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Show r Wednesday, April 30, 1997 Nephi, Utah fElje Page i ' ft Happenings..:. Family dinner held last Super simple side dishes the microwave ixy at Stir utes in Saturday for Eugene Wilkey in Hurricane in con- - kle with onions. Microwave 1 1 Place frozen vegetables or until thawed. at HIGH for 2 minutes longer Microcasserole. Microwave densed soup. glass Stir. minfor 8 4 HIGH minutes. HIGH for wave at when (100) enticing descriptions a menu and cooking dinner is just one of the many important things to do today. Cheesy Vegetable Medley Casserole calls for just three ingredients and takes less than fifteen minutes from mixing to serving. Convenient ingredients. Quick to fix. Great tasting. These are Sprin-planni- The family and friends of Eugene Edward Wilkey honored him at a celebration of his 80th birthday on Saturday, April 26, 1997. The celebration was held at the Zions View Ostrich Ranch in Hurricane. Gene (or E as he is affectionately called) was bora April 27, 1917. He was bora, raised and spent most of his life in Nephi. He moved to St. George in 1982. He married Jean Williams in 1950, and is the father of seven children: Mark, Rex, Dave, Jim, Jeanette Johnson (deceased), Diane DeMille, and Julie Will-deHe has 35 grandchildren and 1 Cheesy Vegetable Medley Casserole 1 I can (10 34 oz.) condensed cheddar cheese soup 1 can (2.8 oz., about 1 13 cups) French fried onions great-grandchil- d. Eugene Edward Wilkey ' I . 14 I bag (16 oz.) frozen broccoli, carrots and water chestnuts n. tfjOl . ng New babies bom to area couples Dnstactiinig body language detracts from yomir message by Elizabeth Walker Son born March 26, 1997, to If you rattle the change in your pocket, stroke your beard or Nephi. His name is Dedric Dean twist your necklace when talkDavidson. His grandparents are Connie Davidson, and John and ing to someone, your verbal mesBarbara Warner, all of Nephi. sage is muffled by your fidgetare Arnold ing andandfussing. Thats what communication conEarl and Warner, both of image Lisa Ford told Brough 300 sultant Nephi, Dale and Madge Peterson customer service and nearly marketing of Fillmore, and J.B. and Edith Davidson of Beaumont, Califor- professionals at a recent Partners in Business seminar at nia. Utah State University. ONE YEAR OLD Anthony Body language is 55 percent Scott Eichhorst celebrated his Daughter bora April 18, 1997, first birthday. He is the son of to Brady and Amy Taylor of Le- of the message, Ford said. If we Brian and Ronnie Eichhorst of van. She will be named Bailee are playing with facial hair, the hair on our headfi Taylorsville. His grandparents Taylor. Her grandparents twisting are Thad and Marilyn Lynn or our jewelry, people flipping are Connie Dubinsky of Levan Stephensen of Nephi, Ron and and the late James Taylor, Den- are distracted by how were sayLynda Jacobsen of Logan, and ing things. Theyre overwhelmed Scott and Barbara Eichhorst of ise Vandenburg of Templeton, by the how and dont hear the FYancis and Urb and California, Salt Lake City. what of our message. are Madge Otteson and Vandenburg of Semi Valley, CalFord, creator of the videotape are Decima Jacobsen, both ofNephi, ifornia. How to Give Exceptionseries, Ellis and Delores Anderson of Al and Beulah Cissney of al Customer Service, contends Pocatello, Idaho, and Doug and Paso Robles, California, and that facial expression stance, Seri Bates of San Jose, Califor- Helen Vandenburg of Canoga and tone of voice determine if we : California. . nia: Park, are perceived as powerful and Jeff and Michelle Davidson of Great-grandparen- ts Great-grandparen- Great-grandparen- ts small space by slouching, crossing their legs and holding their hands behind them. What they dont realize is that the more space you take up, the more power and credibility you have. Ford says men are better at taking up space. She suggests sitting with your arms resting on arms of a chair or around on the back of an adjacent chair. When standing, don't cross your arms. Position feet slightly apart; possibly place one hand on a hip with the thumb turned out. "People dont trust people who dont show their hands she, said. .Thats really the origiri of the handshake people extended hands to show they werent holding weapons, she added. Facial expression is another indicator of power, according to Ford. Powerful people smile when pleased; powerless people smile to please. She cited former president Jimmy Carter as one whose constant smiling robbed him of his credibility Tbne of voice can be a real turncredible by others. Women, especially, often off to listeners as well, but the present themselves in what I call problems are usually gender spethe little girl stance, she said. cific, Ford said. Women tend to They hold their bodies in a very talk in a singsong voice which gets higher as they get nervous. On the other hand, men often talk in a monotone to sound serious. She pointed to Vice President Al Gore whose trademark monotone delivery finally seems to be improving after boring listeners for years. Both men and women are guilty of using words that belittle the listener. Words like obviously, of course and naturally are real Ford said. They make the speaker come off as abrasive and arrogant. Also, urns and ers are great distractions to the listener. Taping your presentations and conversations is one of the best strategies for identifying tone and delivery prob put-down- s, lems. Listening well is just as important as being a powerful and credible speaker, Ford said. There is a great difference between active listening and just waiting for an opportunity to talk. Good listeners are attentive and act as mirrors to the speaker. They can restate the content or the emotions contained in the message without just repeating the words they heard. Ford suggests matching the other persons tone of voice, rate of speech and type of verb choices to build rapport and to make others feel as though they count and are respected. Community Calendar. . . s The will publish a Community Calendar each week of events in our area. Ifyou would like to have your event published in this calendar, please submit it by 5 p.m. on Monday at our office at 96 South Main, Nephi or send to Community P.O. Box 77, Nephi, Utah 84648. Calendar, The No calendar events will be taken over the phone. Hmes-New- Times-New- s, Wednesday, April 30 Ouside arena, Fairgrounds - 4-- H Horse Club 5:00-7:0- 0 Friday, May 2 & 3 Lisas Dance Shoppe dance revue. 7:30 p.m., Juab High School. Tuesday, May 6 Juab County Roadshed, Fairgrounds Spray Give Away Wednesday, May 7 Tryouts for queen of the 1997 Ute Stampede. 6 p.m. at the Juab County Fairgrounds. Call Roy Tblley at to 4 623-168- sign up. Let us help you make your wedding easy and save you money in the process. We can help you to send out your announcements in an easy and inexpensive manner. In a fraction of the time that it will take you to hand address your invitations, you can make your selections from our list. The cost is only 22 for each one you select from our list and only 260 for invitations that you hand address. We mail anywhere in the United States. Come in today and find out how you can take the hard work out of your wedding and save money at the same time. up-to-da- te 96 South Main, Nephi, Utah 623-052- Mothers Day Tuesday, May 13 Juab Middle School Spring Concert. Thursday, May 15 Juab Middle School 6th grade Space Camp Mrs. Sanders and Mrs. Ogdens classes. This Community Calendar brought to you by b Mt. Ncbo Thriftway end Ben Franliiin Store The Times-Pfew- s Call today Sunday, May 11 Reminding you that we have a wedding restry at Den Franklin that can be used at cither store. 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