Show TUESDAY EVENING THE OGDEN (UTAH) 1955 APRIL 5 ne Complex Problems of Child Call for Professional Help By BEULAII FRANCE (Q) “My husband does not believe child care problems should be discussed with dpctors I do What is your advice as an exi perienced nurse who’s a mother?” —Mrs J N (A) In her letter Mrs N sets forth intricate problems which d doctor who can come to know the only an especially ’ family can help solve I For the first 16 months her of Mr N’s remainder a ery W3S PPy absence There Mrs N’s once-dr- y ' ' - - 18 Invite Daughter's Boy Friend in for a Chat By DR GEORGE W CRANE Hal D 42 is a factory foreman and father of Alma who was de- v V w V ' scribed yesterday “Dr Crane you have convinced me that I was wrong” he admitted “so I’ll be glad to change my rule and let Alma date this boy “And I appreciate the set of your ‘Tests for Successful Parents’ But how can a man always be sure that his daughter is going with the right sort of young Mj well-qualifie- i 17-mon- th When her second baby was a few weeks old all four picked up packed up and moved to another state to live with her husband’s widowed mother There? everyone was unhappy Before her husband was shipped off to Korea Mrs N persuaded him to move her and the chil- dren into a home of their own did so against his will having thought that his wife ahd his mother would' make a go of things child bed-wettin- g s k I T V fellow? “If they just come to the door to take a girl out that doesn’t give a father much chance to size up the boy does it?” Test for Boy Friends No that in itself is not an adequate test for a boy friend of one’s daughter But a smart girl should prime her parents in advance by outlining the background and qualifications of her suitor Does he attend church? 1 he in school with her? Where does he live? How about his language? That means does he use vulgarity and profanity? Does he drink alcoholic beverages? What about his auto driving? Is he a smart aleck who likes to show off and who thinks it is a S: anDcelllnt OTe-Ac- t Mrs N immediately! Four futures are at promptly had a nervous break- - stake! down and could not care for her Ask Beulah France to help you two children properly When she was with she decided your child care problems actually being selfish she “snapped out of it” Write her in care of General and once more tried to tend to Features Corp 250 Park Ave them But she found each had New York City N Y enclosing a habit a resorted to thumb-suckin- g stamped her husband abhors velope for her reply A£ain they moved back with (Copyright 1955 General self-addresse- to wait out the ' V is ' ''J--J en-whi- ch Features Corp) AAUW U g NrU5®rr“ mother-in-la- w V bed-wettin- g thumb-suckin- T the f" : daughter promptly returned to So three months ago when her husband returned from Korea he found an unhappy wife a daughter and two children He had to move them all again to the city where they now live in order ° he near his Army post You say he’s “lost his close-H- e nesS” to the children Mrs N After 17 months’ absence can you expect everything to be the same immediately? Do consult a family "s ' y'fcV 4 it s ' i'ty ' t SV 7A R —ADVERTISEMENT— gpWABJIJWHWff jt STANDARD-EXAMINE- to rush up to a low to run the gantlet of a girl’s stop light or another car and family! So be casual and try to put him then slam on the brokes with a ease And if he will stay for a at screeching thereof? meal that will give you a longer Does he work after school? Or is he financed by overly indul-ge- chance toi see how he harmonizes It is helpful to your daughter parents? too for vhen she sees him against Top Qualifications the familiar backdrop of her own Was he a Boy Scout? Or a for- home" environment she will submer newspaper carrier? These consciously note glaring are both topniotch qualifications faults that may not any show up so for mature young men! when he is performing on For neither a Boy Scout nor a readily the gridiron or dance floor newspaper carrier is likely to One of the best ways to shatter hang around drug stores in hood- a grossly unwise teen-aginfatualum gangs playing slot machines tion is let the (o j girl) boy (or or pin ball games in visit home your repeatedly A fellow who is mature and has You parents then don’t need to earned his own spending money criticize unduly for the stranger’s is not likely to be a gambler and faults deficiencies will show are immature For gamblers up markedly and child like They still believe in a figurative Santa Claus except she is named Lady Luck They think they can win success in life instead of earning it Alas some adult husbands past 40 are still at this kindergarten stage and never do grow up Invite the Boy In Be sure your daughter invites the boy inside where you can visit with him at least briefly Then you can size him up Don’t be overly critical if he is shy and nervous for it is often quite an ordeal for a young fel sign of a he-ma- n nt e Board of directors for the The Iota Tau Kappa Alumnae American Assn of University have its annual Easter Ban- meet at the home 'V0 t Friday at 7:30 pm t the of Mrs Marguerite H Keller 2825 Virginia Way tomorrow at Mansion House Donna Mae Hanse president 7:30 pm Joan Owens vice president and Irleen Ward secretary will be in charge assisted by Louise Holmes and Iola 'Wagner All ' sorority alumnae are in-- vited to attend Arkansas Miss Weds Layton ite 771 (m CiwwWwGit 48 State Birds Pattern 771: State'' bird quilt! 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Don’t miss Commander 'Eugene P Wilkinson’s thrilling account of the tense hours of that first epic cruise i® The Saturday -- Evening Post out today tP Edith Derrick daughter Church in Eudora followed by a of Mr and Mrs Clyde Derrick Sr reception of Eudora Ark was recently The newlyweds are now makmarried to Val Allen Green son of Mr and Mrs Parley Green of ing their home at 1249 Grape St at Denver where Mr Green is Layton solemnized affiliated with a large chain deThe marriage was Methodist Memorial partment store at the Scott Miss resfi'°see$ part of the eye Others involve as glaucoma or cataracts though carrying that picture through the the claim has been made for some nerve pathways to the brain improvement of the latter The Some of those who have studied these processes feel that orthoptic training may do more to “educate” the brain than it does particularly because to improve the muscular action question there have been a number of ar- of the eyes in bring about betticles in popular magazines con- ter sight cerning the use of eye exercises are some things which There for the improvement of vision we know eye exercises cannot There is a good deal of con- do They cannot be expected fusion on this subject Actually to make a small eye larger or a because the confusion is justified will not ' eye there ere still several points large thesmaller ofThey the pereye shape about the use of eye exercises change be cannot and thus which have not yet been settled manently to serve as a satisfacexpected even by physicians who h a y e tory substitute for properly studied this matter most caref- fitted glasses when a person is ully to 1Sea” ' fx0l Consult Doctor for Type of Eye Exercises By DR EDWIN P JORDAN Mrs G has written asking for a column about the use of eye exercises for fatigue of the eyes or for other disorders of these essential organs This is a good - ' NEWLYWEDS — The former Miss Edith Derrick of Eudora Ark is now Mrs Val Allen Green The bridegroom is of Layton lota Tau Kappa “We (Took the Atom Sub -- ‘ shortsighted longsighted or has There are definite and accept- astigmatism ed uses if or eye exercise This It is practically certain also is spoken of as the field of “or- that exercises will not be of benethoptics” In certain kinds of fit in such diseases of the eyes squint which js a condition in which the two eyes do not focus together satisfactorily eye exer- Wonderful SHAMPOO Also cises have real value Of course they must : be taken under the CURLSandWAVESHai direction of someone who knows how to give the proper exercises because the wrong ones might make the situation worse rather than better The reason exercises are helpful in such conditions is that they train the eye muscles to work together as was Especially Recommended for intended when nature gave peothe New SHORT HAIR Styles Exciting NEW Marlene’s HAIR WAVING ple two eyes rather than one not only makes hair shine with There are some reasons for Shampoo cleanliness not only does it give hair more hut more important Marbelieving that the proper kinds lene’s body and lustre actually CURLS and WAVES hair of exercises may help a few other with each and set Beautifies makes But the prob- hair soft shampoo luxurious easier to manage elimieye conditions nates stray ends you’ll love it You have to lem is far from simple One shampoo your hair anyway so next time try part of the seeing process is Marlene’s HAIR WAVING Shampoo focusing the picture on the back At drug & cosmeticcounters overywhero majority of eye specialists do not feel that exercises wilj help in such eye diseases and feel that they may be harmful because they are likely to delay the beginning of proper and more satisfactory methods of treatment Studies on eye exercises are continuing It seems likely that eye exercises will be found to have value in a few disorders of the eyes but can never be substituted successfully for other measures of treatment including glasses special drugs and surgery arvfa'eVOra oickoffh® agt Qvee the fHutnP' tr° v’s°bUVe select entctoP ki of iuv to took for this tool H it restrvtd for only 1 Sai 3 e'e3SVtoa fresh nOVradS’deSSe' sliced ' )' e finest in Spi cos end ErtracH th A ife-' - Watch i to form-- j seductive and fitting Men’s trunks can be worn for active swimming the shirt also goes with slacks and shorts In a handsome Signature eotton print called Sudan Colors: Terra Cotta Blue Nile Egyptian Wine your mail and remember The ladies’ suit is 'redeem your Swift’s Meats for Babies coupon fake it to your favorite foid store today! 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