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Show THE SALT LAKE TIMES FRIDAY, NOVEMBER 16, 1962 Page Eleven .'. How Do Men Feel at the Time They Are Getting a Divorce? with truth and insult that would inflict much damage to a woman less articulate than he. In the end Steiner said that maybe there was something in his own make-u- p that brought out a woman's mean and cruel side. He supposed he had now learned to "blow my stack less." Steiner had met a girl of hisi own faith, who showed signs of being not too pleasant, but who was beautiful like Joanne. The Judge suggested he should have married this girl instead. "No," he said, "if I was suddenly con-fronted with the two women, I'd go back to the girl I married.': Judge Kelley suggested that he might not be ready to marry anyone yet, and Steiner con-curred. How do men feel at the time they are getting a divorce? How do they feel about it now? And could they have prevented it? These are the questions that domestic relations Judge Flor-ence Kelley asked of four di-vorced men in the August Cos-mopolitan. The purpose of this meeting was to ascertain where the blame lay in the marital diffi-culties of these four individuals, and to discover if they ever, frankly and honestly, faced the possibility of their own guilt. One of the most interesting cases seems to be that of Dr. David Steiner. Like the other three, Steiner used a handful of words to describe the cause of his divorce. Phrases tumbled like slogans from the quartet, and the doctor's was, "Our re-ligions were different." This was his excuse slip, for religious differences in Steiner's words, "was the whole trouble." At age 39, the man had a tanned skin and an athletic build. He skiied in the winter, sailed in the summer. As a heart special-ist his work carried him to such places as London, Stockholm and Paris. Four fourteen . months David Steiner, Jewish, was married to a beautiful girl named Joanne, Catholic. "We met, fell in love, had a nice, pleasant long affair (five month) before we mar-ried." He told her from the be-ginning that as a marriage it would never work out. Though the possibility of a wedding was out of the question during the affair, the actual step was taken at breakneck speed. This was the first of several in-consistencies to crop up in his explanation of his broken mar-riage. Though he insisted religion was the sole stumbling block, he admitted, "Our religious back-grounds were not strong. I did not go to synagogue and she never went to church." At the time of the wedding he demanded that Joanne con-vert to Judaism. When Judge Kelley asked why, Steiner re-plied, "Because I wanted our children to be brought up in the Jewish faith." A few minutes later he admitted, "Of course, I never wanted to have children at all." Eventually the truth weaved its way to the surface. The doc-tor admitted that he is a master of cutting remarks, one barbed Blender of Tea Like a Musician The emphasis everywhere is on "taking tea" and "seeing" seeing that the big swing is to spiced tea! You take tea and dis-cover oranges and sweet spices skillfully blended into it, too. This entire trend goes back only ten short years, when Ruth Bige-lo- w, then a top flight New York decorator, started blending teas and breaking precedents. In a field predominated by men for centuries she suddenly longed for the highly individual teas of China which she was denied be-cause of the Bamboo curtain. Being a tea taster by heart, she decided to do something toward duplicating the specialty blends. A tea taster, like a poet or a musician, is' born and not made. Such a gifted person knows in advance what a particular tea will contribute when combined with other different teas; recog-nizes varying characteristics and quality; has a delicate palate, and an exquisite sense of aroma. When she started blending teas for shadings and nuances, for "light tones"a nd "heavy tones" like the composer does. Mrs. Bigelow recalled that from Colonial days on, the spe-cial treat in the teacup was the add slice of orange, some care-fully selected spices. George Washington was an ardent tea drinker, taking it for breakfast and supper. How did Martha vary his tea? No doubt as others did in her day, by adding spices and orange to his cup. But all this had to be done after the tea was fully brewed. Fortunately, serv-ants were at hand to attend to such pleasant chores. But for the modern tea drinker, with no servant at beckand call, with not a minute to spare for extra prep-aration of tea, Mrs. Bigelow has sought to duplicate this delight-ful blend, having it ready to serve without requiring extra time consuming steps. It had to be a complete package, an up-to-da- te convenience blend, out of the leisurely past but ready for immediate easy serving in the busy homes of today. She must create a tea combination rich but not astringent, lively and yet having a delicacy of taste, with plenty of tang to appeal to both men and women. The flower shaded kitchen of the Bigelow's 18th century home with land, brook and woods for miles in Wilton, Conn., and her workshop. Using just collector's items in her home Mrs. Bigelow went to work, hardly realizing she was re-creati- ng a colonial recipe with authentic tools of that day! There was for instance the one piece hand cut chestnut brown wood bowl, fashioned by an early Yankee settler, into which she poured her selection of mountain grown fine Ceylon tea. The blue and white authentic Canton china fruit dish held her ever replenished supply of fresh oranges. The aluring spices were ground in the little antique cof-fee mill. Then the well worn mortar and pestle came into play followed by the careful mixing of ingredients with an old fash-ioned wood butter paddle spoon. Mrs. Bigelow blended and tasted again and again until the genu-ine Chinese teapot and teacup revealed success, Only then was the new tea complete, with nothing to add to make it the perfect drink. Post Office Won't Pay Unless a Parcel's Insured "There is a general misunder-standing among the mailing pub-lic that indemnity will be paid by the Post Office Department on all lost or damaged mail," says Postmaster D.R. Trevithick. According to the postmaster, patrons are often disturbed if they present a damaged parcel to the post office and find that no indemnity will be paid unless the parcel is insured, registered, or collect on delivery. "Although every effort is made to protect all mail while it is in the custody of the postal service, the postmaster said, "unavoidable circumstances oc-casionally occur which result in mail being lost or damaged. The only way mailers may reduce the possibility of financial loss on valuable items is to avail them-selves of those services which pay indemnity such as registered insured or collect on delivery. The fact that indemnity is not paid on ordinary mail, how-ever, does not mean that the post office has no interest in situations where ordinary mail is lost or damaged or otherwise improperly handled. Postmaster Trevithick wants it to be known that reports by the public of loss, rifling, delay, or damage to ordinary mail are of the great-est value in finding and correct-ing faults in the postal service. Complaints concerning the postal service may be made in writing to the postmaster or they may be made orally by calling DA 11, Ext. 349. Amazing Compound Dissolves Common Warts Away Without Cutting or Burning Doctors warn picking or scratch-ing at warts may cause bleeding, spreading. Now amazing Com pound W penetrates into warts, destroys their cells, actually melts warts away without cutting or burning. Painless, colorless Compound W, used as directed, removes common warts safely, effectively, leaves no ugly scars. Children Thrive on Compassion In March of Dimes Arthritis Fight "We study the child, not the laboratory report." When Dr. Jane Borges, director of the March of Dimes- - jML-- PfcH financed Arthritis Special Treatment Center at the Home 1 fefc3 1 for Crippled Children in Pittsburgh, Pa., says this, she I 1 fc-isn'- t trying to put the laboratories out of business. I Sl sL But she is trying and succeeding in putting children I stricken with rheumatoid arthritis back in the important k P' A business of leading nearly ; 7 jf Tfr 'fM normal lives. , arthritis at age six and had been in and out of hospitals Jfrffltyjf sWJ'sVm43'-k-sH II Juvenile rheumatoid arthri-- smce that time. When she was f-- ' f -- 4 CZmL, fl tis, which afflicts 30,000 young- - at home, she was rarely taken v ls ffS sters in the United States, is outside and saw other children i 1 f lWirSli a cruel disease which comes oniy infrequently. She was A f Wffk 1 ' and goes like a thief-i- the painfully shy, took little in- - f 'liPmi night Seemingly healthy chil- - terest in her studies. V3?T" Cl wi. SUfuI COnnaCtnr.h! Today, nearly a year later, USPX I fXSffiSrTf"nSLSirffLf 25X5 this same girl is still confined1M t0 a wheel chair. She must at- - fazw' IjwSm $ISlV53S? rfrfJSSLi Stfc end many of her classes at iHSSSiS the Home's branch of the Pitts- - If f IWM oSn occursp burh scho1 system hil? in mlUlMJEaaad DltecontiZSkg research, 0ther complications Dr. Jane Borges and young arth. SSfStSl? arthntu inHhP However, daily baths in the Pe"t exchange "girl talk" Hubbar.d tank, used so success-- during physical examination, reason for its unpredictable - virtim and cycle of recurrence is yet jySy arestiU the same. The disease 0Wn have restored the use of her 13 ere. . Prevent Side-Effec- ts arms and hands. Occupational B"J i??.lvlual is nP What Dr. Borges and a tterapy-s- he is just now fin-- e Jg we saw growing number of expert. in ishing JtgJ ygafso treating the emo-- dbeuffioeueye theyTnow ISoSlSiSSuew finalnan environmental with juvenile is how to prevent much of the ggftS rheumatoid arthritis, not just permanent Physical, mental e physical ones, we are often and social scarring which have an excellent student. ch attitudes of de-be- en agonizing by-produ- cts of Child in Pain spair to ones of cheerfulness ' this disease for so lon-g- time. In another case a six.year- - and hope." Rejecting old of oM girl after four yearg of A prominent Canadian phy- - prolonged bed rest and virtual operations and ass0rted treat- - sician and specialist in juve- - isolation, these.innovators have ment wag unable tQ adjust to nile rheumatoid arthritis, Dr. introduced the rheumatoid schQol and playmales because William M. Gibson, recently arthritis child to programs ot Qf intermittent pain and the described the ideal treatment intensive therapy and close childhood awareness that she setting as "an area where per- - contact with children 01: tne was the only child with a brace, sonnel acquainted with the same age group. They encour- - Placed among children with problem of arthritis in children age regular school attendance. similar problems, she was ex- - are present every time the At the same time, education d tQ the physical and so patient is seen." - i of the family in all aspects ol dal therapies of Dr. Borges' Arthritis Special Treatment the illness is begun early oy pr0gram she went back home Centers, supported by local the physician with diligent toi- - gix months later a different chapters of The National Foun-- low-u- p by the social worker. chnd obedient . . . getting dation with March of Dimes Successful Results along happily with brothers, funds, are already providing t mnct re- - sisters and playmates," accord-- this service in Pittsburgh suits b2 achifved, ing to a grateful mother through Dr. Borges, and the have March of Dimes-sup- - Dr. Borges, a trim, vibrant through her colleagues in many '"51 (center in Pittsburgh, woman, views her work at the other American cities, ported March of Dimes-finance- d cen-- Additional centers are planned co'tf miSr admitted a 12-yea- r- ter and its results this way: centers of hope where par-- SiJ who could not move "The laboratory reports on ents can read the future in SirSoulders elbows, or arms, these children, after we have their children's faces, not in she contracted rheumatoid worked with them for a time, the laboratory reports. t wow You'll enjoy the full flavor of choice grains and hops whenever you open a bottle of light Olympia Beer. 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