Show Paitr 2 - Millard (iiinn ( I SPS (Cnmnumte Ihurs - - IMS 5 Sepl $ Iti ii It l' like your own child does on his worst days tells you that you hasc made them feel like one ol yours Intense saddness: sshen they are hurt when you can’t raise their sell esteem when you start to see progress and the world kicks them again (The majority of the children in foster care are there because of the treatment they are rcceismg from some adult m then life not because they are problem children but lor some reason the opinion ol people seems to brand the child as trouble without ever lookIt is tough to raise self ing any further) esteem in a child when there are so few helping you reinforce Intense sadness and emptiness when ihev leave Intense frustrations: when you don’t have genetics as you do with your blood children (temper just like grandpa’s) to understand their behavior when you have other cultures to understand when the system lets vou liid d isil mci the weekend hum hixe not seen osier child whom heard Irom or heard ol lor 15 years We remembered md caught up the new s ol years was Hooded with Alter he left base thoughts of the 20 plus years been a lostei mother I motions in the strongest lorms is the best was to describe (osier caic" intense jos intense saddness intense li uslraiions intense base satisfactions Sometimes thought you need to be a little masochistic to endure as the and sadness olten outweighs the joy and satisfaction t Intense joy: when they ai rise the optimisnn anticipation hope you can help make their lises bet ter than they base been Intense joy when they start to smile sslien they start to trust and share their secrets ssith sou when they ask sum adsise when they do auditing scinch slums they leel at home esen acting d down as you trv to deal with “youi” child and llieir problems Intense satislactions- when they as comphsh wl en llicv say “you made a difference in in hie” when they si had paid more attention" wish when their child cn call you grandma when they sh ' ' pnde that you are then foster motliei and when the tenienibc your birthday Intense pain when they are ni veil on and you don’t know what has hap now ’hem only have one pened know a little how “missing" child people with missing chilchcn leel: is she alive? is she liappv is she hungiv Mavhe I’ll ncvci now oslei caie is not lor the faun heaited osier patents ate laced with all soils ol situations tliev didn’t teach have experienc m you minis living ed things had tend about and thouuhi fiction And probable the most dtl licult aie the psvdiologicul problems lot one ol my clnldien A psv chuit said "mother instincts ate most olten h the best il you can’t teach me deal the situation as vou leel you should you seem to have been used good ” lemembeted that judgement so lai davs and statement on liustralmu THE MEED FOR TRAFFIC LIGhTTS IS DETERMINED BY LEFT TURKS AND DELTA FOLKS £OMT MAKE ENOUGH LEFT TURNS ON 7 " I i MAIN STREET v: Kick Off Time for GRAND SAVINGS on Tires CO-O- P Sept 5th thru Sept 14th8:00 am to 5:30 pm iR EE1M0U Nil N GzFJR EE CO - OP WEATHER MARK Season Design Fiberglass & Polyester Radial Construction Economically Priced P16580R-1- 3 $2895 P17580R-1- 3 2995 P18580R-1- 3 3095 P18575R-1- 4 3295 P19575R-1- 4 3495 P20575R-1- 4 3695 P21575R-1- 4 3895 P20575R-1- 5 3895 P21575R-1- 5 4095 P22575R-14295 P23575R-1- 5 4595 economy and performance in mind All A radial tire constructed with DIRECTOR AW GOLDEN P155 I P165 P175 P185 P185 P195 P205 i s 80R 13 80R 13 80R 95 P20570R-1- 95 P19570R-1- 44 95 95 P20570R-1- $42 43 75R 45 75R 46 95 P21570R-1P22570R-1- D 7 7 7 7 8 5 D 9 5 D C C D 95 95 54 95 59 95 68 95 74 95 COOP 000 Agrmnt 14 1985 — WELCOME INTERMOUNTAIN FARMERS STORES Delta 498 West Mam $54 49 P235 out Service Richfield South Hwy 89 448 East 1st So 896 6461 529 7407 Salina Ephraim South Hyw 2814529 89 Dear Lonely Heart We’d like to thank our Aunt Angie Green for her generous subscription gift at the Millard County Chronicle Progress We especially enjoy reading Angie’s articles each week and feel she mke a positive contribution to the We wish her a happy ommunity birthday We’s also like to congratulate the Chronicle Progress for its solid and teresting news reporting Our hats are off to our free and responsible press Clay & Bonnie Huntsman & family Many single men who say they are also not very churchie or drinkers read your letter last week and express the same question “how do singles of the above description meet?" suggest anyone interested in starting such clubs contact us at the Chronicle Progress and we will put you in touch with each other to organize something Editor On the 1983 needs assessment survey described in previous articles response to questions about our schools ranked among (he highest of those surveyed 84 percent reflected a strong desire to have counseling services in schools available for personal problems as well as for academic guidance The Human Services Commission set up a subcommittee to study the need and action to school adrecommended ministration Serving on the subcomit-tewere Reece Finhnson Elaine Barron Jed inlinson Nord Brockbank Scott Speaknian and Bart Simmons The need for counseling is usually aimed at the high school level After all why should elementary school New need a counselor? children lifestyles of freedom often leave a child confused Many of today’s children are from btoken homes single parent families many have experienced rejection child abuse many are just lonely Some children have too much unsupervised time and they make unwise choices They need to get their lives back in order they need someone to some one who can see the talk to whole situation and can follow through with the family and the child A counselor can fill this role as a confident and a earing friend who can help the child in illmg the position of counselor is but a person who is coml not a mitted to the child’s cause opens up the possiblrty ol reaching those who feel so It too alone is easy to put children’s needs on the back burner Emphasizmeans building selfing prevention esteem and learning lo cope with the pressures of today Students with problems at any age need planned continuous therapy A stong counseling strucprogram can provide a ture of consistency to the student who is seeking stability Delta High School in the past has made use of the services of Central Utah Mental Health staff school district psychologists for special education and testing Family Services and even juvenile authorities depen- he u uelnes ol a supposed civilized soviet ate olten hatd to believe Makes one olten wonder vvliat happened to ( hrtsiiun ihuilv hv did do it wanted ewis to have bioihcis and sisters and alter huiving iwo sons nature’s message was the wot Id is lull ol ehildien who need lamihes llould do it again? Yes Only I’d like lo he a little wiser so would do some things heller than did and the hiiietiis to the clnldien D1IIM I) () 9 ( ding on the given situation With the enrollment now between 650 and 700 the need for one or two counselors is urgent The Northwest Accreditation Association requires one counselor for every 400 students School administrators responsive to community needs and the Human Sersubcommittee’s vices Commission are searching for a recommendation school counselor The counselor center will be positioned away from administrative offices in the school so that students will feci free to drop in without the stigma of “going to the office” There will be some group therapy individual appointments and services The emergency counselor will also work with teachers in dealing with students and identifyIt is hoped ing those with problems that the counselor will be made available to other Delta schools on a regular basis Efforts are also being in made to place a psychologist Fillmore schools as soon as possible One principal in Fillmore is a certified counselor and though it is sometimes difficult to establish rapport in the double role of administrator and counselor he is effective with some students the need counselfor some Realizing ing to all students the state of Utah quires the Student Education Plan This plan is in effect in Millard High School and working very well The basis of this plan is a teacher advisory system in which every student has a Each teacher has teacher advocate students assigned to him to do curriculum planning and testing This could be expanded to other personal counseling since the student may feel in talking with his adcomfortable vocate Teachers recognize those problems which need professional services and can refer students to the counselor if necessary Many teachers do a great job with this system others may need more training Career material is counseling available on computers and could be utilized more A career packet now used makes it possible for a student to with his amine career opportunities Another computer service parents prepared by the state and used Utah can check throughout any college in the United States for curriculum penses and aid possibilities One administrator’s ultimate goal is to enlarge on the teacher advisory system and have teachers take a more active role in counseling Another feels the need for additional counselors and In on the faculties psychologists general school officials agree that a coordinated program which interfaces with human services agencies would bring counseling functions in Millard County schools to a comfortable level Millard County Chronicle Progress The USPS Weigh-I- n 80 loa South Marge Barton Mark Genie Gyms - Rowing Machine - Bikes Horses Mini Tramps - Exercise Classes For More Info 864-473- 8 864-249- 7 give have you got to Ashhrook tvelyn Mallet Deb Greathouse 32 33 34 35 36 i3lZ a few Sales Fillmore Fillmore large Riley Wood legal in Design Office Accounts Manager Receivable Billing Circulation Julie Ward Rita Rullcreek Circulation Circulation Commercial Jane Comp production Printing Beikwith adane IIS 00 county lor rtplions Id 00 6 months il( 00 out of county lor year HO 00 months rear C Copy cents Send Address changes lo J4 Pella ah 46’4 iUu Pntfr Pad rvtu rVt if ::t4 CUMP fHllsOS us a try! lose besides at Reporter rHtllt What Editor Managing Amolt Advertising Dennis Come Mam 836 2684 Dutson Editorial MORNING CLASSES MON - WED - FRI 8:30 to 10 & 10 to 11:30 EVENING CLASSES MON - WED - THURS 5:00 to 6:30 (Call for into on coed classes) Child Care avail Morning Only Or Editor Susan ft Fitness Center C P24570R-1- Service Dear Editor: Publisher N J 59 95 E T and are effective thru Prices on tires include Sept Computer Balancing Available III EVERYONE sc 7 EDITOR 800 North 100 West Delta P215 P225 50 95 51 95 50 95 52 95 56 95 75R ltndd 4995 W hen we weie a lannlv ol seven and went on outings to the oo ot tan ot some such we looked like a lannlv ol skunks with out mix ol blonde and black ban ewis used lo sav “Mom people aie staling at us " "I et them we aie a handsome staie looking " liul it was tough lot all ot gioup them neichboi came met one dux to m bout ol all the childten that Ins sav shovel was missing and as anoihci had Indian neighboi told him that clnldien was obvious (hex had stolen Ins shovel Not obvious to me! was Hu ions! si had shovels and it stood to teason that they would go next dooi to steal a shovel when shovels denote woik and most kids die avoid woik as much as possible lie lulei came hack lo say Ins kids had misplaced Ins shovel Big mistake ha ha tailed lo see the luimoi TO THE The Shape of Things to Come at the MARK P195'70R-1- plunged ahead II had a dollar lor every time people have said stupid things to me about “my” childten I'd be in the Bahamas vacationing now One which used to made me furious and now makes me laugh is “you’re " et me tell just in it lor the money started we vou about money When a month got SI SO a day plus a SKI clothing allowance school and no medical expenses emergency preventive medicine such as physicals or DPT shots It is now up to S6(X) a no clothes allowance partial day school partial medical Anyone who has cheapen kids than $6 (XI a day me secret please give your Also there is a $25 Christmas allowance and $10 (X) lor the chile' to buy gilts And vvliat is money vs clnldien anyway Vou bet it helps hut it money wete the only consideration none of us nuts would do it On the other hand many ol us have a tough time subsidising and you olten give a lot ol mental exeteise to coats bikes and aciiv nes and then wonder il you did the tight thing have always been burned with the "Heat them like you would vour own hut they are under our jurisdiction and we may move them at any time" Irom social services Main ol my case vvoikers have been as frustrated as have but lie laws are there and the legislator don't put much money into so what else will happen without advocates? did not hunt my childten As clnldien to white but also welcomed native Americans we have had to put up with a lot ol racial nonsense It has helped me develop an acid wit which has been most helpful m a lot ol situations When my beautiful black hailed as we daughter called me “momma” waited at the check stand one day some leeble minded lady said with dis “Ves" lam “Is she your daughtei?" said "she lakes aftet her lather have been old (W Inch is the truth It shin her up “Don’t they smell ch lereni ” Dil Icient than what? When lewis niv own son went on an anti bath campaign one summer (because it kept the gills awav) le smelled dtl let cut but we did contolerated it as he slept out vince him to take a hut h helote school slatted and by ('Inistnias gitls took on a new light and we had to make apwith him loi batluoom pointment time So what is dilleienl? “How can vou stand to touch illv with envy do Person iheni’" solt skin which doesn’t peel Heckle inkle up like a prune In he line ot vou aie 10 had lemembei vivullv the inuc when one came home civ mg because Altei classmates called lici “nigger" a in ions call lo the school to pul a stop did which tliev did to it helote plained that “iiiugei" is a woid used onlv In low class with less intelligence was aliiglit to he and liitthet moic black Indian ( limese Muinan oi was not alright to he too haievei lull damned dumb to know the dil leteitce and not lo plav with people who didn’t Nice wouls but she still hull and so did inches! ullT LZC—t 4f4 |