Show £E Standard-Examin- Sundav Auaust 12 1990 er Horizons causing problems Step-daught- er By EVELYN PETERSEN I Q brought my daughter into my new marriage to a man with a has a daughter The job and lives with us even though she had promised to move out and be on her own after we were married Now she plans to go to college and keep living with us to save money This might be OK if she helped out She not only refuses to contribute anything to the family budget but she won’t help clean or cook She argues whines and complains constantly Her dad who raised her alone from age 11 says she's always been that way and he wishes it could be different My relation-shi- p with my own daughter is great but the situation with this is damaging my new marriage I don’t know whether to be a friend to her a role mod- el or a parent Nothing seems to be working A Perhaps someday you can be all of these things to her but that i won’t happen until your relation- ‘ ' ly counselor who can assist you in negotiating the new family rules The counseling should include all four of you to be suc- Parent Talk News Knghl-Md- Semce cessful lt ship is based on an courteous and respectful way of living in the same household That kind of living can happen gradually but it needs to be built on a strong foundation That foundation must be your relationship as a couple You and your husband must stick together you have to decide what you want and how to go about getting it He has to stand behind you It’s a new life for him too as well as for you and your daughter This is a new family That means new ways of family living not a replay of the adult-to-adu- Concentrate on the positive ways you can support each other as you work together on goals that will help both these girls Maintain that great relationship with your She is going to need your love and guidance in the years ahead Evelyn Petersen an educator and consultant on early childhood and parenting education answers questions about teens You can write to her at The Detroit Free Press PO Box 828 Detroit MI Once 48231 past fI?V? 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