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Show " Child abuse is big problem , Winger tells women's club Ideas for better living Criticism sandwich by Dr. Ford McBride Timpanogus Community Mental Health Center Have you ever heard of the sandwich method of criticism? First give a notebook listen. Three Why are you being criticized? What are the critics motives? Keep in mind that criticism often reflects the critics own fears. Hospital Four Is your critic right? If you've heard a certain criticism many times before, it might just be true. Be honest patient list Patients at the Juab County Hospital as of Wednesday afternoon were: with yourself. Unfortunately, there are no simple answers in coping with criticism, but objective evaluation can help. If you have a question or topic you would like Dr. McBride to discuss in his column, write: Dr. M. Ford McBride, 1161 East Third North, Provo, Utah 84601.1 xEk Q ipmv 8577' f 1 City librarian Eloise C. Spencer, right, and Florence P. Kendall, chairman of the Delphic Literary Club library proj- - The Culturettes, a women's organization in Nephi, held their April 14 meeting at the home of Mrs. Marjean Bellis-ton- . down he could decide for himself whether or not his critics were right. He also found it was easier to make changes if the criticism was justified. There are several other ways of coping with criticism. Here are some guidelines: One determine whether the criticism is really directed at you. It may be the person doing the criticizing is upset about someone else and taking his anger out on you. Two How competent is the critic? Is your neighbors criticism of your taste in home furnishings valid if she doesn't know the difference between a Picasso and a planter box? On the other hand, if your boss criticizes your sales report, like the bottom piece of bread in a sandwich. Then put in your criticism like the meat of the sandwich. And final- - Dr. McBride ly cover it up with another deserved compliment. It doesn't matter which approach is used, criticism is never easy to take. All of us have had the experience of being criticized and finding it difficult to deal with. No one likes to be reminded of faults. There isnt much we can do to change our critics but we can change our response to criticism. An important key in coping with criticism is to evaluate it objectively. This is easier said than done. A friend of mine bought an inexpensive wm wrote 1 what people criticized him for. At first, he was apprehensive; it seemed like such a negative thing to do. However, he found that by writing a criticism down and thinking about it, compliment Theodore Brown, Nephi Rose Day, Nephi Veldon Goble, Nephi George Hark, Nephi Kristy Ann Snow, daughter of Mr. and Mrs. Dennis R. Snow, Nephi Lenard Syme, Moroni Winefred Wilson, Nephi Claudia Whiting, Nephi and Vt ect, leaft through one of the new books purchased by the club for the library. TNPmoto Delphic club donates for public library money The in the Club thirty-seveDelphic Literary jump years has presented a check for $200 that circulation records have to Nephi City for the purchase been kept. of books for the city library, Florence Kendall was chairit was announced recently by man of the fund raising drive the club. and encouraged club members The check presentation helpand their friends and relatives ed the Nephi libary commemto contribute to the library orate National Library Week. project. The Utah State Federation of Women's Clubs asked City Libriarn Eloise Spencer will select and purchase clubs throughout the state to make the improving of their the books, although club memlocal public libraries their mabers have made some suggestions as to the subject matter jor project for this year. for the books. National Library Week ends on Saturday, April 23. The Recent births as reported to theme of the week is Use Your are: Library It's the best thing the Timks-Nkwyou can do for your library Girl, born April 11 to Mr. and yourself. Nationally, liband Mrs. LaMonte Dansie. rary circulation is up ten perare Mr. and cent from 1976, the biggest Grandparents Mrs. LaMonte Dansie and Mr. and Mrs. Milton Neilsen, all of Mona. are Mrs. Mildred Sherwood gave Mrs. Leora Sperry of Nephi, Mr. and Mrs. Clarence Dansie a review of her trip to Gerof Spanish Folk and Mr. and many, France, Holland and Mrs. Owen Peery of Salt Lake Switzerland at the meeting of City. held Club the Chalice at the home of Myrtle Davis on April Girl, born April 9 to Mr. and 14. Mrs. Craig Park of Logan Mrs Davis gave the thought are Mr. and Mrs Lena and Grandparents for the evening Warner won the attendance Cleston Park and Mr. and Mrs. James H. Ockey Jr., all of Neprize. are phi. Mrs. James H. Ockey and Mr. and Mrs. Farrell Carter, all of Mrs. Verna Wright, Mrs. Nephi. Sandra Mangelson. Mrs. Barbara Cowan and Mrs. Marcdle Girl, born April 4 to Mr. and Ja( kson visited on Sunday Mrs. Morris Wright of North with Mr. and Mrs. The baby will be named Morns Wright and family in Ogden. Lisa Wright. Grandparents are North ( )gd-Mrs. Verna Wright and Mr. and Mrs. Harold Jackson, all Mr and Mrs. Scott Jackson and rhddrt-- of Grace, Idaho of Nephi. . wcrkcnd in are Mrs. Lilly Wright of rt the Fa-e- r Mrs. Idaho and : M- - and Mrs Har- .: Sophie Niph Bruno of Moroni .,d .1 u fs, , n Dr. Skip Winger, a clinical psychologist from Timpan-ogo- s Mental Community Health Center, was invited to speak to ten women on child abuse. h Dr. Winger pointed out that there is a problem with child abuse in Utah, as in other states. abuse Physical Sylvia Sperry, James Jarrett to say nuptial vows April 30 Lady Lions hear info on Juab EMT's Terry Haney and Ramon representing the East Juab Ambulance Association, were speakers at the reception at the stake center. Sylvia is a graduate of Juab High School and has worked for Allens Foodfair and Zions Sportswear. James is a graduate of Juab High School. He attended Utah Technical College, where he studied diesel mechanics. He is presently employed in Eagle, Colorado by L. A. Young Construction Company. The couple will live in Eagle following their marriage. r Conservation taught to area students Sixth grade students of the Juab District Elementary look at School got a water conservation needs in first-han- d the valley on Wednesday afternoon, when a field trip was conducted by Soil Conservation Service personnel. The students were told of the need for proper conservation practices, and saw a contrast of proper and improper practices and the effects of each. The next event of the water conservation studies for the students will be a poster head Nautilus Literary Club Evie Bosh was named president of the Nautilus Literary club year Club for the 1977-7at the annual dinner and election of officers meeting held April 7. The meeting was held 8 Winger talked next on the legal aspects of child abuse. Child abuse cases are to be The Times-New- s Nephi, Utah April 21, 1977 3 Faucets Valves Traps Fixtures Pipe PVC sch. 40 for sprinkling systems and cold water lines. We'll help you find what you need to do it yourself. Galv. pipe ABS PVC epvc Call us for your backhoe work & Builders 66 South Main Nephi, Utah Your Radio Shack Dealer 4-- Supply Plumbing D 623-119- 9 chairman. f & f FRflENPLY SERVICE LOWER FOOD PRICES The Friendly Folks! Produce Grocery Items Peanut Butter Skippy 18 oz jar. 99 Paper Towels 39 Hi Dry... Mayonnaise Kraft imiatation Margarine Parkay 1 lb pkg. Strawberries 3 ibs Oranges 9ibs. 39 . . 79 4 rl pk. 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This type of abuse is not as easily spotted but can be just as damaging to the child, the psychologist said. Memmott, meeting of the Nephi Lady Lions held at the home of Lucy Sanders recently. The two discussed the services offered by the association, the training necessary to qualify as medical technicians, the procedures of first aid available at the scene of acmedical cidents, supplies, equipment costs and the time element in getting to the scene of accidents. They also conducted a question and answer period to better acquaint all club members with the operation of the service. They invited club members to participate in the program to obtain and update equipment needed by the (beatings, slappings, etc.) is very harmful to children. People can usually tell from the physical appearance of a child is he is James Jarrett, Sj lvia Sperry Mr. and Mrs. Milton Sperry of Nephi announce the engagement and forthcoming marriage of their daughter, Sylvia, to James Jarrett, son of Mr. and Mrs. Carl Jarrett of Nephi. The couple will be married on April 30 at the Nephi Utah LDS Stake Center. Later that evening from 8 to 10 they will be honored at a reported to the police or other proper authorities. Dr. Winger talked about the characteristics of an abused child. Abused children are usually more passive than aggressive. Often times, parents who abuse their children start by casting negative aspects on the child. Dr. Winger said that they usually tell the child he is dumb or stupid and can't do anything right. These types of things will have a definite negative effect upon a child, he said. The last point Dr. Winger covered was the treatment for abused children. He said that treatment was not only for the child, but for the whole family. This could be a six to twelve month procedure and could include sending the child to a private school and putting him into a situation. Dr. Winger said that many times, a child like this will act like a little adult and 99 99 Cauliflower 29. Broccoli 29,1 Table Rite Meats Round Steak USDA Choice $1 09ib. Rump Roast USDA Choice boneless $ Top Sirloin Steak USDA Choice $1 89lb. Sliced Bacon extra lean $' 39 lb. s Chalice Club Nephi news FlOU r Golden Pop Pepsi, Great-grandparen- Great-grandparen- Great-grandparen- "1 West 25 lb. bag Dr. Pepper, Diet Pepsi - 8 pk 16 oz 79 David Spencer Local man completes Ricks play drama David Spencer, a major at Ricks College in Rex-burIdaho, recently completed his starring role in the college production of Harvey. Spencer, a son of Eloise Spencer of Nephi, has also been featured in other Ricks College productions including Ten Little Indians. Twelfth Night and Shenandoah. 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