful lip when religion and the bible are spoken ot of and who has all the mistakes of moses and the misdeeds of solomon on his tongues end and A copy ot of ingersoll Inger sols lectures on tb Is parlor table instead of 0 the family bible la is a very poor guarantee of happy family life dont marry a man whose friends smile at each other when his name is mentioned and say well we hope he will come out all right but he la is sowing a few wild oats oata right now I 1 remember that what Is town sawn before marriage is reaped after marriage it will be very awkward tor for you to be obliged to reap that cr crop p one n of f these da days s and it if ya you u marry him you will have the most of it to gather in bow low the head do reverence to the old man once like you the vicissitudes of life has silvered his hair and changed the round merry face to the worn visage before you once the heart beat with w ith aspirations crushed by disappointment as yours perhaps is destined to be once that form stalked proudly through gay scenes of pleasure the beau ideal of grace now the hand ot at time that guithers lui withers the flower of yesterday has I 1 bent that figure and destroyed that noble carriage once at your age ahe he possessed the thousand thoughts that pass through your brain now wishing to accomplish deeds equal to a nook in tame fame anon imagining life a dream that the sooner he awoke from it the better but he be has lived the dream very near through the time lime to awaken is very near at hand his eye never kindles at old deeds of daring and the hand takes a firmer grasp of the staff bow low the head boy bay as you would in your old age be reverenced reveren ced 0 0 0 it is not the woman who he Is forever chasing everyone in the house with a broom or duster aio wiio makes the most impression as to the desirableness of neatness and order I 1 while she is making a martyr of her iselt self in her frantic attempts to always keep the hearth tidy and the woodwork ork polished and the carpets carpels tree free from spot or speck she is often driving away the better elements of the home peace and love and harmony A child cannot enjoy his playthings A without a place in which to play nor a man feel free in his own house it lie he must be always remembering that I 1 not so much as a magazine or at book shall be left one moment out of 0 place when not being read 0 0 0 look on the bright side it is the right side the times may be hard but it will make them no easier to wear a sad gloomy countenance it is 15 the sunshine and not the cloud that makes the flower the sky is blue ten times for once it is black you have troubles so have others I 1 none are free from them trouble gives sinew and tone to life fortitude and courage to men that would ibe be a dull sea where there was nothing ing to disturb the surface of the ocean what though things look a little dark the lane will turn and the night will end in broad day there is more virtue in one sunbeam than in a whole hemisphere of clouds and gloom 0 0 0 we want a religion lor for both worlds for this because we are living in it tor for the next nest because we are going to it one that prepares for the next by right living in this a religion that softens the step and gives melody to the voice that checks impatience and irritation and gives self control a religion not merely for the church and the prayer meeting but lor business for the family and tor for every day life a religion of 0 both faith and works and ot of works as founded on faith a religion of principle as well as feeling of 0 right habit as well as occasional impulse that projects the honeymoon into the harvest moon and makes the ba happy appy home like the fig figtree tree bearing at once the beauty of the tended blossoms and the glory of the ripened fruit a religion that shall level the ruts and gullies and rocks in the path way of life and give joy in that pathway to all who are in it luxuries and the surroundings ot of wealth and idleness cannot bring brine contentment of a young woman ot of pluck and good sense benso she would far rather deny herself all luxuries and enjoy the glorious sense of independence ipen pen dence which her own exertions bring it if parents could but realize this they would perhaps oftener as fisl their daughters in procuring self belt supporting honorable enjoyment wherein the restless roving ot of ua the e mind might be checked 0 0 0 I 1 I 1 what do you think of a man who will sit down at the table ahr three ee times a day and thank the lord lor for bread which he has swindled some poor man or beat his grocer out of 0 I 1 j home without a womans comans care and a womans comans love is like no home at all only the empty nest in a winders ter s gale gaie from which the birds have flown 0 0 0 when you talk to a man or a child about his faults dont stand over him with a club 0 0 0 I 1 A foolish woman can make a 1 lover over a husband but it takes a bright woman to keep a husband a lover 0 0 0 we have tor for years past noticed the very undesirable feature in the attendance of the public school in the higher grade there are as a rule many pore girls attending than why is this where are the boys boya they leave school many of them in kneir early or middle teens as soon as they are able to get a position as clerk in some store or office under the impression that they are wasting time by remaining in school longer the average boy thinks mat it if he gets some business position that will enable him to aarn a few dollars a month and that looks towards his bis final occupation in life while his bis classmates stick to school three or four years longer he has just as many years the start of his compan tons lons who remain in school now the real facts in the case are that the reverse of this is ia the truth the boy w who ho remains in school and acquires a thorough education lays a foundation that will surely other things being crial enable him to surpass his i C classmate I 1 assan ate who left school three or four years earlier 0 0 0 what citizen sl si there in our town who does not feel some degree of self pride in its welfare that cannot call to mind some meritorious advantage which should be spoken of to advantage whenever an opportunity is afforded them who is there among our people who has not the patriotism in their veins to stand boldly up in defense of and contradict any statement made that he knew would prove injurious to our town and people who does not wish to have it said of them when they are gone that the town and community in which they lived has been made some better by them them having lived in it 0 0 0 the pioneer stage of tanning farming la 18 cabout about over another generation will see the last of the free land snapped up the younger men among aswill us will find land values increased durin during 9 their day in proportion to the dearth of land and the increase of demand idle acres will slowly come into use wild cat speculation will gradually sober down time will bring about the adjustment of the type of tanning farming to the soil and market conditions of the locality we shall hear less of big money crops we snail shall find more ot of solid farming values and real contentment tent ment 0 0 0 1 just now there is altogether too much solicitude on the tha part ot of parents as to what they will do with their boys which leaves the impression on the minds of the young generation of 0 the period that something has got to be done tor for them instead of encouraging the more manly thought that they must do for or themselves there is no reason to suppose that the channels to competence and wealth are fewer and more difficult than they were years ago 0 0 0 never forget y you ou are a part of the town and that your own deportment helps to make up the str strangers angero estimate of the place 0 0 0 this paper is anxious each week it to 0 issue a spicy and interesting loc local page it if each ot at our subscribers subscribe would hand us in one news dews tem item could issue what a newsy paper wo we try it for or a few weeks and mark the change it if there Is one time more than ihan another says an experienced married should be left man when a woman alone it la is when a line of clothes comes down in the mud |