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Show Tuesday. Docamtxy 22, 1998 Lakeside Review Lee From Traditions also give children security. Children like routines and they have a need for routines and variety. Where there is no routine there is often substance abuse and the parents don't know why it happened," Lee explained. Traditions can be as simple as having waffles on Saturday nights, or going camping every summer or reading together every night. Ask your kids what their favorite traditions are. Many families have the tradition of giving new pajamas on Christmas I.vc so they can look good in the pictures on Christmas morning. Although traditions are necessary, too many traditions can be a burden. And there should be opportunities for laughter in the family, Lee said. Family jokes and a playful attitude can preserve a sense of humor in difflcult times. Each family has the potential to build stronger and more satisfying family relationships. Don't try to tackle all the areas at once. Identify one or two that seem like good places to start. Be patient with yourself and with others in your family. Celebrate effort and improvements along the way. Remember, all families are still works in progress," Lee said. 1 Also strong families enjoy spending time together. It is a good idea to create special lamily tune and to support each other in activities, Parents in strong families have clear values and they communicate these values dearly to their childien. "We may think children can see by our actions, but we need to be direct," he said. In stiong families, parents are the authority figures in the home, but reasons for rules arc explained, and children have input into the familys rules. Be firm. If a child comes home a half hour late, have him come home an hour early tomorrow, lee said. Strong families have conflicts but they tend to face and resolve them with an expectation that they can work things out, lee said. Look for solutions, don't point fingers. Lee also stressed the importance of tra- ditions. Traditions unite us and make memories, lee Sunday, December 20, 1 998 said. Davis SUndard S Traditions help keep a families together WILL1Y0URICA SURVIVEITHE WINTERtCOLD?; By RUTHMALAN Sldnclwtl Cjukthw cmtmhxxkImiI FARMINGTON - Charlienc Reid has 24 grandchildren, and in order to be close to each of them, she has started some traditions. year I hud girl's night out and they spent the night, Reid said. We made crafts, did plays, went shopping and played games." The older girls got to do facials and give and receive foot massages. The grandchildien have asked when their next ovemightcr will be, Reid said. year I started something and now Ive found out it is a tradition, she said. Reid and her six granddaughters ages 5 to 10 made pioneer dolls together. But Reid said she found it was little more difflcult with the boys. She took them to a rodeo and the next morning they all went swimming at the neighbors' pool. 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