Show HsreM 20-- Tire Helen help us By Helen Bottel DEAR HELEN: Until a month ago I never suspected my wife of even saying a swear word I gave her everything gave the children private schools We have a big house three car- s- whatever they want it’s theirs I work S eight-hoJobs a day to pay for all this And then the bomb exploded: I discover my wife has been seeing a man every chance ahe can get and that’s a lot what with me at won and the kids away I faced her with it and ahe says she doesn’t love this man but she was "lonely” She begs me to take her back doesn’t want a divorce The children know nothing about it yet How could I ever vest her again? How could a woman do this to a GAVE HER huaband who EVERYTHING DEAR GHE: How can your wifemake you un- - she’s nothing but a prostitute on welfare She lives one block from us so everyone in the neighborhood knows what is going on how he drinks with her etc I’m 78 years old and crippled with arthritis leant start another life now but I feel so humiliated If you can’t tell me what to do at least warn your readers that marrying aomeono much ser is a sure road to mlaery — ur DEAR DISCARDED: As you say you can’t move out but you ran make decisions that my give you a better home life First: don’t pay any more of your husband’s "gambling debts If the money is in your name or in a Joint account requiring your signature seep it that way — intact! When he is no - lean the FrankUa HARVEY HENDERSON la assisted £ by Ida'Fuhrluiaa Owen ( right) m jteft) prepared to Caaaty Naraiag Hone (Fheto by Karla Rawltoga) Quadriplegic attends j handicapped conference it isn’t enough if you’re never home share it with her and the children! Give her (and your marriage) another chance by cutting your work week down to near nornuiL And if you need more money — well your wife has time on her hands: why doesn’t she extra Job? — H BR that will take your mind off your Arthritis may hamper you but don’t let it close you donw Third remember thoee 28 happy years and try to bring them back Don’t think "old and discarded" I’ve known many women in their 70s who are "younger" than BOiah menTWcrk at bemgone! — H NOTE TO READERS: For your copy of "Fourteen Commandments for Parents” send a stamped envelope to Helen Bottel care of The Herald Journal — H Got a problem? An adult subject for discussion) You can talk it over in her column if you write to Helen Bottel care of The Herald Journal (c) King Features Syndicate Inc - HELEN: ! Harvey Henderaon realdeat of Franklin County Nunfare Homo for several yean attended the White House Conference for the Handicapped bi Washington D C accompanied tor £4da Fuhrlman and Moiell Owen both yjot Preston J Harvey quadriplegic since 1961 vivhen he contracted pouo was selected £4o participate in the conference as one seven delegates from Idaho The purpose of the conference was to help Inform officials in Wi of the hand- 'needs and concerns of 'trapped easy mark his "floosie” not be so receptive i get interested in a hobby other people different pursuits which For many yean Harvev was in an iron lung and was cared for by Us mother and family When the Franklin County Nursing Home was constructed Harvey was one of the first patients to be admitted Ida Fuhrlman has been scribe during Us stay at the home when he has completed couraei for three aasodate degrees by correspondence Harvey his entire system and hla two companions were transported to Salt Lake City by van life-aupp- ort 3 I am 18 yeara older than my huaband We had 21 very happy years Then he met this alcoholic divorcee and la now staying away bom home every Friday night He tells me he’s been gambling and I take money out of the bank to pay his bills but i suspect he spends isau on this floosie If she were young and I might understand but self-address- ed good-looki-ng Head Start Start-Hom- e Start programs are in the process of recruiting preschool children for the 8 The school year Start Head Start-Hocenter is located in the Millville Elementary School and is under the direction of Sheri Noble To be eligible ter these programs families must be at or below the Head Start-Ho- 1977-7- The Head Start Child on or before Oct 31 home based child must be 3 or 4 on or before Oct 81 The program Head for Start Cache County will have daily classroom experiences through Monday Thursday starting at 9 am approximately minimum Income three and a half hours guidelines as established daily will be by the (Mice of Child Busing Development Office of provided for children Human Development living in Logan Nibtey This varies with the Providence and Millville number of children in the area Children may be family To find if you are enrolled from outside the call Pearl busing area provided eligible Thomas at parents will transport I 792-61- their own children The Home Start program will care for the 3 and 4 year old child that lives outside the busing area Home based teachers make weekly home visits to supplement families Head Start-HoStart workshops win be held each Friday from 9:30 to 11:30 with am classroom activities for the children and educational workshops for the parents Field trips are a part of the program Handicapped children with special needs are also elsgibk for Head a County received degrees i te Arlo Waddenps of Valley Eagtaoering who awarded a USU scholarship te Petersen (USU photo) Engineering scholarship A scholarship given in the Department of Civil and Environmental Engineering at Utah t State University each year has been awarded r to Larry M Peterson a Junior at USU Mr Peterson is a J transfer to USU from Ricks College where he j LaLeche 'League meeting Cache Valley La Leche meet will League Thursday at 8 pm at the J home of Bonnie GesseU - - 95 West 4th North Millville La Leche League helps to good promote through mothering breast feeding with its id four monthly on the meetings womanly art id breast feeding The topic at this be will meeting I - ' Morrow presides! and Cynthia Olsen project ehalrmai (Herald Jeunal photo) To receive degrees at University of Utah Five Cache men wUl receive degrees at the University of Utah’s 108th annual commencement Saturday They are: —Dougals B Nielsen son of Mr and Mrs Dated S Nielsen 341 East 1st North Providence receive a medical doctor degree He is married to the former Carol Lynn Pehrson He plans internship and residency at the Phoenix Hoapitals Affiliated Pediatric program —Charles M Bennett son of Dr and Bin William H Bennett 829 W Wesley Rd Atlanta Ga who will receive his Juris doctor degree in law He is married to the former Jeanne who will receive a master of social work degree He is married to the former LaNea Alder and they have two children —Allan Rice son of Mr and Mrs Mahlon F Rice 775 South Main Logan who will receive a master of social work degree who-wff- l — Royce Glen Laraen son of Mr and Mrs Ifoward C Larsen 210 West 725 North Logan who will receive a master of science degree in human resources management He is married to the former Barfaro Weaden and they have one child He is preaently serving as an alcohol and drug counselor for the UR Navy hut ohms to return to Utah following his dx month contract with the Navy Snedaker — J W Loosle 1065 Loosle son of John W North 4th East Logan OPEN LATE Fridays daughter of Paul B Darley West 176 North 1st who Logan received an associate degree in arts and sciences - LARRY M Petersen left a Jaater at State University shows ment in a civfl eagtaeertag lab at ' tor CsraUe More superwomen in medicine id ? —Paula Jean Darley JENNIFER PHILLIPS daaghter of Mary and Steves Phillips Hymn is shown boepttal pajamas made by the River Heights Civic Chb Start" Receive degrees at Ricks Two Ricks College —Alfonso E Garcia students from Cache Jr Logan who received at commencement at an associate degree in that school They are: arts and sciences Club projevt "Nutrition and Weaning” Any interested people are invited to attend Babies are welcome For more information or call Karen 752-77- 85 j Linda 7534)665 Soap scoop If your skin is oily and you perspire more in the summer tnr using an antibacterial soap when you bathe was a straight In record with A grade student from Valley Engineering Company was given to Mr last year He Peterson At Salmon is a son of Mr and Mrs High Bill Peterson of Salmon School where he was Ida graduated in 1974 the Dr Roland Jeppson recipient was active in head of the department athletics student at USU announced that government and the the $350 award to a USU National Honor Society CHICAGO (UPI) An greater family found that women increasing number of responsibilities seems to physicians work nearly 90 per cent as much as do “superwoman” doctors illustrate the ’super-woma- —physicians who also are wives and mothers — was reported today in the Journal of the American Medical Association Ik Marilyn Heins of the State Wayne University of Medicine in Detroit concludes in a study of the work habits of doctors that there has been women physicians play” Dr Heins wrote She said her studies in women physicians in the past 10 to 20 years At the same time more of these women were married and had children “Increased produc- tivity in the nice of iwinmn SPECIAL! 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