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Show THE LEW SUN. LEIII. UTAH 01 In. I Kathleen Norris Says: ' Don't Look for an Angel Instead of a Husband (Bell Syndicate WNU Service. Jifcte the best seats at shows, always Sy KATHLEEN NORRIS A TROUBLED girl writes me from a Kentucky town to ask just how iecan be sure that she loves er young man enough to jiarry him; just what tests of :eart and soul and mind he lould pass before she will aow that he is the one and Ely love of her life. "Should I think he is abso lutely perfect in everything?" asks Nancy. "Because, while love him very much, I do ;ce his faults! They're not rery serious, but suppose iey grew more serious after n were married? I can't imagine myself liking another anoth-er man better, or indeed liking lik-ing another man at all, but at the same time Kenneth lues fret me in certain little rays and I'm wondering how important they are. 'Tor example, he's extravagant; seles the best seats at shows, al-oji al-oji comes for me in a taxi' if the lamily is using his car, sends me hids and gardenias when there's radl? no occasion for them. Then it takes everything so lightly; I we books, poetry, art, but if I take lira to an exhibition or concert he alj goes to please me, and I know t Also I never knew such a man i sport! Duck season, bass fishing. iaps going to Florida or Catalina tomarlin, tennis, golf, bridge, dom- as; he plays everything and he iH bet on anything. Since these gs-or rather what thev mav to, really disturb me, am I safe -marrying this man I have known my life and respect and love so ten:" Wat really disturbs ME about as letter is the almost infantile sim- ty and self-centeredness of Nan- It seems incredible that anv Jflcould grow to marriageable age o romantic and idealistic a Wvpoint ritell you something about mar. W Nancy, and at the same time wme Of the other irirla nnrt s who write me the same sort 1 question. Marriaee an cn. Marriage is one of the eye-openers , 1S ano"ier; serious pov-wng pov-wng illness, enforced solitude ;S1 religions others. Whn y,L " rfww mail J yu e "P with a bump from all your -sin creams of that gallant who was going to ride into ne on a erpnt n.v.;to P to earth to kiss your hand, and J'J0U on a Dedestnl nf of idolatry, forever. m yU marry 18 as seMsh m are, perhaps even more self- He doesn't know it any more you do. His innnnont a 2?' !cause you lov your old "er once a tv-. u. .f you don't like cornbread you ZSVJg 10 make "Ul Send VOlir mntha. J-l Worth a a . "wers wnen she is then insist that he turn out tte liehts nn,t.: v. . Ule flown to (linn . ... s..Uy consistent as a hundred ;'m you do. -'y married life Is full of pin- and sh0s. Often a "it actoalliF comet or me in a taxi, sends me orchids. Jung JL th. , lorgeis tne m glamour , . u ovJ 1 uaerment and dia- 5SfrlfleS ttat mean 'elfish-.ifference 'elfish-.ifference to her wishes. r. Jfcis .. . 1, w "fences. Sorter n. I l"e slTaon for man and woman must far. ' Wcer'fCenta?e 0f differences, ibit, ' s of opmion. ot custom, of Sot ""7Ung. VI 1 1 f K 4 .m thin. u a" ttat mai f when he is courting. UNPREDICTABLE Do you look toward marriage with an idealistic and romantic viewpoint? "Please don't," says Kathleen Norris, "for marriage is one of the eye-openers of life and in its early stages is full of jars, shocks, pinpricks . . . it is unpredictable." unpre-dictable." In today's article are tips on how YOUR problem can be solved. and quite another when the responsibilities respon-sibilities of married life have settled set-tled upon him. Your extravagant sweetheart may not turn out to be merely reasonble in what he spends upon you, as a husband, he may be penurious. The night-club-loving man often is the home-staying husband. hus-band. The man who fussed so long and so anxiously about not wanting to see too much of your family, may become as devoted to your people as you are. The husband who doesn't particularly care for children chil-dren will be the most devoted of fathers; the dreamy unsuccessful man who couldn't hold a job turns out to be a genius, and surprisingly gives you fame and wealth. Nothing is predictable about marriage mar-riage except that it is unpredictable. If it is contracted between two reasonably rea-sonably agreeable and adaptable persons, a man and woman with some generosity of spirit, with at least the intention of making it a success, it can develop from the young passion and confusions and surprises of the honeymoon into the finest, deepest and truest relationship relation-ship human beings ever will know. What True Marriage Means. It can mean that in all the years to come the bond only draws closer and dearer. That the man comes home at night to gentleness, understanding, under-standing, affection; that the woman grows slowly but steadily to feel that she need fear no crisis, no shock or sorrow in her life as long as Phil is beside her to help her face it Years of companionship make marriage, and happy marriage is attainable by 99 couples out of every 100, if they but knew it. True marriage means joys shared, sorrows sor-rows shared, nursery delights and fatigues and crises and responsibilities responsibili-ties shared, picnics and anniversaries, anniversa-ries, the successful dinner party, the unsuccessful dinner party, illness in the house, money worry, the raise in salary, vacations, visitors and always the same man and woman, planning for them, talking them over, building between them the strong web of married friendship. When a woman says to me: "from the very beginning Ned has been the sweetest, the gentlest, the most considerate con-siderate of men. There's never had to be any adjustment, any concessions conces-sions on my part We were sweethearts sweet-hearts 25 years ago and we are sweethearts today," she is saying as much for herself as for her Ned. She is saying "we were both fine, gentle, reasonable human beings, disciplined into consideration and wisdom before we were ever married." mar-ried." A lovely woman was praising her husband after 16 years of wedlock in terms that brought tears to her eyes and his. "I was a foundling," she told me later, "for the first 18 years of my life I had nothing and nobody belonging be-longing to me. I hungered for home, for love, for a chance to live. Charley Char-ley was my bosses' son when I had a factory job, he had been crippled and we thought he could not live. But he did live, and he got well, and all our happy years followed!" In other words, she told me that she and Charley had both been to the hard school of life, and had learned some of its lesson before marriage and not after it Mary Celeste Mystery The Mary Celeste was a sailboat which left New York harbor on November 7. 1872. under Capt Be-jamin Be-jamin S. Briggs. She was laden with alcohol and bound for Genoa. Five weeks later the ship was found abandoned in the Atlantic 300 miles west of Gibraltar. The crew has never been heard from. Here Come the Marines Out of the Sky! Uof 1 ' i iff, 5 ,mi - y I - I i s - M,hl.,Ml,fMii,Mr.tlllllt.Mli,l,,fll ' --- -'- T i n.milJ i iL.,1 M, ,', . , ,.l Uncle Sam believes that parachute troops may come In handy some day. These pictures, taken at the U. S. naval air station at Lakehurst, N. J., show how U. S. marine parachutists are being trained to meet the threat from abroad. Shown In oval are men waiting to go aloft for a Jump. The other pictures show what happens later. In six plane trips aloft 52 marines Jumped. Army Engineers 'Jacks of All Trades' WUi..tp.JMWW ,, ' f ' . : 4 f i i 4- T 4? y V - ? These photos, taken at Fort Belvoir, Va., one of the largest engineer corps training posts in the country, show army engiers in their diversified occupations. Left: A chemist checks the amount of chlorine being nsed in a portable purification unit. Center: Camouflaging a dummy gun. If correctly done this will fool even the all-seeing aerial camera. Right: Officers operate a machine which determines ground contours from an aerial photograph. Baby 'Missing' at Own Birth in Snowdrift ri I: r; - i i4 mrf,. - ' ' - I I I A ' - - ' ' ' ' ' 'ill Mrs. Grace Armstrong, 35, in her hospital bed at Park Falls, Wis., where she was taken by Dr. H. A. Smith after the automobile In which he was taking her to the hospital for confinement skidded into a ditch. A passing motorist took both to the hospital, where It was discovered the baby had already been born. Hurrying back to his stalled auto, Dr. Smith found a farmer with the baby an eight-pound boy whom he had found In the snow wrapped In a blanket. Birth took place while the half-conscious mother was being transferred Into the second automobile. Hospital attendants nick-named the baby "Snowball." Boy Returns to U. S. After Siberian Exile Safe at home after a long exile In Siberia, Leonard Pluto, 15, shown above Is greeted by his parents, Mr. and Mrs. J. Pluto, after he stepped off a plane In Cleveland, Ohio. Studying at school In Poland when the nation was divided, Leonard was captured by Russians and sent to a Siberian prison camp. The U. S. consulate finally secured his release. 'Defender' ' V-' ' I I V lr' i I Hi ' A sentry stands framed in the doorway as workmen at Baldwin Locomotive Works, Eddystone, Pa., put finishing touches on new eight-inch eight-inch railway gun for U. S. army. The gun, which fires a 65-pound shell 18 miles, is the first built In a private pri-vate plant since 1916. Ex-Red Found Dead 'If". , v Vi' V- I : . : Walter Krivltsky, foreign head of the Soviet foreign spy system, who was found shot to death In a Washington, Wash-ington, D. C hotel. Authorities Inclined In-clined to the belief of sniclde; others oth-ers that It was the work of the Russian OGPU. HOW10 SEW mwm 'ii2?NjTktfluI,"swARE5 then j yAftyL- drw design alttloStjat CUT UT ftNO TOaW IvTRce on gS"X40 II ALF the fun of hooking rugs is 1 in making your own designs. All you have to do is to mark the, pattern on burlap with a wax crayon and then go over it with a warm iron to set it. Simple flowers flow-ers are easy to draw and in the olden days real leaves were used for patterns. Scroll designs combined com-bined with flowers are popular now for use with Eighteenth century cen-tury furniture. The scrolls of the handsome rug shown here were hooked in gold color outlined in brown. The edge medium blue; the center darker blue and the flowers in tones of red and deep rose with leaves in two Vn of green. This diagram shows you how to make a scroll pattern that you may use in different ways. Just rule a piece of paper in one-inch squares and then follow the diagram dia-gram outlining the scroll so that its lines cross the squares exactly as they do here. Now, cut the scroll out and trace around it on the burlap repeating it at each corner; then fill in the flowers. NOTE: There are several other rug d signs with directions for knitting, crocheting crochet-ing and braiding In Booklet No. 8 of th seriei of home-making booklets which Mrs. Spears has prepared for our readers. Copy of Booklet 6 with description of tho other numbers in the seriei will be mailed to readers who will tend name and address ad-dress with 10c in coin to: MRS. RUTn WYETR SPEARS Drawer 10 Bedford Hills New Terk Enclose 10 cents for Book 8. 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