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Show September ft. IWft What to tell a child Tips on discussing deaths llie most likely pci sun ui die ill llie hie ol a child is ;i prand parent or .1 iiival pruiulpurcnl. II ;i propel ly diseiissed. this cun prowtli expei lenee lor holh the child and parent It can the iK' ol experience ili.it will help llie child deal with Inline events pcilaminp to death, sax s ( den Jenson, laiuilv and liiinun developnieni specialist in the l ull Suite l:nieisity l.ile Ollen Collepc ol children .ire sheltered Iront discussions about dentil. The verv k k iMim.il. hiini.in piiK'ess ol'dvmp Iceland tour (from page 1) into the southern highlands: the view ili.ini'inp hom ;i picture poste.ud panoiain.i ol rollmp lulls .iihl ci.isw d.iles to black l.txa dcseit and l.uiv tale nioiiiiiains. whose evei ih.tnpine eolois luve then tools in the volcanic locks whu h loi in them Sloppinp to eiio ;i hox lunch nt Ihoisnioik. .1 lush ii.itui.il o;isis ol grassland iiul hm.li woods, scl ill a dwp x alley pu.iidcd bv three piasters, wi' then .ix cfs'il ucioss x ast lax a Ivsls. IoisIiiil' the Sis'iiihi llsa K ix si iii le.isi i h lx tunes to view ills' III.IIIV lll.lls'st K VV. ltd kills Al iIiciii. Scli.il.iihlsloss. ? w Ins h is IiilIi. ,i loot path lies ,ii ihc hoiimii ol the slill where it s.isc;ules dwvn oll'cnnc .i s.iic .nisi e.isv oppoiiunilv to w. ilk lull nisi the waici kill ansi oul ills' ollls'l Shis'. M.llIV ol us lihik .islv mil. ii.'s ol this wet expei lenee. It slisln t mailer unis h il we lv c.ime vvettei because we were .ilreadv wet Iroin one ol the lew uiistv. l.unv si. iv s we lud vxpen s'liced since coniine lo leelansl We all look photographs liom heliuisl this vvatet tall. 'lie ol laid I. ii I II ('oiiluuied next week... has ken removed from the home and taken lo hospitals and rest homes. As a result, families do not luxe as much opportunity to experience and discuss the topic of death and dymp. Jenson says when someone close to the child such as a grandparent or a close neighbor sites, these are some suggestions lor approaching the topic. fell children as soon as possible that the person they love lias died. Il is usually ktter that told In someone close children to them. Children should pi veil as honest an explanation as possible. Statements such as "Grandfather has pone to sleep" or "pone on a lone journey" tire not pood explanations. Predict lor the children that (hex are likely lo feel real sad and wish that the loved person had not died. Explain that il is okay to have iliese Icelinps. Sli.ne with the child that you loo have those same Icclmps. As soon as possible explain vour beliefs about death and what has happened to the loved one. It is wise for parents to think this throuph pnoi to the actual death. Children should invited lo ask and be tpicsiions pivcn a chance to share concerns and fears. I'aients or other responsible adults will likely need to have multiple discussions with children about the topic. One discussion will likely not do the job. Children who are old cnoupli lo talk and understand Icclmps should he included in the funeral and other rituals associated with the mourninp and burial of the loved one. ' Il is important that parents and other adults model appropriate prievinp behavior. Il is okay to erv and express your Icelinps k k DUTCHWEST wood stoves ON SALE now! ' '' : j-f- HURRY! S ALE ... 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The death of a prandparent or preat prandpar-en- t can valuable learninp experience. may come out in play. aetmp oul behavior or even in some artistic creation. It is important to share with children how the person died so the child docs not develop maui-ca- l thmkinp (hat could include them kmp the cause of death. The state of I lorida pels its Rcmcmkr. in your discussions about death with children name from a Spanish word meaii-in"lull of flowers." that (hey were not horn with a k p Pape Three - For Sale FOR SALE. You haul, wo will nuioiali; prir.ii. Call 489 8755 al lar 6 p.iu. TFN FRESH PEACHES' PtiadifiK, applus, pnars A nnclariinih ara rnaily lor Viiur n.iniuni) and ii.iIiik) I 'liia sum pirkml daily for triihhliuss Mi If jp riiality. Fruit stand hi Paysun (in Sn. Hwy. 91 Opon Mull, COAL thru Sal. p.m. 1 p.m.MiiMullin On. SP13EUL COMPLETE 18 $ syslmn only DISH 1 99.95. Guaranlniid l.iwust prn:n in lliii USA. R'l'iuims pur fhasu cl suhsi.ripliun r.ltanniils. 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